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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Should I let the urge to contact my ex boyfriend just pass?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Its been 7 months since the last time we spoke.We were on and off for few years because the distance was a huge factor since neither of us was ready to move. We live 4 hours apart and it was too much not being able to see each other whenever we ...

Should I let the urge pass to contact my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3452 days ago

Want my ex boyfriend back but how. running out of ways

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Me and my ex have been broken up since April. I have tried all I can think of to get him back etc told him how I feel, asked him out again stopped being as needy. Alot of girls always try and flirt with him alot. I like him alot even though we was ...

My ex and I talk/text sexual things but he's got a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My son's father and I are not together anymore. We haven't been for over a year. He's had another gf for about a year. I've been single since we ended things. About 6 months ago, he and I were talking and things started to go in a sexual ...

He lied about having a baby and a wife, I can't trust him anymore but I'm still with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I lived with my bf for a year.. He's from Iraq and I am from South America but we both live in United States. I discovered some pics on Facebook about him and a baby which I asked and he said it is his nephew..after that like 3 months after a woman ...

His new girlfriend posted pictures of our daughter on Facebook and didn't reply or remove them when I asked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I need to get peoples view on whether I'm over reacting or not. My little girls dad's girlfriend recently posted a load of photos of the three of them together on facebook and has even referred to my daughter on facebook as "Our little princess". I...

2 years of sleeping with ex who is married. Do I walk away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Been sleeping with ex for almost 2 years. He's married. I said to him "when you get divorced we can spend more time together". He said, "you'll find someone" I said so will you, since he's been saying he's getting divorced. He responded, "I have ...

My ex said he made a mistake breaking up with me and now I can't stop thinking of him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I was in relationship with a guy for a couple of years. I was so crazy on him like I loved him so madly and I trusted him to the core. But he broke up with me and went with other girl. First it was so hard for me even I tried committing suicide. But ...

Ex boyfriend wants to be back in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - My ex and I have broken up for 3mths. We would tak every now and then but not much. He would initiate all contact. The breakup was pretty crazy as I wasnt ready to accept it and kept tryin to fix it, til one day, I just stopped. He told me he ...

My ex is confusing me.. Why is he still explaining himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Me and my ex broke up a week ago. I ignored him and his texts since then but he keeps msging me. Today he msged me asking why i was ignoring him... So i said he made his decision. I respect it but I'm not settling for any less than what I want (he ...

Should I tell my ex's girlfriend that we made out and had oral sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I was recently in my ex's hometown and we hung out even though he has a girlfriend. He called me as soon as I got to my hotel and we had drinks. Within two hours we were making out, and fooling around (oral sex, boob sucking, dirty talk) he wanted ...

Should I allow my boyfriend to keep his ex in his life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years but I don't think we should be together anymore. I've tried to end things on a few occasions lately but I can never just stick to my guns and cut all ties with him. I did love him a lot at one...

I'm trapped in the past and don't know how to let go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3459 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Its been 4 months not seeing or communicating with my ex-bf. I still think of him but this time with anger cause he almost took me virginity for a lie. He lied to me about being single, loving me and caring for me. He was inlove with another girl ...

Despite all these set backs, and my feeling that I just can't win: how do I recover from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3459 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - This has been the most frustrating time of my life. To start the year off I decided I would get back with my ex girlfriend. Who had gotten married for money so this guy could get a green card. Yeah there was no money lol. But I had been in a rela...

She still likes me but gets annoyed??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3459 days ago

23 May 2015 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 months broke up with me completely out of nowhere, saying she wants to be alone. She did say that maybe in the future we can try again. She told my friend weeks later after the breakup that she still likes me, but is happier ...

Why does my ex blame me for his failed conquests?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3459 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - Why does my ex blame me for his failed conquests? I fell out with a guy I had a brief fling with. He is one of these smooth talkers, who likes to chat the women up - so I said I couldn't cope with his flirting around etc anymore. So anyway, we fi...

It is upsetting to know I have been used by him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - How do I get over a break-up. I've been seeing this man for over a year and he was my world. I loved him and I did anything I could for him. We talked everyday non-stop and I thought he felt the same. He has now moved away due to work so we have ...

I need a list of tips for dealing with retroactive jealousy (RJ). What can you suggest?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

21 May 2015 (M) - I've been suffering with RJ for almost 5 months. My partner and I are so close, so in sync that we do literally feel made for each other. Our pasts aren't nearly as extensive as most, and we're *almost* even. Still, being so close has given...

