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writes:I know this may sound bad but I think that my girlfriend is into some other guy. They always seem to be laughing and having the time of their lives (which I do not mind) but it seems like there is something else between them. She has recently been asking him to do things that I normally do for her. I am not The jealous type but when I think about stuff like this I am normally correct. Does it sound like she is in to him? What can I do to ensure my relationship with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe has seemed very distant and like I'm not even there. I am just at a loss of what to do.
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reader, tamperingtampaguy +, writes (16 October 2012):
Communicate your feelings and intuition to your gf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2012): If your instincts are telling you she's messing around with this other guy then she must be, so follow you gut and let her go because if she is in a relationship with you she shouldn't be asking the other guy for anything, and on the other hand he is not doing these things for her for nothing so he's getting something in return. I would drop her like a hot potatoe, if she's having that much fun with him then let him have her, don't even waste your time with someone that disrespect you like that.
If it walks like a duck, quack like a duck then it must be a duck!!!!!!!!
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reader, fishy fish +, writes (16 October 2012):
You need to be more specific about the things she's asking him to do for her.
Did she change wih you? I suggest you talk to her openly and frankly about it and tell her that friendship with that guy is making you uncomfortable. And if her behavior keeps annoying you I think you're better off without her, a relationship should ameliorate your life otherwise what's the point, right? Good luck.
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