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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

He burned me. I've done everything I can to get over it, but it still hurts. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy at work last year. We had a thing, for a few months, until I started to listen to the voice in my head about how he seemed to good to be true and yet always unavailable when I needed him. Surprise he's engaged to his gf of 8 years. I ...

I don't know if I can get past this or will be able to trust her. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - hello everyone.. I have been dating this girl from last 8 months. We started slow and fell in love and kinda lived together for couple of months. Everything was great, but now i found out there were many thing she lied about, so i need some help to ...

Her husbands friend is BAD NEWS and their marriage is being wrecked

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My cousin who I love dearly is married and 7 months pregnant. They are in their thirties, him approaching his forties. They have been married for almost two years. I am becoming quite concerned with her husband. He has this friend who he met over ...

My bi-sexual wife has made friends with a lesbian. should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - should i allow my wife to be friends with someone she's attracted to? my wife is bi and the person she's attracted to is a gay girl. i just found out about. shes been hiding it from me by deleteting her text messages. when i confronted her about it...

I'm in a relationship but I love someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - i love a guy and in the same time i am in a relationship with another guy, and this guy that i am loving is so strange with me in this past week, he's like just wanna stay friends and live his life, i love him what should i do?...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - im a 27yr old girl thats in a relationship, though i met a 37 yr old man 3yrs ago and have been falling in love with him, he was in a relationship of 15 yrs with 2 kids as do i have, 3 yrs later he has left her and wants to be with me, though he has ...

Both girls in my life are amazing! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Ok, so I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and shes the perfect girlfriend but its just missing something; for instance I used to get jealous when she'd tell me about guys buying her drinks at the bar but now I really don't mind. To ...

Paranoia or red flags?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I'm 25, with my bf 3 years. When we got together he said one of his best mates is a girl who he was with in the past and who he was crazy about. He said thats old history now. Thing is though, over the last 3 years he has done several things that ...

LDR or the guy who's nearer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - So I have been going out with this guy for a month now. He lives on the other side of the country, and he is 2 years younger than me Lets call him D (also i have never meet him in person).Then theres M is a year older than me but same grade and he ...

Do I wait for him to leave his girlfriend or just walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (?) - Hi everyone got a bit of a issue and would love all opinions on it. I started a new job about 6 months ago and I met this guy there which I got along with great straight away. We were always flirting and he got a new girlfriend who lives on the...

My guy spends more time with an old woman than his gf!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Can anyone help me on this one. Ive being going with a guy for 5month, yet he still keeps me a secret. None of his family know and Im sure that only one of his friends know about me. When he is at his parents house he does not text me, even when he ...

I think our roomie is flirting with me, should I tell my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - hey everyone im just wondering if anyone else views this situation the way i do.. so here goes, i live with my fiance and a friend of his that is a guy. we have all been living together about 6 months or so. at first i wasnt very comfortable a...

I want him to leave his live-in girlfriend for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - here goes.........I have known this guy since november, he is a farmer and lives in the valley where i work. i run into him on a daily basis, we meet up nearly every night, and share hobbies at the weekends. we are so made for each other and are ...

I'm sending this letter to my lover, what do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I'm sending this letter to my lover, What do you think? It breaks my heart having to say these words to you, but I feel that our relationship has ran its course. It has been wonderful knowing you, you are a great man. I'm sorry that I have to s...

I love my best cousin's wife and she loves me too. Please advise!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm having a problem. I'm 18 years old. Me and my family traveled away to see my cousins that i haven't seen in a long time, My best cousin just got married with a girl. I was really excited about it, and happy for them, but when i saw her i fe...

Is just talking about sex with another guy cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hey guys, Me and my bf have been together for nearly 4 months now and I love him very much :) he's my first bf and i'm his first gf so it was kinda awkward in the beginning but now, it's great :) just to let you know, we didn't french kiss yet,...

My best friend is dating the girl I have liked for over a year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - theres this girl that has been my best friend for pratically a year, iv had a secret crush on her for pratically a year. we took a break for about a week (because we spent almost every day together) and when i come back shes dateing my guy best ...