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me and he and my former best friend, (who is also my cousin), are now a couple. How do I get over this betrayal by the two of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I was relationship with a guy like for 4 years suddenly one day he told me he is seeing someone else and that girl is my cousin. She knows everything about our relationship and also she knows how much I loved him. But I don't know why the hell a b...

My ex girlfriend broke up with me because of trust issues but I don't think she has moved on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

17 May 2015 (M) - Hello Agony Aunts Recently my Ex girlfriend and I ran into some troubles in our relationship. We've been on and off because of some poor choices I've made so she ended up having some trust issues with me. I tried really hard to show her That I ...

What did this kiss mean from my ex/FWB?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - I would really value some advice on my ex fwb, then friend, now I-don't-know-what! We've always kept in touch since the benefits ended (I got a boyfriend, but not anymore). He says he always enjoys my company, and recently we have started to go out ...

My boyfriend's ex believes we were cheating before they broke up and keeps writing nasty things online about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend officially for about a month, but we have been seeing each other since early February. We worked together for a while last year, so I knew him before when he was with his ex girlfriend. I totally admit, I liked him then...

Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Or is he stringing me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Recently my ex came around again after breaking up with the new girlfriend we started talking slowly ... and the next thing you know we hung out together and of course that lead to sex. he...

I can't forget my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - I can't forget my ex. I still love him. I still do. Although I know he doesn't love me anymore and he doesn't care about me, he is always on my mind. He blocked me on facebook and unfollowed me on instagram. I have loved him so much. and i still ...

Boyfriend of 6 weeks still talking to his ex but has proposed to mr

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is still talking to his ex ! does he have the right to do this ? We started dating each other’s about 6 weeks ago, In the beginning we liked each other’s a lot, we could not get enough from each other . We used to meet constant...

My boyfriends ex is like a ghost around us. I wish he would let go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

16 May 2015 (M) - Dear All, I am in a relationship for a year and it goes really well and we are still in love. Of course little arguments happens time to time at the end everything comes to a good sweet end. So I might say things go pretty fine and well. By the way ...

I contacted abusive ex and am regretting it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - Dear all. I finally got out of an emotionally abusive relationship ten weeks ago. It was very toxic. He gave me the silent treatment for weeks at a time, used to slam down the phone on me, was unreliable and a whole host of other things. Anyway, I ...

How to cope with a girlfriend who cheated on you and then left you for someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

16 May 2015 (M) - How to cope with a girlfriend who cheated on you and then left you for someone else? Please help. I was with my ex and I thought everything was great. She blindsided me by cheating. Before I found out about it, she broke up with me what felt lik...

She was amazing and beautiful and was the kind of girl I always dreamed about being with and it kills me that I let it go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

15 May 2015 (M) - To anyone My ex and I broke up after two and a half years almost a year ago. It was somewhat mutual. I went away for the summer to work in another country and while we said we were on a break we talked everyday and acted like everything was normal. ...

Could hormones be causing these feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - In a bit of a dilemma here and hate feeling like this. I am pregnant with my second with a new partner have a three year old from previous who's dad does not bother with him. This man has been in our lives for two years but officiously together for ...

Why is my cheating ex angry that I have moved on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

14 May 2015 (M) - This is just a general question. Why would an ex girlfriend who cheated and left you for someone else, get extremely mad when they discover you've moved on yourself? My ex cheated and played the back and forth game for weeks. One day, I was the love ...

I didn't even notice he was cheating on me .......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - My ex cheated on me repeatedly throughout our relationship, until I had a bad car crash and spent a long time recovering. He would later tell me that it made him realise what he had and he didn't want to lose me. I thought everything was going ...

I dated and broke up with brother 1. Now brother 2 is pursuing me. Is it wrong and what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - Is it wrong to be with someone who pushed you away for a very long time and because you were with his brother and he felt jealous and now he wants you???? I am in love with him but i'm confused... His brother hates me for telling him what happene...

How do you act when you your boyfriend and his ex will all be at a function?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - In a situation where you have to spend a reasonable amount of time at a function where both your partner and his ex are present, how do you handle it? Do you act like the ex is a stranger and only talk to them if they talk to you? Do you seek them ...

