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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My husband and I are reconciling, but his g/f won't go away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been separated for two years. He cheated on me after about 3 years of me pushing him away and suffering undiagnosed post natal depression. It was a nightmare. Anyway he moved in with her. And has been with her ever since. ...

Her ex wants her back -- do I walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - I really think I know the answer to this but I needed to be reassured. I have been seeing this girl for close to a month now and everything has been going great. We hang out, or go out to dinner 2-3 times a week. We both have a great time when we ...

My ex - can't live with him and can't live without him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Here is my situation: My bf and I broke up. We have a child together and a house. I moved out since I couldnt afford the mortgage and he could. He has this drug usage (weed to be exact) that makes him extremelly hyper and i couldnt stand being ar...

What does a woman mean when she says she wants to be with me, but doesn't?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Okay, so here it goes... Me and my girlfriend (we've been dating for 9 months), had recently broken up...and basically, she's in a state of confusion. She's talking to three other guys, and all this other stuff as a rebound. Just yesterday we saw e...

Will my ex ever realise True Love isnt the same as Being in Love

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28 February 2010 (F) - I have an ex who I loved very much. He feels the same about me in a way. But we differ on one thing. I rarely if ever just fall in love instantaneously, but he is different. I do not necessarily trust the feeling of being in love. He can only be ...

Too close to my ex, can't seem to let him go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Ok, it is soo complicated...I was with my ex for a year and a half.... just 3months ago he broke up with me...but we are still such good friends because we were soo close when we were together..when I see him we nearly always kiss and if the ...

Oh, what a tangled web we weave ...........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - I am 22 years old as well as my girlfriend well ex girlfriend now. We have know eachother sense we were 12 and started dating when we were 15. our relationship was great until the last year of it there was a serious lack of affection and intamacy on ...

It's unfair, I've been left and he has moved on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago. We went out for about 2 years, but it got to the stage where we were on and off for about 3 times. It was always him ending it and me taking him back. We were so close though, I tried to be ...

Can you move from the 'friends ladder' back to the 'good ladder' if its an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Alright, I just saw the question asked by another member, and I want to take it one step further, and then maybe even a step further then that, Someone on here told me about the Ladder Theory, which I think is brilliant, my question, lets say you've ...

Am I falling for another loser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I'm hoping for some insights. I've been dating a guy since around the middle of February. He broke up with his long term ex about a year ago but they spoke every day on the phone. He is still angry with her which suggests to me he still ...

My friend confessed to flirting with my crush but she assures me she's over him. True?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, So, my friend (we can call her suzie not her name though) was over at my house yesterday and we were telling each other secrets. She told me one that was about my crush (we can call him John) she told me that when she went to the same...

My ex is threatening me with "truth" tablets, do they exist?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Ok everyone Im still in contact with my ex. The thing is my brother done something not horrible to him and my ex thinks im involved in some sor of way The other day he said something o me over the phone about hes ordered somehing on lin...

I do have feelings for her but the situation is too complicated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I have a lady friend that I have been cool with for awhile now. We had sex about about a month ago. At the same time I had a female that I was talking to nothing serious at all. Before this happened my lady friend was trying to work t...

It's been two months I called and told him I was breaking up with him. How come he hasn't called me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - What should I do now that my boyfriend of almost 7 years is not picking up my phone calls/returning them after I told him I called to break up 2 months ago. After I mentioned breaking up and hesitated, he took it literally and didn't call me back ...

My ex is getting into deep waters, should I talk to him or his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago. I've been trying to call him a few times and left messages but he hasn't returned or picked up the phone when I called. He's a smart man and I've known him for more than 6 years now. He's ...

I wonder if a player could stop playing for somebody like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi :) Right, heres the deal, there was a guy I met when I went out with a friend from uni, he lives in her halls, we got talking and just had a spark, you know one of those people who you can just talk to for hours? Well, we did, for around 4 hours ...

Same day my boyfriend broke up with me another sent me a lovely gift

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - right my boyfriend fraser broke up with me today and i`m really upset but i still have feelings for him but 10 mins after he broke up with me a parcel came through the door from a boy called Sean who still loves me and it was a sphere of life which ...

