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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My daughter wont let him in the house, and my parents say to leave him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - I'm 43 been in a relationship over a year and a half I love him but he cheated on me with his ex, we got back together and I fell pregnant all my family are telling me to have an abortion and get rid of him I love him it's over between him and his ...

Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. ...

Married friend wanted sex, I refused and said I could only offer friendship and now he's conveniently disappeared!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Hi. I'd like some advice about something that I think I already know the answer to. Recently a guy friend, who is now married, got in touch and asked if I'd like to meet up over the holidays. I'm also now in a relationship and told him this. H...

My boyfriend's mother dominates our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3639 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - (Sorry, this ended up being a long question. It's a few issues, that all stem from the same issue. I think. I hope the below makes sense!) So I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months and for the most part our relationship is happy and health...

I get my needs met online and my husband uses porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - I feel justified in getting feedback online from Men about my body to get my emotional needs met . I would never meet with one but it makes me feel desired loved and attractive My husband uses porn and says that there's no harm in it as he will ne...

I want to stay calm and be rational but something doesn't add up. Are the texts really innocent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a friendly guy but he takes it too far with women he doesn't know well. When we were going through a bad patch he struck up a friendship with his new single neighbour and she then came on to him despite knowing about me and this ...

Would you be jealous of this cheat's wife if you were me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing to this site because i'm feeling pretty conflicted. I used to have a physical relationship with someone who was very wrong for me and it destroyed any self esteem i used to have. Most of the time i was miserable when it was going on. ...

What's up with his behaviour? He has a Gf. Would it be weird to hang out with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I saw a guy friend today that has a GF, he admitted he liked me and that he didn't want to hurt me or his GF by cheating but still bothers me to hang out with him. Its like he is obsessed. We used to hang out alot but I stopped since his GF is home ...

I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3651 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - I'm a 17 year old girl, who is currently dating another girl. I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel and about my sexuality. I feel like I'm denying my happiness by not being open about my relationships and sexuality...help?...

He feels responsible for his depressed ex gf......how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for a month now. We really like each other and things were going great. Til now. I dont know the ins and outs of why he and his ex of 7 years split up back in summer but I do know that they werent right together and they ...

Is he hinting he is interested even though I am married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - A few months ago I got to know a man at his place of work. I used to go there for business related issues, and we got to talking. He then got transferred to another location (also near by) and hinted for me to pass by and say hi. I thought nothing ...

This will be my last attempt to save our marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - After dealing with this for months/years now, here are the facts: I married a guy I know now I dont love anymore but still care and trust very deeply. I still can't forget about this other guy that I met and has made me happy, positive and felt love ...

My wife of ten years says abusive things and then expects me to apologise. How should I respond to her accusations and her insults?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm really concerned. Ours has not been the best of marriages. We're 10 years in, we have two beautiful daughters. I'm the stay at home parent and I've thrown myself at the role. We've moved 3 times and I've made new friends/ a new world ea...

I want to feel as strongly about my boyfriend as I do about this other man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I'm in a predicament that I've brought on myself. I have a partner of 12 years. He is good to me, I love him, but not in the way that I feel I should. There was never the initial attraction. I was in a bad place at the time and he was there. Our r...

Why would he message this ex? Why can't he just ignore messages from an ex? what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend over a year. Things are great its been a great year and weve talked of buying a place together next year. So were both very serious about one another. We've told each other we love each other etc and i really do want to ...

My boyfriend's mother won't let go

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Sorry that this is pretty long! Hope this doesn’t sound selfish, but she’s driving me crazy! I kind of feel like this may be too soon to address this issue in the relationship, since we have only been dating for a short while (9 more days until ...

I really like her, but so does my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3655 days ago

18 December 2014 (M) - me and my friend are at the same uni, same course and same accomodation and we live next door to this girl who is a really nice girl and very pretty. my friend and her have a close friendship with each other. my friend feels that she likes him and i ...

I am also fed up with his manipulative ex girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - I've been following a recent post here titled 'Annoyed with his manipulative ex'. I'm in a similar situation. To give a little back ground. My current boyfriend was in a relationship with his ex for about 3 years. He says that even from the start of...

I think my boyfriend is engaged to another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm so down atm.. I've always suspected my bf was seeing someone else when he moved away to work. Saw him texting a girl Xmas day last year,he denied it. Saw her add in a realationship after doing a few searched on fb, he later got rid of fb ...

