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Archived questions from: November, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm trying to get my best friend's husband out of my head! Should I just choose him over her though?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have liked my best friends husband ever since they got together. But then they got married and i to was married so i didnt think much of it. Well we have all been really good friends and i have always thought that he liked me from the way that he ...

I'm in love with someone else - but should I just settle for my less physical marriage or move on?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I'm a 25-year old christian guy that married his first girlfriend 2 years ago (after dating her for 3 years). Before I met her, I spent most of my time behind a computer, not meeting girls. Although I was not a christian when we started dating, I ...

I found powder on his collar and he made excuses, are they believable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Quick question. Yesterday i thought i saw something weird on my boyfried's collar. Almost like powder. I said what's that on your shirt and he said oh fuzz from the dryer, the shirt is old. I said no--this right here isn't fuzz(there was f...

She is still cheating on me, what am I suppose to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

30 November 2006 (?) - please advice me on what to do. I have a girl friend as my lover, and I really love her that I never won't to loss her no matter what will happen between us, though she promised never to leave me. but now with all the promises she have made with me, ...

I'm scared to leave him, he raped his last girlfriend, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i have found out that my boyfriend is a rapist, he raped his last girlfriend she used to be my best friend until she left. they have a daughter if i dump him i will get raped and that has happened to me before what can i do he is obssed in me...

I don't want to break him away from his friends, but this is important to me. Am I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi, Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for just over 6 months! I really really care about him, but last night we had our very first row. I dont know how to make it better and i dont want to loose him - this row is playing such a big part on ...

I want him to realize that we can do this long term, how do I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - How cnn you convince someone that you are right for each other long term? My boyfriend is having a crisis that we cant make each other happy if we stay together and get married, etc. He doesnt feel the way he used to - that we were definitely going ...

My baby stresses me out, my husband and I get into fights, we have no sex life - I'm totally depressed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i m married since 4years. i had 14mnts old son. since then me and my husband has problem we dont have sex life coz i m not attrected to my husband as he has put on lots of weight. i m so much stressed out with my baby so at the end of the day i and ...

I keep thinking about my ex, but I DO want to be with my new bf, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - hello, I am really struggling to get over my ex. I have a new boyfriend who is lovely, and have been with him for 4 months now, yet I still find myself feeling so low and crying about the loss of my ex. My ex was the first person i have love...

I'm having an affair, his girlfriend knows about it, what am I suppose to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6553 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i met a man that i used to go out with when i was younger,but i was married.To cut a long story short, i started an affair with him.My marriage came to an end,which was hell for me and my girl.This man isnt married but lives with someone.He has no ...

I'm 25 and fit... She's 23 and has piled on the pounds... how do I fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, earlier this year we unepectedly had a kid. I love my daughter and girlfriend very much but my girlfriend and i are suppose to marry next year and my girlfriend has piled on the pounds like no business ...

My girlfriend tells everyone at work about me, what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - Hi Everyone I really dont know what to think anymore with my partner.Firstly her work is getting to me.She sometimes goes to work and tells them every aspect of our relationship,i feel they know more about me than i do myself.And sometimes im judged ...

I know we're not ready for the relationship, so what should I be doing??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma with my ex (we broke up 2 months ago). I want to be with him, but not right now because the timing is all wrong. We broke up mainly because he was depressed and homeless/jobless, but he's back on his feet again and seems ...

He said he was 25... He's 30. He said he had a daughter... He has two kids.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have a question about age differences. I am 21 and my fiance is 30. When I met him he told me that he was 25; I was 19 going on to 20. He told me that he had a daughter and that he had been married before. One of my friends through which I ...

He has a hard time with my past! He was addicted to cocaine..did the drugs mess with his head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - ive been with my partener over a year now,and he just cant accept ive had a past..he gets really wound up and jealous....a good few years ago he was addicted to cocaine but hes been of it for 4 years now!.do u think the drugs are messing with his ...

My husband has nudie pics on his answerphone and chats and flirts with girls online... My Christian beliefs tell me to stay in the marriage - what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6548 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi there I have a problem,I have been married for 4 years the years was not smooth.Now for the 1st time there is another females invovle.My sister told me that there is naked picture of a woman on my husband phone,when I qeustion him about it he sa...

