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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

What can I do legally to get her to stop with all the crap shes doing so we can live our lives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - Good day all... Here is the time for all you that give great advice to read my situation and give me advice on what I should do about it. I have been with my fiancé for almost 3 years now. Within a couple months of our relationship he ...

Who should I choose? My ex, who called my reaction too jealous? Or this new guy I've just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My older, once divorced boyfriend of two years recently told me that he wanted some space. He stated that I showed red flags of violent jealousy, during an encounter with his female friend at a local sports bar one Friday evening. He asked her ...

Moved away from girlfriend and the sister I have feelings for, did I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - I started dating my (now ex) girlfriend 4 years ago. She then moved in with her sister last year, which meant I spent alot of time with her and her sister. For 3.5 years I thought I was happy, well content maybe. Then slowly, my girlfriend, over a ...

She told me she needs to be alone for a while. Did I come on too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - Hi folks looking for some advice. I started seeing this girl "R" in feburary after meeting online- we went for a meal and clicked right away- we talked for over 7 hours and when it was time to go we shared a kiss which was truley amazing. A fe...

He's told others that I'm ''easy''. But was what I did wrong to him, by blocking him and ostracizing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Where do I even start? It all began when I started dating this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me. He started dating his ex girlfriend and I knew right there what a complete jerk he was. But, when he and his "new ex girlfriend thing" b...

What can I do about about my partner's willingness to be too kind for his own good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Situation is this.... My partner and I have been together for a year and a half and we live together. My partner has an ex wife with whom he is still going through separation issues and settlements. The separation was nasty so he has left it al...

!When I ask him why he doesn't give me any sex he answers that he just got lazy...Does that make any sense to anybody?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Ive got a confusing situation that boggles my mind. But maybe there is someone out there with answers to help me understand things. Ive been with my guy for about a year now. I take our relationship VERY serious. Even when I have outside temptati...

Any advice for me regarding my Girlfriend's actions during her previous relationship re nude photos sent to her now ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

26 April 2015 (M) - My girlfriend has sent her nude photos to her ex about 2 years ago and that is over now. she said there was nothing more to that (like sex). She and I are together about a month and I really care for her and she does the same. She told me this bec...

Will my fiance from another country be able to accept my culture? I think he's jealous

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Will my overseas born fiance be able to accept my American culture? He is so very loyal and romantic and attentive to me. I'm really in love with him. I think it's a miracle to find love halfway across the planet. I'm in the u.s. and he's from an...

I feel so heartbroken, even though I broke up with him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - So I've has a whirl wind 7 months. From the minute I met him he swept me off my feet and made me feel like the most special girl In the world! So what was the problem? His ex of 8 years who he has a daughter with, who left him and is now en...

I'm not ready to move on if there is still a chance I can get back with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I don't know what to do, I have this ex who wants to remain friends. So far I have obliged and I'm confused about whats going on. He keeps flirting with me and wanting to hang out with me, calls me the same nickname and has told me he'd be ...

Is my boyfriend over his ex wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3500 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I have starting dating this amazing divorced 24 year old guy. He is everything I ask for. But everytime we hangout it seems like he has to mention stuff that occured with his ex. He doesnt trash talk her but he'll be like "bec my ex was very diff ...

Can your ex be worth the wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3504 days ago

23 April 2015 (M) - First things first, some history. My ex-girlfriend and I have made some terrible mistakes regarding one another. We have moved on from the resentment and have gotten past it all. We are still madly in love and both can see our 2nd go around being ...

My boyfriend thinks he can't trust me and that I love someone else. I don't! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - OK, I apologize but this is probably going to be very long. My boyfriend and I were together for just under 2 years. We fell fast and hard for each other. After dating for five months, he moved in with me. Everything was great. We were so in ...

Could my lack of sexual interest in him be a problem for our relationship further down the line if I got back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3505 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - Okay so my ex boyfriend and I broke up a little over a year ago. It was a mutual decision as we'd been together 5 years and were not getting along too well. At first, we cut all contact but we live in the same town so it was obvious we would...

Should I explain myself to an old flame, or simply move on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

19 April 2015 (M) - During my days at university, I had a bit of a fling with a girl I stayed with in my halls. Our relationship became quite passionate, but it was short lived, as I was graduating, moving back home and didn't want to commit to a relationship with ...

My ex didn't try to keep our relationship alive, but now that I've moved on he is trying to sabotage me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3507 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year stopped having sex with me the last four months of our relationship. Everything was perfect except for the part we weren't having sex. We still kissed still went on dates and we're still very affectionate towards each ...

