A
male
age
26-29,
*aleb Biddle
writes:My girlfriend left me the day before yesterday. She said that she thought we were better friends. We dated for almost a year and a half. Is it too late to win her back? If not how do I win her back? Please help me. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 April 2015):
 When she said, "...She said that she thought we were better friends." she "told" you all you need to know. LISTEN TO HER!!!!
There is no romance here.... so YOU have to decide if your satisfied with what is left....
Good luck....
A
reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2015): Kaleb, make sure you're really comfortable just being friends if you can't win her back. Don't go around pretending just to hold on to her; because it will hurt your feelings or make you jealous, if she wants to see other boys. If you only want to be friends, you have to be honest and genuine about that.
Not just agree to it, because you think you can change her mind.
...............................
A
male
reader, Kaleb Biddle +, writes (4 April 2015):
Kaleb Biddle is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for helping me!! It means a lot. We're still texting as friends and I am happy for that. Your support helps allot
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2015): Hi there
The best course of action in these situations is for you to be friendly towards her, be happy, look good, but don't do anything to try to 'win her back'. If there is any feeling still there, this is what might bring it out. She may realise what she has lost. You do need to be prepared however, that breaking might be what she definitely wants and you have to respect that. If you chase her, you will only put her off and lose respect for yourself. Sometimes things can happen weeks, months down the line so don't panic about things being too late, it was only two days ago! If she is going to regret losing you, it will only be after some time has passed and if she sees you being happy and not chasing her, this is when it will most likely happen. Human nature is such that we want something we can't have.
Obviously though, people do break up for a reason, so maybe it's just not right, so bear that in mind too.
...............................
|
