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anonymous
writes:I could use some help!I have been seeing my girlfriend for eight months but I just can't shake the feelings I have for another girl. She has been my friend for two years and it started out as just a friendship because she was in another relationship. But over time I started feeling more for her and now she is no longer in her previous relationship. I have tried to deny them but the feelings just don't go away. How do I handle this? It is a difficult spot to be in. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2012): if you're having feelings for someone other than your official gf, then you need to end the relationship with your gf whether or not things pan out with the other woman. as long as you're having feelings for someone else, your relationship with your gf isn't 'real' that's why it should end, to spare her and stop wasting her time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2012): You have to make a choice. Either you have to cut contact with this female friend so your feelings for her don't get any stronger than they already are, or you have to leave your current girlfriend for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2012): I couldn't disagree more. Leave your girlfriend, as your feelings for her are not true if you're so concerned with this other girl now that she is single. Whatever you do, be honest with her, because when and if you find out this other girl isn't all that, your girlfriend will have moved on. DO NOT try this new girl out and then go back to your girlfriend, however. That is the most selfish thing you could possibly do.
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