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writes: My girlfriend and i have been together for 14 years, we have 3 children, all girls, and we used to be happy. Every night she goes to her friends house (a she) from 10.30pm - 1.00am, 1.30+. She doesnt talk about anything other than what (she) did last night, what (she) likes, where (she) goes, what (she) likes. I'm at home with the kids, and if I ask her why she can't sit with me once or twice a week, why cant she do things with me and the girls, she gets all defensive and gives silly reasons.Am I paranoid in thinking either of the following?1...........My partner is bored with me (and/or)the girls.2...........She's not at (shes) house at all, but at her new fellas place,Or 3............She's having a lesbian affair with (she). SHE IS OBSESSED WITH HER!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): The problem is she is not with you when she should be. If she won't talk about it yoiu an keep beating yourself up, whcih your kids will know about and forwn on you for or you can take out and have a one on one and lay it all on the line. Who cares who she is with. The question is ahy are you not at home?
A reader, alex, writes (3 February 2005): As i see it you dont know if she is obsessed with her or theyre just close friends or what.Are you still having sex with her? has your sex life changed since this friendship?Has she changed in any other ways? Does she go out dressed to thrill or tracksuit and trainers? you need to build a picture of what is happening here and why? I think firsly you need to make sure she is going where she says she is? If she is just going there then why?Is it sex based(as all men think this and yes im a guy)Is she going to her friend to escape after a hard day with the kids? If she is where she says she is then TALK to her and tell her how its making you feel.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2005): Not really paranoid at all. She is probably doing #3 and if so you probably should say goodbye to her.
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