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Archived questions from: January, 2005 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I stay and make everyone else happy? Or leave and please myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - I am due to be married in August. I moved in with my fiance and my parents were not pleased as they are strict Catholics, however, I had to get out of their house where I was living as I suffer from depression and there was a major family upheaval ...

My husband is an online poker addict

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - My Husband has a gambling Problem We have been married for almost a yearand have a 5 month old with him and I have a 5 year old, and did not know he gambles online. We are in alot of debt, and he has lied to me about him not getting a bouns,...

My new man is dangerously obsessed with my sexual past

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - I was living with my partner of 6 years when I met someone else through a sports hobby, he was my instructor.There was very clearly something between us which is why after about years deliberation from my side and much discussion with the new man, ...

My girlfriend of 14 years is obsessed with another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and i have been together for 14 years, we have 3 children, all girls, and we used to be happy. Every night she goes to her friends house (a she) from 10.30pm - 1.00am, 1.30+. She doesnt talk about anything other than what (she) di...

My dying boyfriend never wants to see me again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7237 days ago

30 January 2005 (?) - My boyfriend is dying and last week he got mad at me when I got angry now he never ever wants to see me again and every time my name is mentioned he gets very angry and does not want to hear my name I want so much to see him before he leaves this ...

My fiancee just refuses to travel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7240 days ago

30 January 2005 (?) - The only thing my fiancee and I argue about is travelling. He won't go on a plane (I think he had a traumatic experience as a child) so I comprimised and said we would just drive to where ever around the country. I can accept that because I have ...

Need ideas on how to prevent so many arguments

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7242 days ago

29 January 2005 (?) - Please please help me. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, but for the last 2 or 3 we have been having huge arguments that we don't seem able to control. They are often about small topics such as football or a tiny aspect of life. He ...

My new man nips out to visit "friend" and takes all his belongings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7242 days ago

29 January 2005 (?) - Help I don't no what to do, I met a man I completely fell in love with. Everything has been going fantastic making plans for future, he came to my house on wednesday. Everything was normal I was quiet due to being tired, next thing I know he ...

Have I blown my relationship with my bad behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7243 days ago

28 January 2005 (?) - I have been married for 3years and we have a daughter of 2yrs old.When we first met everything was great and we were like soulmates,but gradually as time went on I did let her down on many occasions,through drinkink too much or getting in trouble ...

My family can't stand my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7241 days ago

28 January 2005 (?) - Dear Agony Aunt, My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year and are really happy together. Everything in our relationship is going well and we have no complaints about anything, just the fact that we live 2 hours apart and only see eac...

My parents don't approve of my drunk boyfriend...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

27 January 2005 (?) - I have been going out with this guy for nearly a year now and my parents don't approve of him. However I am 23 so I know that shouldn't matter the only problem is his drinking habbit. When he is sober he is the most caring guy you could possibly ...

Should I trust my boyfriend... Who has "commitment issues"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I need your advice. I am 19, been with my boyfriend (23) for two years. He has a 4 year old boy from a previous relationship. He has big committment issues. I think it is because his ex was so horrible to him and wouldn't let him see his boy at ...

I'm just not sure I am good enough for my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - I am not really sure what my boy-friend feels for me. We haven't been together very long and I often feel as if I am not good enough for him. I am often very self conscious around him and make silly mistakes. He is pretty critical of other people a...

Scared and don't know where to run (long)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7243 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - I feel like I am going mad. I am no saint, but deeply unhappy. I need help and advice badly. A couple of years ago I moved with my boyfriend to Wales. I took a job there and was bullied by the other staff members so badly that I ended up being o...

Can't get over my girlfriend's one night stands!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend now for close to 3 years and we have a lovely 13 month old daughter, we also love each other very much. however i have got a problem with her past, before we met she had an affair with a married man and 2 on...

My fiancee dropped a bombshell, now I face a terrible choice: Between my man or ever becoming a mother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7237 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - I have been together with my now fiance for nine years. We had planned to get married in August. Now he drops a bombshell, he doesn't want children. He has known from the start of the relationship that one day I hope to be a mother. What should ...

Went out, got drunk, snogged another guy and now my so-called friends have told him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6907 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - i had been going out with a young man for nearly a month and was beging to fall for him when.. i went out on friday and snogged another man, two of my (mates) told him and said that i had been seeing this man ever since i got together with my ...

