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writes:My girlfriend has sent her nude photos to her ex about 2 years ago and that is over now. she said there was nothing more to that (like sex). She and I are together about a month and I really care for her and she does the same. She told me this because she said she couldn't hold this secret any more as she was in love with me and I also really want this relationship to work. I love her too. Any advice on handling this situation guys? How should I react to this. I mean I want to forget it and be with her.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, after seeing your comments, I also understood that this is not a very big deal and I should not make it one. Because it is in the past and it's better for both of us to let it be there. So, I know what I got to do now. Many many thanks for all your replies.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (26 April 2015):
 The smartest thing you can do is put it in the past and LEAVE it there. Most people have a past. Don't you? We all do things with others and then find a new love and maybe wish we hadn't done some things..but you can't turn back the hands of time so move FORWARD.
Give her credit for being honest and upfront with you and then let it go. Good luck!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 April 2015):
 She is being honest about something that happened in the past. What should you do?
Accept that she did it and move on. There is NOTHING you can do to change it, NEITHER can she. So why make a big or little deal out of this?
While I'm not a fan of sending nudes (as it can come back and bite you in the ass and I see it as being kind of pointless if you are in a relationship) BUT that aside, it seems quite the norm these days.
So I really don't see the big deal.. IT WAS 2 YEARS ago!!
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (26 April 2015):
What is there to handle? I'm confused. This isn't a big deal. Why are you trying to make it one?
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (26 April 2015):
 What situation?
Exchanging nude photos is just one of the things they did when they were together. I bet they did countless other things too. If she isn't your first girlfriend or sexual partner then you have a history too.
What is it specifically that's bothering you?
Maybe I misunderstood your post.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2015): Hey I would not worry about it at all if it is something that happened whilst you where not together and she is being faithful to you. These things happen in relationships sharing images etc...
But if it is in the past truly you can leave it there
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