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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

This situation is a mess, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Here's a triangle love story that soon enough is going to turn into a disaster.. There this guy let's call him(mark)and a girl(cindy) and me..so mark really liked me,and I wasn't aware of it but I very well knew that cindy liked mark cuz she conf...

My partner is too close to his sister and confides in her about our relationship. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4395 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Started dating some time ago. Brief history of family. I am widowed. Happily married for thirty years. Have one son, daughter in law and three grandchildren. Relationship is good. Have good relationship with my two brothers and their wives. My Boy...

Why does he need to date one last girl before he can commit to me? Should I wait while he does this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Help me please ? I am devastated by the fact that the guy I am dating told me he needs meet one girl to be sure he really loves? The guy I date said he thinks he loves me and we have been seeing each other for 3 months now. We were making pla...

Husband is away. I'm feeling horny. Should I give in and be unfaithful while my husband is away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Am a girl of 26 married with two kids. My husband traveled out of the country a year and 5 months now I don't know when he will be coming back. The problem is that am feeling lonely and horny, many guys do comes around to have sex with me, wh...

Do my husband and I give in to my MIL's demands? What can I do about this pressure? Should I call my MIL?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hi. I need your help. My mother in law complains that i dont call her enough. But i dont feel compelled to call her often because when i call she wll be finding fault with me all the time. Either i have not done this or that corectly. Recent...

My Gf will not give up on me and yet her loyalties are divided. She's cheating again. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My gf is torn between two. She left me in the past for this women and she is currently is doing it again. So I broke it off but we still live together and she sits and lies to my face about the situation but when I cough up everything she w...

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. s...

Is my Bf involved sexually with an older lover? He says no. His text to her implies yes. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Am I over reacting or what? My boyfriend has an older lady friend who stays at our house quite frequently, helps us out a lot. They've been friends longer than I've been around and she's like 20 years older than him so I never thought twice ab...

Am I over reacting? Can I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We started out rocky...but we did dated and we've been together for 2 months (6 months prior online). I wasnt really honest with him, I was a virgin and we both had sex (he was a virgin...

Married user man vs nice guy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been in an affair with a colleague of mine for about 5 months now. He told me he is having a really tough time with his fiance that he has known for 10 years and lived together with. They are separated now and live in different states. ...

Choosing between 2 men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Who should I choose .... One is attractive, financialy and career stable, more serious about me and the future, loved by my parents, love him but sucks in bed The other is less attractive, less serious, can make plans forever, my family dont like...

She thinks I'm telling lies. So many misunderstandings. How do I convince her that I am the one telling the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - i posted a question a couple weeks back and got some good feedback. i wanted to see if i couldn't get a few more opinions and elaborate on the most recent happenings. about six weeks ago, my girlfriend had asked to use my phone to look something u...

Has my boyfriend really changed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I have had a rocky 8 months to say the least, with my first ever boyfriend and now i'm just wondering has he really changed? I first met my boyfriend when i went back to school after missing a year, i was sent to learning support ...

I think my girlfriend likes somebody else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I try to be the best Girlfriend i can Be To MY Girlfriend, I think she like this Dude. He was on her, and they probably would have kissed if i wasn't righ by her side. I asked her do, she like him she said no, but i feel like she do.. I just need ...

I have the hots for my sister's husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I am 36 F. I know what I think is wrong. but it is difficult for me to stand this. I think it is due to I am Pisces and he is Scorpio by Sun sign. I am interested in my younger sister's husband. We flirts and he calls me to talk personally. I feel h...

He is a player and a liar, and I had sex with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I met this guy on a dating app. He came over in the weekend we drank some ciroc the biggest bottle between me and him we finished it, we was in my kitchen and he was trying to take my pants off and I looked at him and I said no, so he let me be. I ...

Should I choose a different Doctor? When I met the new Doctor I realised that I've slept with him and his wife. He was professional when I saw him recently.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Okay this is an odd thing that happened to me, I went to the doctors because I have been having some bad neck pains so I just randomly picked a doctor and when I finally meet the doctor I actually know him and have slept with him and his wife when I ...

Which woman understands me best? I feel more love for this second woman. What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - i have a baby with someone and i stay with her, but the problem is i have beendating someone else, for more than a year now. The other woman and I love one another so so much. It is like my first relationship ever ,we talk ,we laugh and we understan...