Your help needed: Am I rude or is my husband pathetic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7246 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - i was told by my husband that i was really rude when my friend was visiting me. because another friend phoned and i spoke to her while i had company!! my husband threw a total fit saying how bad i was then went upstairs and sulked in the bedroom, ...

My partner and I argue and argue and argue...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7245 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I am feeling really down right now because my partner and I argue all the time. I do love him and know he loves me but it is getting unbearable. It has been like this for some time now and we keep hoping it will get better. I am a disabled ...

I went to the US, tried a relationship which didn't work. Can I pretend nothing happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7248 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - I am 28 and foolish. I was in a four year relationship when I went away (hols) and met a guy who I knew for a week. I quit my relationship. I didn't tell my friends why I was leaving but i moved to the US to live with the new guy, after ...

Can my very naughty boyfriend change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7248 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - my boyfriend keeps going to jail we love each other and the problem isn't waiting i waited b4 do you think he can change?...

Should I finish with my lying, cheating, no good partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7013 days ago

22 January 2005 (?) - Should i finish with my partner he lies all the time and i cant trust him we have been together 10 months and i just dont trust him he goes to womans houses when we split goes out and says oh look here shes nice but not as good as you please help i ...

My boyfriend says he does love me "otherwise he'd have thrown me out"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

21 January 2005 (?) - I was in a very bad relationship before that was full of abuse and insults and now I have met a lovely man. I am living with him now and it has been very fast because of my previous situation, we didn't have much choice but to live together. This w...

My girlfriend refuses sex so I can't help feeling frustrated and resentful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years and have a 1 year old daughter together. However, we are starting to drift apart and I'm worried our family will break up. It's been like this for about 5 months now, since my girlfriend ...

My boyfriend has two "girl" friends, now one has called me a "crazy bitch" after my text madness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7243 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - My boyfirend has two mates from Uni who are girls. This was not a problem apart from a couple of pangs of jealousy, which is natural? One of them sends him text messages all the time which is sort of ok its just that the content of some of them is ...

Due to get married this summer! But what if grass is greener on the other side?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7250 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the last 3 years, and we are due to get married this summer. The problem is, although I love him very much I dont see us having a future. I am so confused I don't know what to do. What happ...

Is it possible to love the relationship and security more than the person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7252 days ago

18 January 2005 (?) - Are men always such arse holes???... or is it just my boyfriend? we have been together for over 4 years, yet recently it feels like there has been a great hole that has opened up between us and the atmosphere is very tense. without realising, my ...

My sister has been kicked out of her home... I don't know how to help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7198 days ago

18 January 2005 (?) - I am writing this on my sisters behalf. My sister had been with her partner for a year, they seemed happy to me they have a 6 month old son and were a happy little family, but all of a sudden he has dumped her and chucked her out of the flat tha...

Feel like I'm going psycho

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7253 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - I don't really know where to start. I feel like I am a complete phsyco. I have been with my partner for a year now but just can not trust him. He has never done anything to make me feel like this and deep down I think I do trust him but I can not ...

Scared I'll get lonely and go back to my no-good ex-husband... Again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6732 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - I have just split up with the father of my youngest son, after a seven year relationship that has had many problems. He's very possesive and gets a little upset when i go out with friends. I don't feel the love for him, as he has changed into a m...

Me and my bf are taking a month apart at my suggestion. Turns out I miss him like mad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7225 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - Recently me and my boyfriend decided to have a month apart with no contacting. I was the one that actually suggested it because he needed to sort his life out because he was getting depressed and unhappy even when we spent time together because his ...

I broke up with my girl and she slept with my friend that very night

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7213 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - I have recently got back together with an ex girlfried. We were together on and off for four years. She moved away when we split up 8 months ago and moved back to where I live to be with me. I kind of always thought in the back of my mind thing...

My low self esteem is ruining my relationship with amazing guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7253 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - I am with an amazing guy and up until now we've been very happy. The unhappiness started when I felt that he didn't like me anymore. Of course being an idiot female I then asked him if he liked me all the time, read way too much into everythi...

Not sure how to deal with my boyfriend's many problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7164 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of 3 months of whom I am very fond and who has said that he is fond of me has many serious problems (work - been trying to close a major deal for months which would mean substantial commission for him; health: high blood pressure and on ...

Can't let go of my ex-alcoholic boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

16 January 2005 (?) - I have dated my ex-b/f for 8 years. I recently broke up with him 6 months ago for maybe the 10th time. I know that this man is not right for me yet I still think of him and have a hard time letting go. He is 61 and I am 48. He is a recovered ...