Should I stick it out with my B/f and see if things change? Or go back to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, please help!. I have posted a couple of posts on here about my 'boyfriend'. Ive said I dont see him enough even though we live soooo close to each other. He adds girls on facebook everynight, although I do know he not meeting them. He ...

We have crushes on each other, but she has a boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - So I'm in class with this girl. I've always thought her to be cute and a crush started to grow. She has a boyfriend so I never thought much into it. We exchanged numbers and started casually txting but as time passed the messages became flirtatious ...

How do I get him to ditch his ex once and for all and date me properly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - i meet a guy and while we sarted haveing casual dates he came back with his ex ( open relationship, her idea he only agreed to return because of the memories), i was hurt but i liked him so much i agreed to go out with him after the sweetest dates ...

Can't choose between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Ok so my situation is kind of long but any help would be greatly appreciated. I have been dating this guy named Sam for about a month and it's been nothing serious, we just go for coffees or dinners. He pays sometimes, I pay sometimes. Super...

My ex is trying to hang out with me again, but I have a new boyfriend.....should I be friends with him or is he trying to get me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - ok, so i was dating this wonderful guy for about 3 and a half months. i lost my virginity to him after we were only dating for a week. i knew that it was too soon and that people would think i was stupid for it. but i couldn't see myself regretting ...

He's got me and her and I'm left alone 4 nights a week

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - hi been with my guy for 11 yrs why wont he become a fully grown couple. i already know what ishould do but i love him so much. you see we were both in relationships when it started we were each others 3 legged stool. he left his wife but i never at ...

We keep butting heads, I want to work it out, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Hi, i'm 26 and i'm in a 3 way relationship. i'm not very good at things like this so i try very hard to make sure i do the right thing. both of the other men with me r 2x my age. one of them i get along with very well but the other one is just like ...

My ex moved on, now having a baby, I'm not over him, heard he still cares, what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I recently wrote in and asked 'how do you mend a broken heart?' My ex of 2 years and i split up 10months ago. We were in a LDR between Uk and USA. He tried to get me back for ages, saying how much he had messed up and missed me and i generally ...

Inlove with my boyfriend's cousin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, for some time now, about 7 years, I've been with the same man, we had a baby very early in the relationship because I just wasn't damned careful enough to use more than a condom to prevent pregnancy. We had a son, whom I adore, he...

Kissed another guy and I have a BF help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - I did something I feel really awful about but I don't know if this makes me a bad person or what I should think. I got pretty drunk with my friends and this guy was hitting on me and started kissing on me. I was really uncomfortable and I felt ...

My ex is cheating on her current boyfriend with me......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend is cheating on her current boyfriend with me. It had been a year since we broke up and I get a text from her Recently. You can guess what happened from there and is still happening. I say she needs to leave her current boyfriend ...

She has not told me she loves me for a year now, what is going on? What have I done wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - hi im in love with a married woman and her husband has never meet me and he hates me. i had meet her online 2 in a half years ago. and when i meet her face to face i feel in love with her.i thought i was in love with someone else, but i honestly ...

Married woman, Husband in prison..me in the middle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - some please put me out of misery many thanks. I met a beautiful girl through my close girl mate on new years eve. Intelligent (masters in psychology), green eyed bombshell, smart and very attractive. My friend had warned me to be careful because ...

She likes another guy more than me, but she admits to having a soft spot for me....should I give up and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - I met a girl a few months ago and we have been talking lots and lots. We have been texting near enough every day. I really really like her and she has said she has 'a serious soft spot' for me. She puts 6 x's on the end of each text. I normally ...

I cant choose between the older boy or the boy I have been in love with for ages.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Hi there. I'm 13 years old and I'm in Year 9. I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Between two boys. I'll call them Boy A and Boy B. Boy A has been my best friend since Year 8, even though he's in the year above me. He's one of the funniest, kindest and most ...

I went too far with my friend at work and now I don't know how to fix it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - i met A last year when i started a new job, we got along really well and a strong friendship formed, at the time i was involved with someone, i could tell A wanted more than friendship and tried to dissuade him but eventually i started to fall for ...

