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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

What's wrong with this guy!? Why does he keep being hot and then cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - My friend told this guy I like him. Ever since then, he's been staring at me, flirting with me, calling me pet names. Usually, this is the type of thing that would make a girl think that a guy is into her. But last I heard, he was still hung up...

My child's father treated me badly but wants another chance, but I'm with someone new! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - i got involved with a guy in the university and in our final year i got pregnant and asked me to abort and i refused by then i was 29years of age so i told my mum about it an she called him to asked if he knew i was pregnant for him,accepted and ...

What are my chances? I thought it was mutual love from the start. But is she having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party a...

Would these be deal breakers? Does it suggest I should be calling the wedding off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend, now fiance are planning our wedding and deciding on a wedding date. We have been engaged for one year. Dated for a year prior. I don't know if it is butterflies in my stomach but a few of his behaviors I am starting to ques...

What do I say to my ex when she comes to see me to get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend of a year ended our relationship over things I've done. I feel like a part of my soul has been taken. She has given me chance after chance, and I've blown it each time. All I need is for a fresh start, and one more chance to prove that ...

Do I love my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I want to know if I really love my ex, we were happy and always knew if something was not right and we understand each other. We are still friends and its been 2 months now but he is dating my new boyfriends friend. There was never a problem between ...

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting...

I've been told my ex is probably mentally ill and dealing with it is a nightmare. What do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for nearly three years. With all the difficulty we managed to maintain a friendship for the sake of our daughter but also as the marriage failed i believed we did care about each other. We both went on saw other ...

My boyfriend has lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money and she hasn't paid a penny back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My boyfrind of just over 2 years has just lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money. This was 6 weeks ago now and she hasn't paid a penny back. I reluctantly agreed to this because my boyfrind tells me's a good man and she is now just a friend ...

He's been separated for 6 years but wont get a divorce, am I a mug for staying with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months, he has been separated from his wife for 6 years! But still isn't divorced! He says she means nothing to him and its only a piece of paper. We have bought a house together and I have 1 child and he ...

I told my ex that I had not been with anyone but I had

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Hi - I'm in a bit of a pickle. Over two months ago I broke up with my live in boyfriend because it just wasn't working out. We'd been arguing a lot (literally screaming at each other) and neither of us were happy. We weren't communicating well at ...

Why would my guy want to be friends with his ex after everything she did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - My man was with a women 7 months and she cheated, stole, destroyed his heart and now he wants to be friends with her and she wont leave him alone. How can i make her go away???? Why would he want to be involved with her after that at all anyway? I ...

Why did my ex girlfriend do this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - I'm very disturbed by an action my ex girlfriend did. Why I don't like her in any way is because, when she dumped me, she lied to me, and wanted to be friends. This is why I don't like, nor do I trust her. However, this action isn't what d...

His ex attends the holiday gatherings with his family, isn't this disrespectful to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - So I began a relationship with a guy that ive known for many years.Early in the relationship we moved in together and I started having second thoughts.So I told him him we were done.I regret it but I spent the weekend with my ex and yes I had sex ...

What were his motives? Why did my ex ask me out, thinking I had a new Bf? But then get all upset after he realised I wasn't dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend started texting me last week. He thought I was still seeing someone but when he mentioned it I replied saying that I wasn't. Well it turns out he never got that text and asked me out anyway thinking I still had a boyfriend. Wel...

I feel uncomfortable over his ex...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - Hi and thank you I've been with someone for 7 months we are exclusive. He's good to me, treats me well except when it comes to his ex which he claims there "just friends". I have been trying hard to believe it BUT my intuition is telling me other...

Should I let my girlfriend hang out with her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - My girl friend has this guyfriend she likes to hang out with she has had some sexual relations with him once b4 but sometimes i feel like im not all the man she needs even tho she says i am i dont feel like i am because she still hangs out with him ...

How do I get over my married lover who is also the father of my daughter? I've tried, but it's so difficult.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - MY daughter's father and i broke up 9 months ago. I'm still not over him. We have a 15 month old daughter together, he is married and is having another baby. I know you might think what do i want with him? It's not that i want him its more so i c...

