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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My girlfriend's past threesome never bothered me before but now it does

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about a year now. She told me about 6 months ago that she had been involved in a threesome. It'd happened about 15 years ago. It honestly didn't really bother me at all. I know girls experiment and everything and it ...

Was my reaction appropriate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 December 2012 (?) - Dear cupids, I am deeply hurt and can't think straight. I broke up with my boyfriend last year because he was using another girl picture(he claims to be his cousin) as his profile picture on facebook and i suspected cheating. When I told him I was ...

I'm married and had an affair with a colleague, but he decided to stay with his GF. I'm so miserable and crushed, and can't face seeing him at work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am married 6 years with a young child. 10 months ago I started texting with a guy I work with, who lives with his girlfriend. We had an instant connection and starting texting non stop. We fell in love...always wanting to see eachothe...

Will my ex's new lesbian partner leave their same-sex marriage and go back to liking men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I posted a question here recently and have another one. I'm a lesbian and my ex left me for another women who has only been with my ex. And they got married after 6 weeks. Do you think she can stay married to her, or will she go back looking for...

Why can't my ex accept that we're not going to be together anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - This guy that I have been knowing for many many many years, we use to see each other. He was a great person when I first met him then when we started going out he took me on ride that I wished I had never got on. This beast was nothing but a woman ...

How long to get over a break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - He was the third bf. My first ex was my first love - we were together 2 years and I got over him in one year, the second I got over in one month. But this one, we were together just around one year but I can't get over him at all. I was strongly i...

We seem to get on okay through texting but when we meet up we don't click. What should I tell this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Alright... Here goes... This guy and I met in our final year of undergrad (two years ago). At the time, I was seeing someone else and I didn't even think twice about him. Last year (last Christmas) my boyfriend and I broke up and I began talking ...

I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...

Left my pot head, cheating boyfriend. So why do I feel upset that he's already talking to other girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Okay, I am the same girl who wrote about my pot head cheating ex boyfriend and I thank you all for your lovely and supportive feedbacks :) So lastnight, I couldn't sleep. I had a lot on my mind. I was talkin to a friend of mine about him and sh...

Did I make the wrong decision by not giving my ex a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Long story short, I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 and a half years about 4 months ago. I had felt that he didnt have enough respect for me. we had almost no sex life and he didnt want to marry me , which i had come to terms with over a few months. ...

How can I stop being over jealous and clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - Umm hello, ok lemme just go straight to the point..I have a gf, we've. Been dating for 2 months now.. She is awesome, got no problem at all, or I dnt know if its a problem. I am too clingy or should I say too jealous, when ever she tells me about ...

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...

Is there absolutely anyway I'll be able to get over my ex and move past what she did to me? What am I supposed to do with my life now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So I dated a girl for 3 years, invested everything I had into the relationship: my time, my money (albeit we started dating when I was only 15 years of age) and she absolutely drove me into the ground. I found out halfway through the relation...

My boyfriend's ex is texting him in the middle of the night asking about me. I think she's trying to take him away!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we are currently living together in my house. Neither of us text hardly anyone ever. We're never even on our phones while we're together. The other night I woke up randomly which I never ...

Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I kn...

How do I get my friend back? At least to talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I'm scared, lost and feel really down. This is basically one of those "how do I get my friend back" questions, however this is a little more complicated. My friend (male) wont speak to me. He cut me out his life with no explanation. We ...

Eleven months later my ex made contact. Is he trying to reconnect? What's my next move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hey guys, I'll try and keep this as short as possible but two weeks ago my ex contacted me after us not speaking for 11 months. I deleted his number so I didn't actually know it was him but we were together for 2 and a half years. To be clear, he...

I want somebody to love.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 December 2012 (?) - I feel like I will never be able to be successful with women. The only girls I have ever been good at flirting with are ones I am not actually attracted to deeply. I'm a virgin at 19 and am going through medicine. I had an ex who I was with for 2 ...

I packed my bags and left after he hid me from his mother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2years going into our 3rd. We have been living together for 2years straight. Last year he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend and i forgave him. Earlier this year we went for an HIV test and discovered he was HIV+...