Someone said that he was using me for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - i have a boyfriend, its been almost 1 week since we started dating and he says he loves me and isnt using me for sex but then again he acts like it and someone said that he was...what should i do? should i beleive him??...

She's known as a bit of a pyscho

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6097 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - my bf has been seeing his ex alot that i dont mind because i see mine every week so i cant complain but im worried coz his exs mate is in one of my classes and tell me that his ex is still madly in love with my bf and will do anything to get him ...

She doesn't believe she has ever made a mistake

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - As of late, I seem to be worrying about the relationship I have with my girlfriend. She seems insensitive to my feelings most of the time. She brings up things that her ex did and makes me feel like I'm not "measuring up." I also feel like she does ...

We started dating 6 months after his wife died, now he tells me he doesn't love me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hi have split with my boyfirend, has been 6 weeks now. i wrote ina while ago and explained it all but to recaphe's a widower, and we started seeing eachother 6 months after his wife died.over two years we'd fallen in love ,and then as it all star...

I'm feeling really down and my family is not close like we once were!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I feel very tired and depress today I was tempted to cry all day. I prepared a national exam very hard while I was working part time for uni last year, it caused the boy I was dating to drop me, and morevover I failed. My sister and brother are ...

He doesn't want to stop working overtime and his family would think I'm controlling if he did! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hey, i had put up a question yesterday "My BF works too much and I don't feel loved!" thanks for all the replies. but the real problem is that i have spoken to him about it. ive told him everything. all he says is that he doesnt no wot to do about ...

I cheated on her when drunk... how can I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6367 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - Hi, i please need help i don't know what to do. i have been home one year now but i really wasn't content with my self, last week i got very drunk and cheated on my girlfriend, i know that this happened as a combo of my own state of mind and the ...

He has mood swings and will turn funny on me - what might be causing them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for over 6months we are really close and in love but every now and then he will just turn funny on me and always apoligies and says why am i still with him because he thinks hes a complete idiot for the mood changes. ...

I'm in love with a guy who uses me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I'm deeply in love with a guy that completely uses me. He flatters me (an unusual occurance for anyone to) non-stop until I feel safe enough with him and trust him enough to take my clothes off, on webcam. Then, he'll reluctantly talk to me and if i ...

Didn't know he was married and now I'm 5 months pregnant by him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Ok. Well, I've contemplated writing in here, but ever heard the saying "You'll go nuts if you don't talk to someone?", yeah. Well that's me. I'm a single mom of a daughter who is 13. I got into a relationship not knowing this man was married. When I ...

My nightmare came true...my bf doesn't feel the same about me as he used to! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - PLease help... my boyfriend, after two years, has decided that he isnt sure Im the one for him any more. He doesnt think he feels the same as he used to... that he wanted to marry me, that i was the one for him, etc. I cant bear it. its my nightmare ...

His ex says she pregnant w/ his baby, but he says that's impossible! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend said he received a text message from his ex-girlfriend saying that she is pregnant and its his child. We have been together for 2 years now. He has cheated on me in the past with her but her swears that the last time he was with her ...

He visited me after I exposed everything about him to his new gf - they're still together! I'm so upset.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - well here i am back again to let you know what happend after i expsoed my husband to his new girlfriend .he was here with me yesterday talking to me about his new house and telling me he was moveing into it maybe today and telling what she was ...

We spent hours together laughing and kissing - now he hardly talks to me and flirts with other girls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - okay well.. theres this boy i'v known him for three years now and we have been really good friends and av always had a thing for him and he says to me all the time that he's had a thing for me too.. recently i told hom i liked him again anf we met ...

My bf has a terrible temper - should we continue together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6557 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of one year has a terrible temper. He feels very bad about it, knows it is wrong, says it makes him a "shit" person and will try to get better. Soon afterwards he is very very remorseful but I am worried that I will never know in the ...

He left me b/c he said he was bi, then he came back! I love him, but I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - here is a gay related question. I was in a commited gay relationship for a few years long distance, now my partner several months back ended it saying that his feelings changed and that he thinks he is bi. Several months later while pic...

My GF doesn't want to be with me anymore, we have a 7 month old baby - could it be post-natal depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - hi just recently my girlfreind told me doesnt want to be with me anymore. She said we have lost the spark and we have two kids 7 months and 2.5 years. I think she still loves me. I love love her more than anything. I think she might have post natal ...

