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writes:I don't know what to do, I have this ex who wants to remain friends. So far I have obliged and I'm confused about whats going on. He keeps flirting with me and wanting to hang out with me, calls me the same nickname and has told me he'd be interested in trying again in the future but wasn't ready to jump back into anything serious. In the meantime, a mutual friend of both of ours told me that he said if I got into better shape he'd be interested in getting back together. Now were just friends , and I want him back, and I don't know why he's flirting with me and wanting to hang out with me as much as he does. All the while he's mentioned other girls to me, nothing serious but he talks about this other girl every once in a while but thinks he has no chance with her. Is there a chance that he still likes me at all or will we get back together? I know most people will say he's not worth my time, and I can do better... and I know that, but I'm not ready to move on if theres still a chance with him. Or is this just something I have to talk to him about?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2015): Hi. I would be totally honest with him, and tell him how you feel. What he is doing is not fair on you. He knows you want him back, and is playing with your emotions. I would lay it on the line and tell him it's all or nothing. At the moment, he's enjoying the attention. If he's not going to get back with you seriously, cut him off totally. Give yourself a short deadline. Don't let him waste any more of your time, and get back in shape..for yourself. Good luck.
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reader, quintonwayne +, writes (24 April 2015):
Sorry for your loss. I've been there before and it's hard to believe it's over when it is. Time will heal. So sorry.
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