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Is it to soon to ask for a STD test before I rekindle with my friend?

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Question - (19 April 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2015)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm single I just got a call from an ex and he told me that he has been in love with me for years.

Our chemistry is awesome he wants me to come to another state to visit him.

I call him an ex because we were friends at one time but sex was never in it.Now he wants to take our crushes on each other and turn it into a relationship.

I'm all for it but I want him to take and STD test in case it's gets to hot on my three day vacation to see him.Is this question to much to ask even if I have been knowing him for many , many years. Help

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (19 April 2015):

Aunty BimBim agony auntTell him you have made an appointment for your STD test and that you would appreciate him also having the test, before the relationship develops.

Tell him its for your peace of mind.

If he demurs then you make sure there is no hanky panky without it.

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