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writes:I'm a 17 year old girl, who is currently dating another girl. I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel and about my sexuality. I feel like I'm denying my happiness by not being open about my relationships and sexuality...help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2014): I was in the same boat as you. I chose to keep my sexuality and relationship a secret, and that lead me to getting less and less happy in the relationship. Eventually, I broke it off with her. If you want to feel truly happy, I highly recommend you talk to your girlfriend about how you feel about everything. Chances are, she's going through the same thing. And to help being a little bit more open, take it one step at a time. When you walk around with her, try holding her hand, and maybe give her a quick kiss on the cheek. This will hint to others that you are in a relationship. Being open about your sexuality is your choice, and quite hard to do. Embrace who you are, and show everyone who you are. Your still the same person as before, just a different toast in who you like, no big deal. If you pass this hurdle, your that much closer to a happy relationship.
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