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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Is it wrong to be with someone who pushed you away for a very long time and because you were with his brother and he felt jealous and now he wants you???? I am in love with him but i'm confused... His brother hates me for telling him what happened... and... I don't want to come between their brotherly love but I want him... (the one who pushed me away)
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (13 May 2015):
 Not cool in any way, shape or form. Don't do it.
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reader, JeJe A'iru +, writes (13 May 2015):
 Hi there,
If course it's wrong dear. Ket's hypothetically say your ex wanted to date your sister...That would not digest well. Another thing to consider: The Brother pushed you away not only out of jealousy, but out of respect for his brother he seemed to have practiced restraint. You're young,and im sure you're a beautiful young lady. Dont take being in love so serious right now. You have yet to meet the people who will play an integral part in your life. TAs you grow amd mature, your choices will change accordingly. Dont dive in those waters until you are ready to swim in them. Dignityvis priceless. Keep yours guarded.. The one who is handpicked for you will find you when the time is right..#BeEncouraged?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2015): Completely remove yourself from this situation. Never come between brothers. You'll regret it.
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reader, hoehum  +, writes (12 May 2015):
In my experience, people who only want you because they can't have you, or because they're jealous, tend to have a short-term interest. Once they feel secure, they get bored again. My guess is that he'd push you away again, once you'd stroked his ego and he no longer felt like you were a challenge.
Would you really want to be in the middle of a family fight?
Only you can really decide if it's worth the risk or not.
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reader, Garbo +, writes (12 May 2015):
 You should walk away from both of them. Besides what you say not be between brothers, this is just too much unhealthy drama and given your young age, none of which will have any happy ending for you. It isn't good to be passed on from one to another member of the same family and relationships at this age do not tend to have "seriousness" in them so I suspect that you are being played by brothers who are passing you around. Even if they are not, stepping away into fresh space away from them will serve you much better.
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