I think my partner's mother is out of order on this issue!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - How do I explain it in a short way... I'm 25. I am in a same sex relationship with my partner who is 4 years my senior. We've been together just over a year. She has a 4 year old child with her ex, who they have been split for 3 years because he'd ...

Is it to soon to ask for a STD test before I rekindle with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3509 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hi I'm single I just got a call from an ex and he told me that he has been in love with me for years. Our chemistry is awesome he wants me to come to another state to visit him. I call him an ex because we were friends at one time but sex was neve...

Missing my ex. Not feeling same connection in new relationship. Can I or should I try to gain my friend back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hey I've had bad breakup almost 5 to 6 months ago. I barely survived the first month of the breakup as my health got really bad and I was spending my nights in the hospital. We didn't get in touch and there was no asking about each other or anyth...

Family Interference every step of the way. What we can do to get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

19 April 2015 (M) - Basically I've been with my now fiance for seven months. Since the beginning of our relationship somebody has always had a problem with us being together, whether it be her family or one or more of her ex boyfriends interfering (one of whom she...

I feel bad for cheating on my ex girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3509 days ago

18 April 2015 (M) - So my girlfriend and i broke up for her reasons.But some months before that i did the stupidest thing by sexting another girl. I immediately regretted my mistake and the guilt immediately started eating me alive. I woke up in cold sweats and chest ...

I'm worried my boyfriend might rather be with the ex than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3509 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend got together in september. He took about 5 months to make it official. All in all we've been together for 8 months. He had a thing with a girl that goes to our university. They were really close and she stopped the fling an...

I left my abusive ex, so why am I in so much pain?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Dear all. Your views would be much appreciated. I don't understand what's going on with me. In breif, I finally got out of an emotionally abusive relationship around six weeks ago. The ending had been on the cards for sometime. My ex bf used to ...

I feel he has crossed an invisible barrier somehow.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Please help. Apologies for the length of this but I want to give some detail so you can give better advice. The problem is that my new relationship is going rapidly downhill and I don’t know why. I’m starting to wonder if my new partner might be...

I love my wife. I miss sex. I'm flirting online with an old friend. Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

17 April 2015 (M) - I'm married, I love my wife we have a beautiful little girl together that will be turning 4 in a few months. I have never asked questions on a forum before but I like to give as much information as possible so you get the picture. I wo...

I want my ex back so I lied and told him I am pregnant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

16 April 2015 (F) - i broke up with my ex-boyfriend last month. after our break-up, I got sick and when he saw my facebook status about that, he called me one night and explained me why he broke up with me, how much he had loved me, we can still be friends and that i ...

Should I forget my ex or get back in touch with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3511 days ago

16 April 2015 (F) - Hello, Almost ten years ago, I was in a relationship with a guy. It was one of those things where we were really best friends, but the romantic side just didn't work at all. We would talk and laugh for hours, but we'd also fight frequently. It was a...

What can I do to make my walls come down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

15 April 2015 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months, he is amazing, hes great with my children, hes just a decent guy in most ways. We have obviously had our doubts and ups and downs. I do love him, but because of past abusive relationships I ...

I'm pregnant but ex wont take me back and has met someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - Im in a mess I really need some advice. Basically my boyfriend of 3 years and I split up about a month ago after a series of rows. It was a messy split, we still both loved each other but could not be together. As the days went by I realised that I ...

My boyfriend is my first everything, but he's already experienced it all with someone else and his past makes me sad and jealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3514 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - I'm a 22 year old woman, currently in a two and a half year relationship with a lovely guy, and actually my first boyfriend. I've been jealous about his past and bitter over my own lack of love life. I feel like I've never completely been ...

Past experiences have made my boyfriend insecure and it's killing our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

11 April 2015 (F) - I love my boyfriend but he's overly insecure! It's from past relationships that has made him that way. He constantly looks into everything and over thinks things and it's brings me to the point I want to give up. having a social drink together has ...

I know I was a fool for ignoring her back then, but is it really too late?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

11 April 2015 (M) - i was in a relationship(long distance) for 3 yrs everything was fine and then there came a hard time for me..i really didn't had any idea how to cope with the things that were going around..but it started to affect my relationship also, i barely ...

