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writes:My boyfriend of 3 months has been having daily contact with his ex over the phone, either by texting or phone calls. He says he has no feelings for her and I am being paranoid by being concerned. I say if you have no feelings for someone then why have daily contact. He originally said she was the one texting him and he only answers her. Yesterday he said she hasn't texed or called him in the past four days despite him texting her every day asking about her 13 year old daughter who was having a problem in school. I asked him why he continues to contact her since she is ignoring his texts. He says he is going to keep texting her till she answers. Is this a bit strange?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2010): Firstly, you are not paranoid. When I started dating my boyfriend 2 years ago, the same thing happened to me. I pleaded for him to stop and he did eventually, but it did take a while. I think you need to make him realise (as you said) he shouldn't be making daily contact with someone if he doesn't have feelings. He is trying to make you look like the bad one for being concerned, however it is him that has the problem. If talking to him doesn't work, I suggest telling him you will move on. You deserve better than that. If he doesn't change soon, he will always be contacting her and you are always going to feel like this. Good luck.
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