He did this in the past, before we met. The image of this in my head is disturbing. How can I get over my disgust that he once had a threesome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend recently admitted to me that he has had a threesome in the past. I questioned him some about it, and he had went into some detail and even said that at the end the both of them "sucked him off and shared his load." I felt comp...

My girlfriend slept at her ex boyfriend's house on Christmas and didn't tell me. What am I supposed to think?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - I don't know why my girlfriend would sleep at her ex boyfriend place on Christmas and didn't tell me. She says that him and her are now friends and she's not text me that much either, probably either she's busy or having a wonderful time with him, ...

How long does it take to heal from your first serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So my ex and i have been broken up for about 1 1/2 months..and its gotten easier..but ever once and a while ill have flash backs of our relationship and feel sad...so I havnt completely healed. Turns out hes been asking around about how iv been to ...

My g/f is always accusing me of cheating and now I find her on dating sites. She tells me to go back to my exs! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has been aggressively telling me that i cheat on her. She has been accusing me for months and brings up my sexual history with my ex. I have now found out that she has been on date match sites trying to meet men and saying she is ...

My boyfriend says he found another girl that gives him happiness. Can I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Have been dating my bf for 3yrs. Recently he started complaining about my attitude, saying am too insecure, demanding, and that he has found another girl that gives him happiness and there is nothing I can do. Truthfully, have been kind of rud...

What do you call a man who breaks up with you, then pretends it didn't happen and expects you to miss him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Thank you for helping people even in the busiest time of the year. Well I guess for some it's the most leisurely time of the year, and some the loneliest time. I had been dating my ex for three months. It's fair to call him an ex because he broke up...

How do I move on from the heartbreak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - So, it's been a year since my ex dumped me after calling me the one and only for her and I still can't sleep and don't know why. I want to move on with my life but i just seem to get trapped in the thought that I can't trust a girl that is single ...

I want to get back with my wife. I know deep inside she wants to give me another chance!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - Hello, I am looking for advice to help me get back together with my wife. We were married for 8 years, knew each other for 15 probably, we have two boys 8 and 11. As people know that have kids, the intimacy in a relationship goes out the the door...

Why do I still feel so much love for someone who has never loved me back and openly has told me he has never liked me in that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I was in a relationship when I was young and ended up having a child with the guy when I was 17. We broke up shortly after that due to him cheating and treating me badly. It has been over 9 years since we were together and over the last 9 years I ...

Would he really leave his baby's mother for me? Or is he just telling me what I want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I have been with this guy for seven years and during the process of five years we were facing problematic issues because he was cheating. It happened that he made love with this other gal and she became pregnant, I left this guy immediat...

Do I let him go? I am now drug free. Trying to get my baby back. But my Bf talks the talk but still does drugs.Will he ever wake up and get drug free?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - Here's my issue .I met a man a few months ago and things were great. Shortly there after he became a drug addict, shooting drugs all the time. Selling everything. Stealing. I cared about him so much, but being a former drug addict (I quit 5 months...

Am I being a complete fool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man I'm very much in love with for the past 2-1/2 years. We are both going through a separation however he's a very kind hearted person one of the reasons I love him so much but he also enables his wife quite a ...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

Child Support issues. Am I asking for too much? He thinks so.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - After separating from my husband if many years, I started to claim for child support When he got to know this from the agency he sent me a text saying, "can't believe you're doing this to me, taking my kids and family away and now also causing ...

He said his son was conceived in a toilet stall, I can't stop thinking about it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I am 28 and my boyfriend is 49. He told me something yesterday that has really upset me. I don't even know why he told me ( maybe it was because he was drunk when he told me ). He said that he and his ex wife conceived their son in a toilet cubicle ...

After my verbal outburst? Am I reading too much into things? Am I just hearing what I want to hear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

23 December 2012 (M) - Really need help here Dear Cupid! When I was in my early 20's I met a girl. We got together. Got a place together. All the usual relationship stuff. Anyway, she had several affairs. I'd always take her back. And she'd do the same again. Two...