Love Triangle - The Aftermath

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3658 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I was pushed out of a love triangle not so long ago, as I mentioned sometime before. My female friend is dating the guy who wanted to date me. Anyway, having told him, I couldn't cope anymore with the situation - I now find that the girl (m...

Should I stop going on about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

16 December 2014 (M) - I have bein going with my girlfriend for ten years and the orther night she went out and had a few drinks and slept on a couch by or self . The next day I found out their was a male friend beside her then she confessed and sai. She slept in the ...

My husband had the following conversation with the woman he slept with behind my back. Please tell me what you think of it

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing this post because i found something which has concerned me a bit. I have been married for a little over a year and things have been going fine, at least, i thought so. Before we got married my husband slept with another woman be...

I know she wont stop talking to him, so do I just have to get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3661 days ago

13 December 2014 (M) - Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly two years, it was a whirlwind romance, we moved in together quickly, we are engaged and I really do love her with all of my heart. She used to work with a guy who before we even started goi...

We both fancy one another but he went off with another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

13 December 2014 (F) - I love this boy , and he likes me too but theres a girl who ask him out and he said yes to girl.But he always ,you know flirting with me and he mostly talk to me than he talk to the girl, he always touching me places like hes my boyfriend but I dont ...

I want out of this love triangle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

13 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I was on here earlier this month regarding a love triangle between an online guy and my friend. The guy seemed to be stringing us both along but has now apparently settled for my friend - who isn't being completely honest about it all! I have...

I am a lesbian crushing on my older male co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - I am so confused and lost. I am a woman, and I currently have a girlfriend, we've been together for three years, we met in college, and we've been through hell and back. The problem is, I have a huge crush on my older male co-worker. It's been alm...

She wants to be with me but feels guilty about dumping her boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

11 December 2014 (M) - I started hanging out with this girl whom I knew had a boyfriend of 1.5 years. In our talks, I found out that he had been nice to her. However, had a tendency to look at other girls on the internet and that crushed this girl. She tells me that she ...

I am back with my ex, now how to let the other guy down gently!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - how can i let a guy down ,id split up with my boyfriend about 2 week ago i went out on a night out with friends to a different town and met a man it was nice having attention and a cheeky snog but i feel thats all it would be hes not boyfriend ...

My wife has been having an emotional affair... what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

10 December 2014 (M) - I have been married for more than 20 years and have had to move to another state for employment reasons. I recently found out that my wife has been having an affair on an emotional level with my ex neighbour. It has been mainly by email and ...

The drama is getting too much ...........

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - I am dating an almost divorced man. His final court date for his divorce is in February and that's it. For the past month his soon to be ex is in overdrive trying to patch things up even though she filed. I beleive when she filed it was to scare ...

How can I get over my brother-in-law?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have had a crush on my brother-in-law for over a year. I thought this feeling would go away, especially when we live quite far from each other. I am always happy to see him and to know that he's doing good. We get along well and a...

Boyfriend wants MMF threesome... With one of his best friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

8 December 2014 (F) - So here's the backstory... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We've always had an adventurous and hot sex life. We are in our mid-twenties, no kids, and no rush. But he's the one, I knew it three months into our ...

Asked out by 2 men but who do I choose and how do I let the other down gently `

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - i dont know what to do , i asked a question about letting a guy down because he missed his chance he was taking too long to if he wanted to date me but then i suddenly met a new guy who wants to date me and we are arranging a time to see each other ...

I Don't Like When This Girl Needs to be Comforted by my Boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3667 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is one of the nicest guys I've ever met. But sometimes I feel like it's a problem because he feels the need to cheer up everyone, especially this one girl he just met at the college he's going to. She has stuff going on in her life and ...

Is this just a silly crush and will I get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3660 days ago

5 December 2014 (F) - I am in my late 20's and started Uni this year. I seem to have developed a big fat stupid crush on my tutor....I think it's a crush anyway! I have a long term boyfriend, who I love...but I never stop thinking about my tutor. He is handsome a...

We separated and I've been hearing about other men she's slept with. Do I move on? Come to terms with her actions? Or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 December 2014 (M) - Hello ive been with my girl for two years and at first everything was great. Then we both started having money problems and she got fired. Then i got injured at work. Then i started hearing rumors of other men who she slept with at one time. She w...

The Loyal ex or New exciting danger love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

1 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! Im sorry if this is long I really need some good advice or anything. So, im really having a hard time deciding what to do about my current relationship. I met a guy online and we hit it off right away. After our first date we kn...