Do I need professional help? I STILL can't get my ex brother-in-law out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4402 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Can't get ex brother-in-law out of my mind! I'm going to try and make a long story short! I'm still attracted to and in love with my ex brother in law and I can't get him out of my mind! It's driving me crazy! We has sex one time, and use ...

Back in contact with the ex... what to do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I've recently come in contact with an ex boyfriend. We were together 6 years ago for a few months but things didn't work out as we were only 19, I went straight into a new relationship that lasted 6 years, we had 2 children together. Now I'm back ...

I have a girlfriend but I just can't shake my feelings for another girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - I could use some help! I have been seeing my girlfriend for eight months but I just can't shake the feelings I have for another girl. She has been my friend for two years and it started out as just a friendship because she was in another relation...

Girlfriend of 3 years has confused feeling between me and another...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I had been together for 3 years, it has been the best 3 years of my life, we have conquered every kind of task possible. we even had to do the long distance thing for about year because she went to school elsewhere. we had fought ...

I really like this guy, but he has recently become involved with my friend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I really like this guy, but he and my friend are slightly involved, they're nowhere near official but I know they both like each other, i've recently started speaking to him more, he's amazing, but he and my friend are the same religion and have ...

I want to share my wife with my old friend....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - I have had a fantasy about sharing my wife and the feelings have become stronger. My wife is aware of this fantasy. We have role played this for years approx 8yrs). Within the last 4 years I have been talking to her about bringing this to real life. ...

I can't imagine dating someone else, he's all I want

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - I've never had a relationship nor never been in love but god blessed me with the exact type of guy I wonted and saved myself for. We been together for 4 months. We both fell in love with each other. But things started to change with. He started a ...

I am seeking people's opinions of my actions in this failed relationship. What do you think?. I did some bad things, so did she.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - so i started seeing a girl as friends id heard a lot about her ( she's easy,been with this person,been with that person etc etc) but i didn't care because i make up my own mind about people and me and this girl got on great so after about a month of...

I thought marriage was all about cherishing the one you love. All he does is cheat? And ignore his children and me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 7 1/2 years and I have been married 2 1/2 years. Through the time of all these years. He has done nothing but cheated and he feels like its not a big deal at all when he gets caught in his lies or the females ...

Why do I keep on wanting what I can't have, namely: married men? Is there something wrong with me? What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Why do I go for married men? Even though I know it never works! I really like this guy, who is quite a lot older than I am; and married! He confessed he had fallen for me, I tried to convince him he hadn't because he was married, but I knew that ...

Should I leave him? I'm tired of feeling 'second class' and "not quite good enough for him".

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together now for about 14 years. We have 2 beautiful children. However, i am so sick of dealing with his selfish ways. He has cheated 3 times, the first was about 9 years into our relationship and was a full on relations...

Why does my husband keep going on dating sites looking for women? he knows I know. So why does he keep on hurting me like this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - For at least the past 6 months I was coming across my boyfriend going on dating sites to chat to different women. Of course, he has always denied it and called me weird and neurotic. He knows that I know, so why won`t he tell me if there is somet...

Has my Boyfriend cheated on me with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Dear all, I am so hurt and miss my boyfriend after breaking up with him. I will try to keep this short, i meet him last Feb. we hit it off. Initially we started off fine, met him saturday nights with my friend and his, it was difficult to get o...

I know I get jealous but is it normal for a man to keep so many online pictures of women he has known or knows?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - So my fiance of 10 months now is wonderful. My only concern is that he has a thing for having girl friends on his xbox and facebook. I know I should trust him and I do its just I dont know if this is normal. He doesn't flirt with them really b...

Can I stay close to my BF's family if we finish our affair? Life with my husband is not good. And My BF now has a new GF.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am married without children and i have a lover. we have been seeing each other for 4 years now and for the the first year we were only friends. I am not happy with my husband but i dont want to leave him as he is a handsome guy and it ends ther...

But which one? The guy who drinks a lot and is cheating on me versus the nice good looking guy? And why do I still feel so much for the first guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am confused, i am in a good relationship with a great guy, who loves me and the sex is great. however he's in a relationship with the mother of his daughter.(they stay in the same house, she doesn't have anywhere else to go, plus he loves th...