She says there is no love for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4384 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - so where to begin. my wife and i have been together for 5 years married 10 years together. we have 2 children together. we have struggled for years. it all started we had our first child when we were young she was 18 and blames me for taking aw...

Did I miss my chance with her by waiting too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - "Dear Cupid" or whatever, I really like this girl, and we're in a complicated situation. Well, I am in band and I play trumpet, and she was on dance team, and I have liked her since the first week of school. Well, after our first home football...

I feel like everyone likes my sister more than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - So I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago but we still texted each other off and on until about 3 weeks ago... The last time I talked to him was because of his best friend telling me that he had a concussion. I started texting him to see if ...

He cried, real tears, but guess what!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Just over two months ago I left my dating site obsessed boyfriend of four years. I accepted dating sites were part of his life and always will be. He has suddenly started trying to get me back again with the same old bull shit and accused me of ...

I'm worried my girlfriend's past makes her a slut

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

22 November 2012 (M) - Hello im a 21 year old guy and my question is im worried about my girlfriends past, I know its the past but some people don't change. I've been talking to thhis girl for a lil over two years I met her on a site, I've never had a real girlfriend just ...

My ex is trying to win me back but has an online profile that he visits every day???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

22 November 2012 (F) - Not sure if I want to continue reuniting with my ex-bf. We had been together for 12 years, living together for 6 of those, then he left me in a most cowardly sort of way. Then, after about two-and-a-half years of on-and-off luke-warm contact,...

She's the woman of my dreams but her ex is a thorn in my side

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

22 November 2012 (M) - Ok i am with the woman of my dreams.. i would go to the moon and back for her she is just so sweet. But i think that jealousy has gotten the best of me. We have been together for two years, she used to be married and i use to be married, she has ...

I'm sick of being so low down on his priorities and his ex's demands, how do I tell him I've had enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - Right guys is it me here? Wrote post before about partner. Don't live together, he has daughter of 4 I have two boys. I don't have to deal with my ex as my boys are teens now, been with my man 3 years his ex has another man of 3 years now and ...

How do I stop being paranoid over his FWB ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - Okay, Aunties I need my fears eased. Seven years ago, my fiance had a friends with benefits relationship with a woman for a year. She ended it with him because another woman got jealous. The whole situation is bizarre. The fwb ex-girlfriend e...

Ex and I are going on dates, but no title now. Is he using me while looking around?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year. We were together every single day living together. Then we broke up cause we were fighting alot. He has asked me back in his life but not as his official girlfriend. He wants to take things slow and go on ...

Boyfriend can't accept that I have to communicate with my baby's daddy. How can I get this to work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just separated over the fact that I have to communicate with my baby's daddy. He feels that I am to only speak to him when it comes to the child face to face and not over the phone. I told him how this would be when my baby ...

How can I carry on knowing he cheated on me for revenge, when nothing ever happened with me and my ex? Should I call it a day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - Don't really know where to start with this but ill just give it a shot. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he cheated on me at the beginning and I forgive him. The problem is the girl he had his affair with would not let it go an...

Should I get back with my ex? We've both slept with other people but now we're both single.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4389 days ago

19 November 2012 (M) - Hi, please help! I have a child with my ex gf who I was with for a few years. We lived together but fell out quite a lot and used to split up regularly. We ended a few times and about a year ago we split up for good, she moved on to another ...

My boyfriend told me I could sleep with my ex because he didn't see us ever getting married

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - The other night I asked my long term boyfriend if he ever saw us as getting married. I want to be married to him eventually and I wanted to see how he felt. He told me that he may want to but he is not sure. I was a little hurt as I think we have a ...

He says one thing, but does another and then other people say something even different! I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - I have been down and depressed for the past couple of days because I fell in love with a guy who obviously is still hooked on his ex whom he still lives with and has a child with. But here's my story. I met him at work. He was my supervisor and told ...

Am I being manipulated by my live in boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - I met this guy through my ex n we were seeing one another and things were going good. My kids adored him n he always had time of day for my kids....the moment i moved in he stopped sleeping in the same bed had nothing to do with my kids n we have ...

Do I stick with a guy who lies because he feels inadequate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - Hello Dear Cupids so I have a problem I need help with. Do I stick with a guy I have known for only a month, who sometimes feels the need to lie to try and impress people because he feels inadequate about himself. OR do I...