How do I get with the one that got away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - Hey sorry if this is long but I really need some advice..... Right a year ago I got chatting to this girl ( we will call her A) after some time I got to know this other girl ( we will call her B) after a few months we all met up and after a few ...

I have feelings for her but been told she's out of my league. Besides, my best mate wants her too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

We have an open relationship. How can I become number one with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - there's this guy i met and sparks flew instantly we went out two times as friends and delayed our third ( and romantic ) date due to both of us being usually busy the thing is between that time he returned with his ex girlfriend ( open relationship) ...

Cheated on my ex with my current G/f and my ex cheated on me with my best friend whom she's dating now....yet we sneak and make out and are perfect for each other!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - Okay so my life is complicated...this is going to get confusing..just a warning before you get started... Okay well first off about 2 years ago I cheated on my ex for my girlfriend im dating now (for 2 years)...well I still love my ex and my ex ...

I like her and her boyfriend wants us to do things together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - Hey everyone. Sorry this is so long. Need a bit of advice. I'm a lesbian and all of my friends know it and are fine with it. I really like one of my friends. Sometimes I think that she likes me because she talks to me about stuff that she refuses to ...

I ended a relationship because my ex said he loved me then he asked some other girl out!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - This is going to make me sound really selfish and in a way I think I am acting selfish. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago and I was glad it was over for multiple reasons. I moved on rather quickly but my ex interfered. He told me ...

Is my ex already with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm having a really hard time at the moment and would appreciate any answers, thanks :) Sorry if it's a bit long!! My ex broke up with me just under 2 months ago. We had been together about 5 and a half years. I was still very much in love wit...

Old feelings die hard, should I bury them or take a chance?

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26 March 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyrfriend for almost a year now, and he has done so much for me. My issue is that I cannot get over this guy who I have had a GIANT crush on my whole life, or since 5th grade at least. Literally, 5th grade ...

Its hard to throw away a 10 year relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Well I've been in a relationship for ten years, we have an eight yr old daughter. We have been through a lot together and always been there for each other matter what. The past couple of years its like he's not really there. He doesn't really talk ...

Is this behaviour between my fiance and his 20 year old daughter normal??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - This is kind long lol. Me and my fiance have been together for 2 years, he has a 20 year old daughter. When I met her the first time we got along then me and my fiance had some issues which he ran to her about no she seems a little cold to me. ...

How do I tactfully deal with my boy friend's lonely Mom? Am I being bitchy not wanting to go out as a group of three on dates with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's mom is very nice and friendly, and I do like her. The problem is that she is always around, and several times while he and I are hanging out, she has tried to get us to do things with her, like go out to dinner, go to the movies, etc. ...

Was I the very very last to know? Has he been a liar to me all along? I'm devastated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - i started seeing my bf last june. we both work for the government and there is a strict non fraternization policy so we keep it on the DL. i have been 2 LTR's and do not have a lot of experience playing the field. but i really liked this guy so i ...

My problem is his pregnant partner. Is there a chance he will just love me and leave me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - Am girl who is 21 years of age,there is this guy I just met and I love him and I do want to have sex with him, but my problem is his pregnant partner. What if he loves her more than he loves me? What if he just want to have sexual relations with me ...

After every fight he calls his ex! Is he not over her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - I have been married for 5 years. We have baby, but whenever I argue with my husband he always start calling his ex. Then it takes time before I notice. When I confront him he say they are just friends and it was out of frustration. Could it be he ...

How do I get him to chose ME not HER?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - the guy i am seein right now has a girl and there relationship according to him has no future that is why he started a new one with me we been together a bit over a month but now i am in too deep and i do not want to fall any deeper so fast what do ...

I'm mature for my age, but don't know if this teacher has feelings for me? He gets overprotective and jealous when I get close to other guys....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and ...

Should I be angry at my boyfriend for sharing his fantasy??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - Last night while I was in bed with my boyfriend making love, he asked me if I had any fantasies lately. I said no but asked him if he did. Earlier on ITR I introduced a little kinkiness to our sex life by talking about fantasies together to turn ...