My BF works too much and I don't feel loved!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - my bf and i have been together a year. recently hes not had time with me. i c him on a saturday from 2 - 5 and a monday from 2.30-4. its not alot for me. i used to have whole days on a saturday only with him (long distance relationship) and we used ...

I'm 36 and my wife just told me she loves me but isn't 'in love' with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - I am a 36 year old male with a 9 year old son. My wife has recently told me that she no longer finds me physicaly or mentaly attractive. She says that she loves me but is not in love with me? I am very hurt and confused and wondered what I can do to ...

5 weeks until our baby is due, but I just found out he is cheating on me with his secretary!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6558 days ago

28 November 2006 (?) - I found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me for the past 3-4 months with his secretary. I caught him red handed. To top things off, my boyfriend and I live together and we are expecting to have a little girl in 5 weeks. I am at a loss as ...

How do I find out who this phone number belongs to? It was in his phone and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - My husband left me a few weeks ago I thought everything was fine, we are back together now but while we were seperated the mobile phone bill came and I noticed a number so I went though his phone and found it under the name jon so I phoned it and ...

When things are going perfect, he ignores me! He says it's just in my head - thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I'm very confused. I totally fell head over heals for this guy and everytime it seems things are going perfect he just all of a sudden ignores me at least for one day and then things are fine again. I think it is weird and I have brought it up more ...

She's teasing me about my penis

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - hi there i am aged 19 and i have had sex for my 1st time just on thursday (23/11/06, but she wasnt a virgin and now shes teasin me about the length of my penis.... i have always have been worried about the size, and now im starting to feel self con...

I used to be a player, but I've changed - but the girl I like doesn't believe me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - I use to be known as the high school player in high school b/c I was never ready for a serious relationship, Now im a JR in college and alot wiser, and now I've found a girl that I think may be the one, but she doesnt beleived I have changed my ...

I want to confront my friend about her having an affair with one of our teachers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I'm really suspicious of one of my friends because i think she having an affair with one of the teachers at our school! Before you think its my over active imagination consider this: 1.she nearly called him by his first name (we aren't even in his c...

He says the texts are from a coworker, but I know they're from another woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 8 years, having just married 3 months ago. Recently, he has been sending/receiving several text messages on his phone from some girl on the other side of the country. He claims all the calls are from some new ...

My bf and I never had the spark that this new guy and I have - I'm torn on what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for five years, on and off. The off times have been because after a while I tend to get bored and think I'm too young for committment and that I'm missing out on something. I'm 22. I always end up back with my fella. I...

I found he was looking for a "masseuse", but now he's pleading for my forgiveness!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and until last night I thought we were very happy. I was going through his sent emails innocently searching for a work-related one when i found a message he'd sent asking for an online 'masseuse' to send him ...

I want kids but he does not. We're very happy otherwise, so should we split?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I have just read questions very similar to my own but I still feel compelled to write. I have been with my partner for nearly 3yrs and I have to say that he is the most kind, sincere and funny man I have ever met. I am very much in ...

After splitting to deal with his family problems, our relationship isn't the same. Should I give up on it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this guy and hes so perfect i love him so much.. we started of going out for 4 months and then we just split apart because he was having family problems and he said that he had to get some things straightened out and we ...

He broke up with me then shut out everyone in his life. It hurts me to see him like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - What are reasons for guys to broke a perfect relationship up if there was no cheating involed? If he was so happy with me then why would he broke it off? We always got along there was no fighting or anything. I was the perfect girlfriend.........

When I was drunk I threatened my friends with violence - how can I make it up to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - my best friend betrayed me over a girl he's known for 2 months and ive known him for 7 years.He is 22 she is 30 and she has 2 kids he is now living with her only after a month of knowing her.her best friend is my ex girlfriend,she finnished me ...

I love him to bits but i feel like i am a prisoner in my own home!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hi, i am a 31 year old with 3 children. the eldest two are from are previous relationship and are 10 and 9. i have been split from their dad for 7 years. at first it was difficult but we have been very good friends for the past 5 or so years. i now ...

My long distance bf cried to me about how I'm not the one! What do I do when I see him next??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Please help me I am desperate. My boyfriend of two years spent last night crying on the phone to me as he is worried I am not the one. He says he doesnt feel how he used to ( that he was sure I was his future and we were going to get married, etc...