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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Is my boyfriend an expert liar, or worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am confused as to what to do with my boyfriend. He genuinelly acts like he cares about me and that he loves me. He says that every one is always saying that they love someone but they don't mean it, but when he says it he means it. He is marr...

Sticky love triangle here...what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi... It all started when my mate and his girlfriend were going through problems. Me and his girlfriend had became good friends cause we spent alot of time going out and partying together with our other friends too. Then one thing led to another a...

Is it fair my married lover wants me 100% yet he is still committed to his other life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My married boyfriend seems to really love me and forsakes his family for me quite often.I feel guilty at times and when i tell him so he really gets angry at me.I know i can never have him 100% so i also keep abit of a distance from him but he ...

Does a relationship with a married man ever work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I was in an unhappy marriage,ready to leave.Met this married man and fell in love.Subsequently i drifted out of my marriage.Now am together with the married man,he really loves me and helps me out alot both financially and emotionally.Will it really ...

I'm in love with my girlfriend and her brother! help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a situation. I've always been straight but fell in love with my best friend who is a female. i dont know how it happened but we've been together for two years now and we are deeply in love. My problem is that before we g...

Torn between my wife/family loyalties and my new love-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I am in a terrible situation. Ive been married 30 years, 3 kids. The marriage was not good, as my wife has a medical condition that causes severe anger. I was tempted to go many times, but could not leave my kids to her (un)tender mercies. I never ...

My BF has a bad tempter but loves me. I am also dating his buddy who is nice to talk to and definitely my type. Please help me decide?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Dear all, I hope to receive some advice on this matter. I've been dating a guy, C, for 3 yrs now. He is nice, sweet and loving to me. However, he tends to say insentitive remarks and is fierce with me due to his bad temper. However, despite...

Why does he say he likes me but hes got a girl friend and still meeting up with me without her knowing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - theres this lad that i went out with in october for about a month he finished with me and it took me 5 months to get over him when i finally did it was with another lad and then they both had a fight because the lad it took me ages to get over said ...

In love with my flatmate ,but he's taken, should I give it a go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I have some strong emotional feelings for my housemate G. When we first met three years ago it was just for casual sex as I wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone after comming out of a four year relationship. Then he started dating someone ...

We had an affair while she was in a relationship, should I give her space after her recent break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Just after some advice on a confusing situation! I'll try to keep it quick. I walked away from an affair i had with a girl who was in a relationship. It was very intense emotonally and physically but was a dirty secret. We both are good people but ...

I like my GF's best friend. How will I get over her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - hey im 14 have a girlfriend that is great im doing well in school and just have a good life in general. One problem i like my gfs bestfriend. I know i would never stand a chance with her because im ugly. Basically im asking for any advice on how t...

My fiancee wants me to forgive him and accept his baby with another girl!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we are engaged and he is with me everyday, never spent a night away apart from 3 times in the whole 2 years to work. The last time he went away was January and I have just found out he got a girl pregnant. ...

Why does she keep talking and flirting with me if she's in this great relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Ok so I've been friends with girl that I like for 7 months. We've gotten real close but she has a bf. Sopposedly he is the lobe of her life but what does that mean in high school? So the other day her bf found a letter in her car from sombody who ...

How do I dump the trouble women while keeping one or two lookers on the side for sex and still stay with me girlfriend?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - My love-life has been pretty hectic lately and I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with this truly wonderful, sweet girl for the past seven years. We get along great, do all sorts of fun things together and really care about each other. ...

I love my fiancee, but also think about her friend a lot. Is this just because of our talk of a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - I've been engaged to my long term girlfriend for a few months now. Recently we discussed having a threesome with another girl. We both agreed to ask one of her long term friends (they have known each other since around the age of 3). We havn't had ...

Sleeping with a married man and jealous of his wife and baby..what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Im sleeping with a maried man and i thibnk i might be falling in love with him. Im jealous of his wife and i cant handle that he has just had a baby with her. what should i do?...

I think I could trust him but it seems like he brought up the sex topic too soon, especially that he still lives with his ex! Your advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hey everybody! Thank you for taking to time to read my question. I met this guy about a month ago and he really likes me. I enjoy being around him and we have a lot in common. He enjoys being around me too. However yesterday he brought up the s...

