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36-40,
*ossy
writes:Please help me i broke up my previous relationship due to financial reasons,i just could not stand the fact of me not being able to be of financially assisting my now ex gf,i didnt even give her reasons,i just did it via text message although she rarely asked for money. and now exactly 1yr after the breakup,and 10months into a new one my gf has mounted much more pressure on me especially with the yuletide season. I always did tell her am still a college student and don't see much income,even at 26 i am still being put through school by my elder ones. Its all like a de ja vu and i must say i feel real tormented. And please i truly love her,and surprisingly still love my ex. What advise do i get??
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reader, NerdyGuy  +, writes (18 December 2012):
Do you love her enough to get a job?
It may get tough, but you have to make enough money for her to be sure you're a serious, grown-up person. You have to be more solid, you have to be dependable.
I'm 21, I've been working half-time in two places since I was 18 and I keep doing my studies meanwhile. It was a lot of pressure when I began, but now I'm adapted to it.
Come on, make an effort, for God's sake!
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