I am not coping with our breakup!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

10 April 2015 (F) - My ex and I broke up 4 weeks ago yesterday. We were together for 5 years. We haven't spoken in 7 days today. When we spoke a week ago it was about 3.5 hours of going over shit that happened in our relationship from years ago. We discussed our trust ...

She cheated on my boyfriend with her current boyfriend but still tried to contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

10 April 2015 (F) - First year I dated this guy he's 4 years older than me....he showed me emails of this girl asking how he was and wanted to talk to him check up on him, I asked him who was she? He told me it was one of his ex girlfriends that cheated on him with a ...

My ex cannot stand to see me after 9 years? Why is he like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

10 April 2015 (F) - I have a question about my ex. I ended the relationship back in 2004 because of how he treated me, he was 20 at the time and I think a lot had to do with his lack of maturity. When we broke up, things were a bit convoluted. We agreed to be friends ...

I don't feel like I will ever be good enough for my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

9 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 3 months. The first two months of our relationship AL he did was talk about his ex girlfriend ( she dumped him). She was a who're, so he says.. They dated for about ten months and she was his first real ...

I think my Ex GF Has Borderline Personality Disorder

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

9 April 2015 (M) - I've recently broken up with my gf of about a year. I loved her more than any woman I've ever been with, but throughout the relationship she exhibited signs of mental instability that I overlooked or made excuses for because I love her. Someone ...

Why do I have to bring such effort into forcing my ex to take responsibily re child support ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - My child's father has sort of, abandoned responsibility. I have filed for child support, but a part of me just wants to close the case because it's already been more of a hassle than anything. It's been such a mess that I feel like it takes away...

Sharing and Caring? A time for advice that is empathic, not judgemental? Some notable differences I've noticed that have saddened me. Can this be addressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - This is not really a question as it is a suggestion for this site that I would like to share. I've been visiting this site on and off periodically for several years. And because my visits here are intermittent and sporadic, I never made my own prof...

My wife works with her ex and he's always calling her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

8 April 2015 (M) - my wife works everyday with an x lover and he is always calling her on the phone for long conversations and she doesn't understand why this bothers me. We've been married for three yrs and it is becoming a problem so what should I do, leave or let ...

I'm having trouble trusting him now.. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

6 April 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been.together five months now. We dated once in the past and he hurt me then and am starting to worry he will again. We both agreed when we got together no lies no secrets be 100% truthful but im starting to worry he's ...

No contact or contact? I want to feel indifferent. I want to get over him. But is it normal to still want to be friends? Or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

6 April 2015 (F) - My ex contacted me after a long time. He was the most serious relationship I have had and although I have moved on with my life, I have not found someone else yet. He has moved on and has a new long term girlfriend. We split because I felt h...

Why am I dreaming of an old lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

5 April 2015 (F) - Why am I dreaming about an ex-lover coming back to me, and I willing go with him ? I am married almost 37 years to my husband. I do love him, but maybe not like I loved this past lover. My ex is also married, but I don't know anything more about ...

Should I pursue something and stop overthinking, or am I being realistic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

5 April 2015 (F) - My best friend has this close friend, and hes really good looking and sweet and I've known him for a little while now. He is desired by most of the girls I know and once even my friend, however now hes admitted to liking me. But i don't know what to ...

She said we would be better as friends, I want to win her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

4 April 2015 (M) - My girlfriend left me the day before yesterday. She said that she thought we were better friends. We dated for almost a year and a half. Is it too late to win her back? If not how do I win her back? Please help me....

Am I trapped in this relationship with his Ex-wife a factor? Now he wants to move closer to his Ex !

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - I will try to make this as short as possible. I am 60 yrs old, live with my boyfriend (AND his grumpy Mother) for 3 yrs...who has been divorced for over 20 years, he has a 30yr old daughter who is married with kids of her own. My boyfriend ha...

I'd like to catch up with him. How can I work out his intentions? I don't want to reopen myself to old hurts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - My relationship ended a few months ago. Initially I didn't take things very well and did/said things I regret (I went through the whole crying and clinging stage). I still feel very strongly towards this guy and wish things were different but am s...

Why did he ask me to keep this quiet from his girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

2 April 2015 (F) - My ex has offered to lend me the money to either get a new car or repair the one I have, with the agreement that I pay it back to him without his current girlfriend knowing as she doesn't know about this money he has in savings. I'm confused as to ...

Should we still be this close after a breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

2 April 2015 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years. It wasn't a bad break up at all, but after going through emotional problems I brought the idea of separating up and we mutually agreed that our relationship was unrealistic at this point (we live ...