Is it alright that I stopped her ex from telling me these things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

23 December 2012 (M) - Dear whoever reads this, I have a girlfriend, we've been dating for 1.5 years and we're planning to get serious. Not long ago she invited me to her friends' place to hang over. It was the first time I got to know them, she kept the distance bet...

What could I have done better? How to proceed from now on? advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I need some advice ok. I've been married for four years and we fought off and on and we have 3 children together. Four months ago my husband said he was going for a walk but never came back. Three days later I found out he left me for another wome...

My ex wants to marry me, but I now have a child with another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - I am a fe male of 22 years old.I dated my ex for about 7 years and during that period of seven years we have been breaking up and we were managing resolve our issues,2 years back i met this other guy which i dated for three years and now we have a ...

How can I help? What can my Girl friend do about her obsessed ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - My girlfriends has an obsessed man who just refuses to leave her alone he keeps texting her and she can't change because her number is on her C.Vs that she has given in Her mother has passed away recently and today is her burial,I could not attend...

How can I get my obsessed ex to leave me alone? He's not interested in his son, only me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4358 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - My child's father is obsessed with me he refuses to leave me alone I'm with somebody else now but my child's father refuses to leave me alone,his always calling me and I don't answer his calls he would text me. He is not worried about our son,my...

My ex-girlfriend owes me money, but is pregnant with another man. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

20 December 2012 (M) - I apologize in advance if this is lengthy. I'm 22 years old. I dated a girl for three years who is the same age. We lived together for the majority of that time, however the last eight months of the relationship was very rocky. Sex was a rarity...

How long does it take to get over someone and is it possible to be friends after a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) - How long does it take to get over someone and is it possible to be friends after a relationship? I split up from my ex about 7 months ago but we kept in touch via email (he lives abroad). Even though we both knew (and said) we still loved each oth...

M-I-L wants money, and is using his ex against me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) - Hi. My mother in law says I am not giving them enough of my husband's money.(their son).she is always calling me and telling me in my face every time that we have to prioritize them in our budget.she will not appreciate anything we give her saying ...

My boyfriend says he is 50% happy with me but I don't satisfy him sexually like his ex did. Should I have a threesome with them to make him happy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - I purposed an idea to my boyfriend a couple of days ago. The idea having a threesome with him and his ex. Sounds bizarre, good thing I slept on it and really thought about how it will impact the relationship and everyone involved lives. Question ...

Broke ex, or well-off baby daddy or neither of them? Help me choose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - I am more confused now more than ever, I split up with the one guy who kept asking for money and he did pay me back and said he was sorry that he shouldn't have done that and that he truly loves me and wants to work things out but they are still ...

Does anyone else here feel small because they don't look as glamourous as pornstars or glamour models?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - Does anyone else here feel small because they don't look as glamourous as pornstars or glamour models? I feel like I'm helpless, my ex made me feel like this. We were on about glamour modelling, he said something like do you think you could be one, ...

Why is he talking to his ex? Should I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - hi i have a problem and need advice. my husband, 5 years now, is talking to his ex gf almost every day he works. not when at home. at first i caught him looking at his calls on cell phone and emails. then i told him to not talk to her and i called ...

I broke up with her because of my financial situation, now she's mounting the pressure on me again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4360 days ago

18 December 2012 (M) - Please help me i broke up my previous relationship due to financial reasons,i just could not stand the fact of me not being able to be of financially assisting my now ex gf,i didnt even give her reasons,i just did it via text message although she ...

She cheated. I don't want to lose her, but at the same time I think I should leave. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

18 December 2012 (M) - ive been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years. we live together, we're not married and have one child(10 months) together, and two more that she had in a previous relationship(8 and 4), that i now care for. i fell out of love with her a while ...

Ex was peeing while talking to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - Ex bf of many years talking to on the phone often. he has now married. the other night i was talking to hime on the phone and he was taking a leak while he was talking to me. Is this a way some married guys get off?? or does he just feel comfortable ...