We have broken up but he still texts and contacts me every day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi. Im very confused with my situation. So, I was with my boyfriend for 8 months. For the first couple of months, the specific birth control I was on made me crazy. I would get mad at my boyfriend for the stupidest things and it would turn into ...

We split up because he doesn't know what he wants, so should I stick around to find out or leave now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Im about one month pregnant me and my boyfriend are still living together but we broke up because he doesnt know what he wants. when his ex found out about me a year ago she started to call him more and more maybe because she didnt want him with my ...

Do I tell her that I am still in love with her after all these years?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I am having a bit off a tough time...I'm a male, 42, and still keep in touch with my ex-fiancee, who is now married for 2 yrs with a new baby...the problem is we have been broken up for 7 years now. However, during this entire time, we have always ...

What should I do when my ex that owes me $3000!! and a friend $1000

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend cheated on me with 2 other women (unprotected).i stupidly forgave him cause it was with his ex and his roomate and he was drunk.. then he lied bt his father dying!!! to get $ from me cause he was expecting a inheritance..such bad ...

My boyfriend has a seperate mobile phone just for his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers. I've been on a few dates with a guy who has been in touch with his ex since they split up last March. He says they had an argument a couple of weeks ago and haven't spoken since but ...

I am so bitter and angry right now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I have a problem. In the past three relationships I've had, my ex-significant others have said the same thing to me after the break-up... "Any other guy would be so lucky to have someone like you. You'll make someone very happy someday." They ...

My boyfriend is in constant contact with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 months has been having daily contact with his ex over the phone, either by texting or phone calls. He says he has no feelings for her and I am being paranoid by being concerned. I say if you have no feelings for someone then why ...

Can there still be something there between me and my ex?

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26 February 2010 (F) - So I'm a bit confused right now. My ex came to see me today and we made dinner together and had a super fun time joking and laughing. Amongst other things we laughed at our in jokes. When we first got together we were good friends and we w...

My husband has gotten his ex wife pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for five years, lived together for ten. His son has lived with us for five years, and we have a child together (adopted). My husband recently had an affair with my step son's mom. This is the fourth affair, all ...

My ex keeps contacting me, when he was a total jerk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - If anyone can give me their opinion? I broke up with my ex about 5 months go. He met someone else and i found out about it. However, many times he would try to speak to me again just when I was starting to move on. I would ignore his communication ...

Ex contacts me after months. What could she want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - Hello all My ex split from me 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship. Since then I have not contacted her at all to try and heal. In that time it was her birthday and i still stayed strong and didn't contact her to say happy birthday Toda...

We broke up but I want her back. Do her actions enforce that she feels the same?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - my ex gilrfriend and i were together 2 years when we broke up do to fighting for like a month. we were fighting do to stress in our seperate lives and our relationship as acouple. but we didnt brakeup over or during a fight we brokeup on goodterms ...

My girlfriend wants a break, yet she insists on us hanging out. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been on a break for a month. So within that one month, I've tried leaving her alone, and just focus on improving myself as a person. Not just for her, but for me too. When she first wanted to go on a break, she said ...

I am financially supporting my ex. Should I stop now before I get hurt again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I need help on this!i was in a relationship with someone whom i loved..we are both born again bt he break up with me after he told me he never loved me he loves other girls and infact GOD didnt tell him to marry me..even though it was hard for me 2 ...

Should I be friends with him after he hurt me so badly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - So I'll try and make this short. I was in a very long term, happy relationship. We split up amicably-ish about 5 months ago. He hooked up with an idiot of a girl straight after. She is such a loser! Amongst many idiotic things she does, she cons...

Should I waste my time, or am I looking to much into his feelings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers. I've been on a few dates with a guy who has been in touch with his ex since they split up last March. He says they had an argument a couple of weeks ago and haven't spoken since ...

