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*ellylouise11
writes:Me and my ex have been broken up since April. I have tried all I can think of to get him back etc told him how I feel, asked him out again stopped being as needy. Alot of girls always try and flirt with him alot. I like him alot even though we was only together a short period. I asked him does he feel the same as I do for him he Said far from it. I'm confused because if he only thinks of me as a friend why does he care when I don't message. Why does he make snide remarks when I talk to guys etc you going to marry him. And when I do give up he tells me I thought you wanted to fight for me. What do I do I'm sick of always chasing and never being chased.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (31 May 2015):
 Stop chasing this guy.
I'm sorry, but ...He doesn't want you. He has found that if he treats you like you dirt you keep chasing and while he doesn't WANT you, he DOES like the attention, BUT ANY girl's attention would do.
So STOP chasing him. Do go after a guy who DOESN'T want to date you. His actions are pretty clear. Not only did he TELL you he didn't FEEL a THING for you, be he also jabs at you with snide remarks to MAKE you FEEL bad about yourself.
BLOCK, DELETE him of your phone and social media. And then forget about him. HE is a HUGE waste of your time.
You said you tried not to be so needy, well try NOT to be so desperate that you chase after a guy who isn't worth a pot to pee in. You should HAVE to totally change yourself for a guy, because THAT isn't you. Being needy is NOT attractive, that is true and IN THE FUTURE with another guy keep trying to tone it down, if you ACTUALLY were "needy" - my guess is this guy just called you needy to make a dig at you.
Let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2015): Pull yourself together and walk away from this loser!
Can you not see he is playing you like a fool? He wants all
Your attention to boost his ego, yet is crushing you without a care in the world.
This is one selfish individual!
Move on and forget him! He is like this now
Knowing how desperate you are, so can you imagine what things will be like if you did get back together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2015): Who broke up with who?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2015): If he wanted you , he'd make it clear and be with you. He is unsure that means he doesn't want you. "He makes side remarks " well that doesn't mean anything ! He is just that type. And you should be with someone else, someone who is willing to know where they stand with you and not have led you on
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