Does my ex want to make another go of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - Hi i need some advice. I have been split up with my ex since the summer, we have been sleeping with each other on/off since then. We both seen other people but on both sides its fizzled out. I'm confused, he's making more of an effort now texti...

I'm just so hurt to be walked all over by not one, but two men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4391 days ago

18 November 2012 (?) - Okay, so, I have a tricky situation. I was in an abusive relationship up until recently (end of October). We got into a HUGE fight (physical and emotional) and here's where I'm lost... my ex hasn't even tried contacting me to apologize or get his ...

How do you go from a drug fueled intense relationship to something normal? Am I weird for still wanting my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) - My life is going a bit out of control. My ex got me into taking drugs. When we took this we had such incredible sex, sometimes for 8 hours. I'm not saying its his fault that I took them because everyone can make up their minds about taking things. I ...

Child's father's wife is trying to raise my child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) - Hello, My problem is with my child's father's wife. I don't mind her being a part of my child's life because that is his child. The problem is that when it comes to communicating with him about our daughter, she speaks as though she is the father. I ...

Both these guys were once very important to me. Is it normal that I still care about them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) - Despite first impression, i'm not easy. I'm very picky i have somewhat standard. Sadly i'm also very sensitive person, so when do find some i really like, i make the mistake of giving my heart to easily. Even though i never been in a relation...

I found email my b/f wrote to his ex before we met and now I can't believe anything he has ever told me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my fiance for 3 years now and we have a 14 month old child together. When we met he'd not long come out of a relationship and told me he'd been with the girl for a couple of years and she'd manipulated him into ...

Her actions speak louder than her words but does she want to get back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

16 November 2012 (M) - So my ex and I broke up about a month ago. It got pretty ugly and ended with name calling ect. I left her. We went a week without talking and she finally contacts me. She tells me she's over me and tthanks for making me a stronger person. Well a.few ...

I'm pregnant and broke up with baby's dad. He says he doesn't want me to breast feed the baby! Should I take legal advise re access? It was amicable up until this ....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - Im 29 weeks pregnant with my first child. Me and the babys father have separated due to him being unfaithful (not the issue here tho). We are both trying to be as involved as we can, he has been to all scans and classes and he is going to be prese...

My ex owes me money! Is it worth trying to get it back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - Grrrrr, i can't believe I am yet again posting about my ex... He owes me money for a car that i sold back to him before the summer (at his request might i add) I have sent him a couple of reminder emails, but just get fobbed off each time, last ...

How can my husband and I handle the drama with his ex-partners and his children? It's becoming a problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - I married to the most wonderful man I've ever known. We both in our 30's and are both Born Again Christians. He has fathered three boys before we met. I gave birth to one son during my first marriage. We got married in February this year a...

His ex will never be out of his life, but I'm not going anywhere either because I'm the mother of his child!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - ok so yesterday my boyfriend's ex girlfriend called my house looking for him not on a cellphone my actual house phone. so when i asked her who is this she lied and said a different name which is not her name but i knew it was her because of my ...

I don't know if I made the right decision by getting back with my ex boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - hey everyone.i just got back with my ex boyfriend.we had broken up for about one year six months.it has been a month since we started dating again.we broken up because he cheated on me and a week after we broke up he started dating another girl.he ...

I know he has bought lingerie for women in the past but with me he claims he's new the idea and won't. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4395 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - His MO use to be to buy his ex girlfriends flowers, lingerie and a card I found out. He has never done this with me. Victoria's Secret catalog arrived in the mail and he said look it's Victoria's Secret. I said and so what you going to buy me. He ...

I've got to live with my ex for another 4 months and she's seeing other guys already! How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

13 November 2012 (M) - I'm 26 my ex is 21. (go figure I'd have relationship issues right?) Alright, so my now ex-girlfriend and I were together for 2 years. A few weeks ago I noticed a change in her behavior, she was shielding her phone. So I looked through it when she ...

Do you thnk I was out of order texting him about him beating up his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - I'm in such a state about my ex I don't know what to do. We split up a month ago, we had a terrible relationship. Basically he was looking through my facebook messages within a week of us being together, he saw that men messaged me dirty things and ...