B/f accuses me of cheating on him but I didnt do anything wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half. We live together and have never been apart more than a day. He is constantly accusing me of cheating on him and doesn't trust me at all. (He is 40 and I'm 27 by the way) Every single girl he has ever ...

His Russian friend is very interested in him. Am I wasting my time with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing a guy since March. He's 33 and I'm 20. He's a master student and is going to graduate this semester and go back to his country. Unless he gets a job here. Our relationship is private as we agreed since the beginning, and we start...

Can I trust her? Does not seem so. What should I do about this unacceptable situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My girl and I been together for 3 years. It was great until freshman yr of college wen i started having trust issues and then we became unstable. She cheated on me with a guy then told me a month later they had kissed; it took awhile to get over but...

My married lover is putting up barriers to me seeing her. And she wants to hide me from her children when her divorce goes through. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hello, I'm going to give the whole story of my situation. I know it's morally wrong but no one is perfect. So please don't respond if you want to talk about morals. I just need some honest opinions with my situation. I have been in a relationshi...

Why does my wife of 18 years need to talk to men online? And meet them? and lie? Is this the beginning of the end of our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 18 years. We have 10 year old twins together. We used to share an email account (mine) but now she has 3 or 4 email accounts of her own. I only have one email account and she has the password to my account. She ...

If someone was so horrible in the beginning of the relationship can they completely change and learn better ways to behave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

19 October 2012 (?) - After two years, I'm back! What's funny is, I can still look at questions I've asked over my (going on) four year relationship. I love my fiance', but there have been so many problems, I'm shocked we've lasted this long. Faced everything from ...

My partner is in contact with his ex but lies about it. Am I right to be concerned or am I making it more than it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hi, Bit of back ground. Me and my bf started a long distance relationship we met through a long time mutual friend. I was happy being single and he was in limbo with his fiancée. However he was just waiting for the appropriate time to end it. D...

I'm pregnant, I look after his son. But he's gone cold on me. And he's talking to his ex. Can we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Dear cupid. I been dating my boyfriend for nine months now. At first he was the best. Now he acts different towards me and my family. He seems so cold like he doesn't care about nothing. He says he is hard on me to make me stronger, but its on...

What should I do? Because I'm Falling for my boyfriend's best friend! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4409 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hey guys , so I have a boyfriend well ... We have the most complicated relationship. We used to have a great relationship but now he seems to act differently, I've asked if he's okay or if I did something wrong to see if I can fix things but he a...

B/f has a darts night with a woman who is after him. How do I handle my troubled feelings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi there Aunts, I have a continuing saga question...I can't seem to find my own way thru the fog yet have the nerve to give out advice to others that seems so clear to me. So humbly I need to ask how to handle myself, as I probably know what ...

Is my Gf into a new guy? I'm not a jealous guy, but something is not right. Any suggestions to resolve this please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I know this may sound bad but I think that my girlfriend is into some other guy. They always seem to be laughing and having the time of their lives (which I do not mind) but it seems like there is something else between them. She has recently been ...

Is it twisted that I have a boyfriend yet I have feelings for two of my cousins as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - I am 22 years old. I am in love with two of my cousins from my fathers side. The first one we will call "Charles". Until recently in December of last year, I confessed to him over the phone that I have found him attractive, he told me he has had ...

I'm back in touch with b/f from 18 years ago. I want to be with him but have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - hi ive been with my partner for ten years but recently ive been in contact with an old boyfriend from 18 years ago i loved my old boyfriend then but we were too young,now were bk in touch my feelings have returned!i want to b with him what do i do?...

Even though he is planning to marry me, why do I feel like I am second best? Does the mother of his child have more claim to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a guy we are so good together. he has a child froma past relationship, he loves her so much, that i fear he might have to choose her/(and of courss the mother) over me.,when it gets to the point, wh...

Do I dump him over the attention he's giving his 'back-up women?" I no longer trust him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is around 10 years older than me and is in a rush to get married because he feels that he is of that age and his family and culture expects that of him. We're of the same culture and I definitely understand that about him but I just c...

She is half my age and up the duff!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - OMG!! my husband of 21 years wants a divorce after getting his co-worker who is half his age pregnant. he says he loves me but he is in love with her and wants to marry her, and is excited about the baby. we had no children together but i had 2 from ...