My ex wants to be FWB. Should I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - Okay so I need a bit of advice. A good friend of mine, we will call him Mark, used to date me. Another friend, we will call her Amber, decided she was going to be a not so good friend and steal him away. Mark and Amber were together for about 3 ...

My ex is too involved in my life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

10 May 2015 (M) - I broke up with my ex legally and she too agreed but I have left my phone with her so that we could contact as normal friends but before some last month's it seems that this is going wrong as she still acts as my girlfriend. ..We broke up due to our ...

Although we have broken up, could he really still be in love with her and me concurrently? I know I have to let go, but I feel a connection.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - Last July my relationship broke up as my partner fell in love with another girl. We have stayed in touch and I have forgiven him. Long story, but basically he say he still loves me and misses me. Truth is some feelings were stirred recently...

Clearly we have some kind of emotional affair going on but what now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - I met a guy 3yrs ago through a mutual friend, there seemed to be an instant attraction on both sides the chat was flowing and then he slips out that he has a girlfriend, gutted! Anyway I decided right then to back off. He lives over 2 hrs away ...

How do I step out of my S and M past and into a vanilla engagement with the woman I love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

8 May 2015 (M) - So the problem is I'm trying to change my whole way of life for this woman I'm in love with. She's everything I could ever ask for but she's nothing like my old life. Before I started dating, let's call her X, before I started dating X i was in a...

I know she loves me, but she doesn't show the affection I'd like her to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

8 May 2015 (M) - Alright, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over 2 years with like 2 little breaks thrown in. Anyway the problem is that I find her to be really under affectionate. I am a very affectionate person I like the kisses and I love ...

My ex makes me doubt myself and feel worthless, but I still have to see him because of our child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

7 May 2015 (F) - I have recently came out of a five year relationship and we have a child together. However we came to an arrangment of him having our child, but lately he turns up whenever he feels like it and chooses the days that suit him and not me. I don't ...

Why does my ex-boyfriend think he can have it both ways?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

7 May 2015 (F) - Why does my ex-boyfriend think he can have it both ways??He is still calling on occasion which after the phone calls I only feel worse and now he wants to get together for sex. I admit I was weak and suggested it and we did where I spent the night. ...

My ex dumped me for another women. What can I do to stop thinking about the situation & being jealous of her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

7 May 2015 (F) - My ex fell out with me and dumped me for another woman who is still a friend of mine on Facebook. I know he was seeing her before we fell out - hence the argument - although she always maintained she didn't know we were still together. Howeve...

Why leave a good woman for someone who doesn't care for you??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

7 May 2015 (F) - My ex bf of 3mths now has been texting me lately. we were together for a year. My girlfriend said that he's messing around with an old fling he had before him and I got together. She hits him...like, she's abusive and controlling And she put her ...

Is he telling lies too? He is calling me a liar about changinng my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

5 May 2015 (F) - Okay I have a simple yet complex question. My boyfriend and I were arguing and he was calling me out for having said that I used to think my boyfriend was well endowed and once I got with him, my thoughts on that changed. Whether that makes sense or...

I still have feelings for a past hookup, but he's a player and I don't want to get hurt!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

5 May 2015 (F) - Please help i am really confused! Last year during the summer season I had a bit of a thing with a guy I work with it was just sex and i knew that there was nothing more in it and i stopped it in the end as i felt i was beginning to have feelings ...

I get separation anxiety. My Bf is about to be posted overseas. Should I wait for him or breakup now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

5 May 2015 (F) - I am a 36 year old woman and my boyfriend is 29. We have been dating for 1 year and we have agreed to register for marriage in August. I feel that I am the one who pushed for it and we agreed August for practical reasons as my sister who lives ab...

Despite my initial good feelings about him: should I just cut my losses and move on, or actually try to make him reconsider?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - Three weeks ago, I met a man on an online dating site. We have a very strong connection and started dating, even though we live an hour and a half from each other. For the first time I actually felt really comfortable around a man, and let down my ...

Should I stay away from my ex-emotional affair partner, even if I think he needs help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - I have no contact for 4 months with the guy I had an "emotional affair" with. It's been close to a year now since it happened. I still hear about him because we have common friends. I tried to cut them off too for self-preservation but they've ...

I would like to have a real future with him. He is married and he and I had a relationship earlier. Am I hoping for too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - I have had an affair with a guy for about three years and I ended it when I realised he was not going to leave his wife. We have been on friendly terms ever since. Now, 4 years later I am going trough a really,really rough time and he helps me ...