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I like her and her boyfriend wants us to do things together.

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Question - (27 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone. Sorry this is so long. Need a bit of advice. I'm a lesbian and all of my friends know it and are fine with it. I really like one of my friends. Sometimes I think that she likes me because she talks to me about stuff that she refuses to tell anyone else although she is a lot closer to some of my other friends than she is to me. The issue is that she is in a serious relationship with a guy. My friend is always talking about the fact that her boyfriend would like for her and I to do sexual things together. She hasn't ever said how she feels about it but she's mentioned it a few times recently although her boyfriend said it over a year ago. She's either bisexual or bi-curious (not sure which) so I don't have a clue how she feels towards me. I wouldn't want to just participate in sexual acts with her, I would like to date her if I'm honest. I'm too shy to tell her how I feel. How can I show her that I really like her without putting myself on the spot?

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A female reader, Pinkskirt United States +, writes (27 March 2011):

Im lesbian too. i think you ask her out on a date and let her know how u feel. her bf wants a 3 some i think shes not comfortable with that. go for her its what u want

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