Found out my ex-girlfreind was a swinger and had an open marriage before me. Too much drama for me, what'd you do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - First off my ex-wife and i both agreed that we would never bring any other person into our bedroom, no threesomes, foursomes, gangbangs or any other thing like that. We are both too jealous to do that I guess, but i know everybody on here has the ...

My boyfriend stopped caring... what is left to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend Has Stopped Caring. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months we were happy to start with, got engaged and everythin, now everythings changed. he wants more time alone and when i decide to go out on the town with my mATEs he hates i...

I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Dear cupid ... i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he said he likes me alot but he still likes his girlfriend. i told him i would wait but not too long and that i wouldnt ruin their relationship. he always say i love you when its just...

I'm beginning to lose the urge to want to be intimate with my boyfriend of 7 years, and I find myself attracted to a young lady in the net! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we've been living together for the past 7 years. i love him, and am very used to have him in my life, but i'm beginning to lose the urge to want to get intimate with him. we're very busy with our work...sometimes we don't even ...

I really like my friend's boyfriend and he feels the same, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do, my friend's boyfriend really likes me and i like him. My friend and i don't speak that much now. I now speak to him everyday and really like spending time with him, but he still really likes his girlfriend. What should i...

I'm confused, the other woman was in my bed! I don't know what happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

25 April 2008 (M) - I moved here about nine months ago...and i met the most beautiful woman i have ever seen. We started dating soon after. Since then she has broken up with me 3 times, after the third time i met this woman and things went too far. Me and the girl...

I have arranged for my ex to sleep with my friend at my place, should I go out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

25 April 2008 (M) - Hey all, I'm in a situation where i don't know have much experience in. My ex g/f and I are on good terms, and we occasionally meet up and still have great sex! Although she has only had experience with a different guy before she dated me. She i...

She tells me if I am not out of my relationship with my partner by May she is gone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for 7 years. We have two small children. We are great friends however we are best friends not lovers anymore. My partner is very easy going and rarely raises her voice. A few months ago I meet a w...

I'm not sure if he is flirting me or he just sees me as his student.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Hello,everyone i'm new here and as you can understand is my first message.I want some aswers from you!Please!Well,I'm 21 and i'm in love with my actor-dance teacher..he is 33!I do with him only 1 in a week but i see him the other days (when he has ...

I would happily settle as second best just to be with him again. How can I go about getting him to be with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Recently I met a guy who works for my dad. We were working together at an exhibition away from where we both live. He has a girlfriend who I met the same day I met him. He is not very attractive but throughout the exhibition we got on really well. ...

My girlfriend and my best friend keep flirting! Should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

24 April 2008 (M) - i have a problem i know its a weird one but i need help ok well to start my g-f and best friend keep on flirting with eachother my g-f says their not but when i have friends saying they see them flirting i think otherwise. also my best friend ...

We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he ...

It sounds as cheating as he is in another relation, but we're not formally divorced yet, would it be wrong if I ceded to his innuendos?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - ok, my question may be kinda silly but maybe fresh eyes can make sense of it. My Newly seperated husband (living with someone at the moment but not divorced from me) has been going on his webcam during our conversations on the computer and making an ...

We set the marriage date but I like somebody else although I love my boyfriend too... Confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - i been dating this man i am with now for a year and two months, my only big problem he and i fuss all the time about stupid things, we break up and then we say our sorrys and get back together, my big problem is i like some one else now but stil...

My problem is our exclusive sex life became unexistant since engaging in the "swinger" activities!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - hi i have been seeing my bf since last november stated fantastic he was all over me .then after 1 month nothing he never hardly touches me .we now go swinging and he does everything with the other women ,i have asked why not me but he wont ...

What is he trying to do, by flirting with both of us? We've even had an argument over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - im confused over who this lad likes: me or my mate. he texts me all the time n always tells me im funny n that he has a laugh with me, as well as this he tells me he finds me good looking with a nice body. however, when both me n my mate are around ...

