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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I was pushed out of a love triangle not so long ago, as I mentioned sometime before. My female friend is dating the guy who wanted to date me.Anyway, having told him, I couldn't cope anymore with the situation - I now find that the girl (my supposed friend) is no longer speaking to me - as things got a bit bitter between us, due to lack of trust.I asked her why she won't talk to me now - but she wouldn't reply - but the thing is - she has paid to see a show with me in the New Year, but because she is in a huff and won't speak - I don't know if she intends going or not and I will need to take someone else if she doesn't show.Question is - I have sent her texts - but if she's not replying what do I do next?Also - how do I get the guy out of my head?Yours confusingly...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2014): You simply take her lack of communication as a fact she is not coming to the show. You could send her one last message to this effect, e.g. "I've tried to contact you, but I guess from now on things have changed. I'll be taking someone else to show, kind regards..."You get the man out of your head by dating other people, by not putting all your feelings on one person during dating as, especially if you meet online, it is very likely they are arranging dates with other people too. You can't let yourself get too attached too soon it's simply not healthy.You ask about this frequently, the only way you're going to move on is to stop hanging onto the past and look forward. Find another friend to go to the show, arrange dates with other guys - without any pressure of them being your one and only but to experience other peoples company. If you're the same person who met this guy online and initially wasn't interested in him then I don't see why you are still hung up about him.He wasn't right for you, and your friend has happened to find happiness or at least companionship. Next time, if you're interested in someone let them know sooner rather than later to avoid losing them to someone else who DOES show them an interest. You've simply got to get back out there meeting people.
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