My fiancee says I need to curb my jealousy... How when she is out 'til 5am?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7253 days ago

16 January 2005 (?) - I dont know if this is just me but my fiancee says I need to curb my jealousy. I do get really jealous sometimes but its because people flirt with her in front of me and she flirts back to get drinks out of them. Once she danced sexily with another ...

My best friend is dating an illegal immigrant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6907 days ago

15 January 2005 (?) - My best friend is dating an illegal immigrant. He told her a while back and they split up for a while as she was worried about her job in the NHS being in jeopardy if he was found out. They have now got back together and have agreed that if he gets ...

In a relationship with my cousin, now she wants a baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7226 days ago

15 January 2005 (?) - I've been in a relationship with my cousin for 2 1/2 years now, the family have accepted it and we have our own home together. Things were fantastic but she seemed to be distant towards me and we stopped making love or having any kind of physical ...

Am I in a dead-end relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

14 January 2005 (?) - Well, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have a 4 month old baby boy. I'm just so fed up with him, as he goes to work comes in and expects me to make his dinner do all the housework make bottles for our son. While I'm doing all this...

Slept with my abusive drunk ex, now feel guilty for my Mum

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7256 days ago

14 January 2005 (?) - I have recently separated from my partner of 3 years, we have a baby together. We separated because I could not stand his abusive behavour and drinking habits. He now is living back at his parents. I had not seen him in 2 weeks when he came rou...

Boyfriend sees relationship as "some fun"... My Dad wants me to find someone new!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7256 days ago

13 January 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend Adam for 5 years, he is 24 I am 22, our relationship has never been smooth running but in the last year it has been the best its ever been, to give you abit of history, last Xmas Adam didn't get me a single gift not ...

My guy lashes out, he has turned me into a wreck!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7257 days ago

13 January 2005 (?) - Opionions and advice are realy needed. I've been with my guy for 5 years (since I was 14) and for the past 4 of those years he has managed to turn me into a wreck. I have a good job and I live with him and his parents, but for the past 8 months i ...

My great new girlfriend dropped a bombshell: She used to be a prostitute!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7258 days ago

13 January 2005 (?) - I've met this girl 4 months ago and things are starting to get serious with her. We started living together and naturaly spending all of our time with each other. She is really a nice girl and I love her deeply. Just the other day she told me her d...

Should I give up dysfunctional relationship with father of my child for new man at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6908 days ago

12 January 2005 (?) - Hi At present I am in a relationship which I am not happy with and he is the father of my child (we have lived together for 12 yrs). I recently started a job and met a guy who is in the same situation as me. When we first met he told me he was n...

Will things ever be the same with my boyfriend after my mistake with text guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6907 days ago

11 January 2005 (?) - About two years ago I started texting this guy I had met at the local shops just for fun and as friends which I stated to him from the begining and he agreed. It was all as I said for a bit until he asked me to meet him for a small drink one ...

Should I date other people or wait for the confused guy I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7258 days ago

11 January 2005 (?) - This guy and me have been seeing each other on and off for the past 2 years. Everytime it seemed like it was going good he would disappear and I wouldn't hear from him for days or weeks even and then he would finally call and we would be fine ...

Sex with my partner has always been bad... But now it turns out he saw a dominatrix!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for 2 years. The sex has always been pretty bad really - very infrequent and of bad quality. He seems extremely frigid and scared to make any moves and it has really frustated me! We have discussed it lots of times and ...

I have to choose between my troubled soldier boyfriend or new man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6907 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - Im a 31 year old mother of 2 children (8and 10) and i met my current boyfriend 3 years ago,we got on well upto FEB,2003 when he got his call up to Iraq with the army. We were apart for 5 months,but spoke nearly every day and wrote letters and emai...

Idiot co-worker told everyone I have only had one sexual partner: Is 3-some the answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7265 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am married to a wonderful woman. We love each other very much and we have a great sex life. The problem is that I have only slept with her. I know this is very unusual and have been made fun of by guys at work. (An idiot coworker who kne...

My girl is too emotional, how do I ask her to move out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7159 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am a 35 year old man dating a younger woman who moved in with me when she and her sister had an argument this was only supposed to be temporary. She has had a problem finding a job and it has been a year now. We have had arguments and she went to h...