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26-29,
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writes:Its been 4 months not seeing or communicating with my ex-bf. I still think of him but this time with anger cause he almost took me virginity for a lie. He lied to me about being single, loving me and caring for me. He was inlove with another girl that i only found out later when someone showed me his secret facebook account with the girl and him pics loving and kissing. I hate him i should have known better. .i shouldnt have let him touch me. I feel frustrated right now i dont know what to do. Ever since we broke up, i couldnt find love. I am still trapped in the past and i dont know how to let it go. I cry sometimes when im alone thinking of how he fooled me and made me believe i was his one and only. Well, he was the only older guy that ive ever dated (5 yearz older than me), i thought i finally got it right. I need help. .i just wana find happiness and courage to love someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2015): I feel for you and hope that soon you'll get to the state of indifference with this guy. For now you're going through the natural progression of feelings but time heals so give it time, Do things that you love, pick up a hobby.......do things that will keep your mind occupied and soon you'll be in a better place. Most of all, you've got to tell yourself that you deserve better. Good luck!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 May 2015):
 You might have thought older guys are more mature and stable but there are quite a few who take advantage of our vulnerability and our naivety. It might be a shock to you how someone can lie and manipulate like this but I would say the pity lies in people who are cruel, because they have little love to give. It's always better when you can love than when you are loved. When your heart can open there's always danger of being used but the beauty is in the ability to love and never give up hope. You did not lose happiness but rather he did not let himself be touched by it. You were happy before and you must not think the happiness left you along with the relationships' end. It's still there in you. You just need to relocate it.
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