Mr X and Mr Y both want to be "my guy"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I recently dumped my long term boyfriend at the beginning of this year. I then got together on the 'rebound' with Mr X which i ended up quite fancying. We had a brief fling which fizzled out, which I didn't want to but started moving on anyway. I ...

My ex is dating somebody else, should I fight for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I liked a guy for 2 years and we dated for 6 months. I just recently found out that a montha and a half before we broke up he was talking to the girl he is dating now. I still love him and I don't know what to do. Do I fight for him?...

Will wishing an ex happy birthday seem clingy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: Titled by poster) Ok, so I was wanting to know if I should wish an ex a happy birthday if he broke up with me because I was too "clingy?" His birthday is 3 weeks away...will it seem like I want him back if I do? Also, he said that ...

Does my ex still want me in spite of our current relationships with other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Just after some advice really. Known my ex-girlfriend since 2005, split in 2006 because she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend. However shortly after this we had sex on 2 occasions after a few too many beers Since then I've been married and now ...

I'm back hanging out with my ex, and I still love her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Right, me and my ex went out for 2 years, the relationship started turning sour and towards the end i started to perform in drink, then in the end i told close friends at a party that i didn’t love her no more and this friend approached her in ...

He is a great father to our kids and they love him but I cant help but feel like hes settling for me,while desiring someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - when i was just barely 16 my mother and stepfather married for 15 years went through an extremely intense divorce. i went to stay with my biological father and there i met the future father of our 3 beautiful children. for 3 months it was great. i ...

How do I go about not acting insecure even if I am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Please help me i feel like a lost cause anymore... kinda.. anyway ive had a bad string of relationships always the guy getting hurt or cheated on... well im dating a girl now who until about a week ago i thought everything was great... she pretty ...

I still can't accept the fact my ex left me for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - In know the reason why I can't get over my ex is that he preoccupies my mind. I have tried to to do other stuff, meet people, went on a vacation and spent cash on shopping. But when I am about to sleep and when I wake up, I feel so depressed to ...

Should I expect my ex of a year and half to stop talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone So my ex an i broke up around Oct. of 09 so about 5 months ago and we had a really bad break up the thing it was like wishy washy he sort of said i cant give you what you need and then i said we should break up he just said okay and af...

Will my ex get back with his kid's mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Me and my bopyfriend are currently seperated but still living together and im 6 weeks pregnant "he knows" . he tells me he doesnt know what he wants. lately probably since nov his kid's mom (they have been sperated for about two years already), ...

Ex wants to call to catch up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Hi Me ex split from me 2 months ago. Since then I have not contacted her at all to try and heal. In that time it was her birthday and i still stayed strong and didn't contact her to say happy birthday Today, i have received an email saying...

I feel like a fool because I keep trying to make this work and when I do she doesn't try at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, In summer of 2009 i met the girl i believed would be my future wife.i had just gotten out of a 1 year long distance relationship and for some reason when i met this girl, all of the remaining feelings for my ex had vanished. Conver...

Is it worth pursuing a girl that's not over her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - I know it's a general rule of thumb that pursuing a girl that is not ENTIRELY over her ex is a big no no, but I've ran into a rather precarious situation. I met this girl about 3 weeks ago and we've been talking steadily everyday online via IM for ...

I feel as if I never got to tell my side of the story, what do I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - I have this "ex" we ended on bad terms, not that I had anything to do with it, yes seriously. It happened 17 years ago in High School, I really liked her... a lot. Well I got into some trouble at school and got suspended. While I was susp...

Would you take this as a compliment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Would you take this as a compliment? I don't, but I hear it all of the time. It goes along the lines of: "I like you because you make things easy/You're so easy" (please don't infer a sexual overtone here). I think I've heard this from almost...

I had a deeper level of understanding with my ex, I want the same with my current girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years and we both love each other but we may have personality conflicts. She has a lot of trouble understanding me and a lot of the time we're not on the same page. This is frustrating especially since in my ...

My fiancee wants to go see her ex bf..without me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Okay, Never done this before but I need some advice and really want to do the RIGHT thing here. My fiance and I are due to get married this May, we love each other, care about each other, but we don't always see things in the same light. Things ...