I'm dating a guy who loves his ex girlfriend. I'm so hurt by this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating a great, amazing guy for just over half a year now. I am really falling in love with him...there's only one major problem: He doesn't love me...he loves his ex-girlfriend, who he broke up with over a year ago. They dated for six ...

This is a cry for help from the Love Triangle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Help!The following is one part confession, one part cry for help. I need all the replys I can get. 5 yrs ago my boyfriend of 6 yrs,we'll call him NM, and I broke up. I was so upset because he left me in a really cruel way by staying out all ...

I think she likes him back and I get jealous! I'm planning on asking her out though.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 April 2008 (M) - I work with a girl and I really like her. She's finishing work in a few weeks though I've worked with her for about 8 months. When we started to get to know one another, she was really friendly and chatty. I would compliment her and she would ...

Should I tell my husband's mistress he's still seeing me? We are working on our relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - Okay well here we go. My husband left me in October last year. At the time he told me he was unhappy because of certain things I was doing (which I either wasn't doing at all or he had exaggerated out of all proportion). I subsequently fou...

He wants to date other girls and to continue to date me as well. Is he really interested in me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - i dated a guy twice two weeks ago. when he called me for our third date, i reminded him that i was not comfortable dating a man who was dating other women at the same time, he didn't say anything at all at that time but later on the same day of our ...

Threesome gone wrong!!! He's always told me he could never be with another women, yet when given the chance he chooses her over me!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2369 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - Hello, I have a major problem with sleeping all of a sudden due to something that my husband and I did in the past, about a year ago. My husband has always wanted a threesome with another girl, and being sexually open, I thought , what the heck...

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...

I was his mistress and now we are together. Why am I still competing with the wife?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - i am a 21 yr old who is dating a 33 yr old man. He left his wife for me and i believe he loves me very much as do i him. He has 3 kids who absolutely dispise me as well as alot of financial stuff from his past with his wife.I know his wife is still ...

My desire is awakened by his sight although I initiated the break up! How to get over my ex when a child is in the picture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - Hi, Well this is a first for me, but besides from councelling, i don't know what else to do. Me and my ex were together for 6 years. At 19 we had a child together (not planned) and at the age of 20, we broke up. The last year has been a rollerco...

I want to be with her and I know she feels the same, but she's in a committed relation for the past 11 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I am a female and in love with another female. I have shared my feelings to her and she has shared the same feelings with me. She is in a relationship for the past 11 years and I have been in one for the past 8. Mine just ended and she is still ...

I hope he is having a midlife crisis and some day he will return home to his family... is it just a dream?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I have ran out of options and can use all the advice i can get...I am a 30 yr old woman with a 34 yr old husband.We have 3 kids, and have been together for 14 yrs and married for 11. 5 months ago he left me and went straight to a 22 yr old girl and ...

Is it me with the problem, or is it her not taking our relationship seriously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - I'll try to cut this down to as small as i can. I have a girlfriend of 4 and a half months. Shes 15, same as me, and she is bisexual. She has hooked up with 4 different girls before in the past two years. One of them though meant a lot to her, and ...

My dad has been married five times and he has his sights on a nasty number six now, I cant cope anymore !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I was raised by my dad, over the years, my dad has been married 5 times but I am an only child for now. My dad is a great loving dad and I know he loves me a lot and I love him so much too but in and out I always have a new ever-changing mummy or ...

My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. We have always been very sexually active and comfortable with speaking openly about what we want in the bedroom. About 2 months ago, during phone sex, he brought up how he wanted to watch me ...

I want to leave him as he was staring at this girl for hours!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I am a woman that as long as i rememebr had 2 divorced parents, which made me choose all the wrong guys in my life, which now am trying to correct. The sad thing is, it has been more than a year and a half when i decided to break up with someone ...

My first love returns - how do I pursue this so nobody gets hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - My fist real love contacted me last year and I am torn over what to do. We dated in high school and then he left to join the airforce. I thought we would always get back together, but I got pregnant and married the baby's father. He met some...

Should I believe him? I suspect he was closer to his roommate than permitted...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Ok here it goes. My bf is havin trouble with his roomates or whatever. So me and my mom went over there he knew I was comin over, but anyway when we came to the door his roommates girl answered the door( she lives there too) and my mom asked where ...