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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I want to go out with a guy I've never even met!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I know this sounds ridiculously stupid but please hear me out. I'm at uni, the stereotypical "party girl" and used to be really shallow regarding guys. I'd get romantically involved with the most attractive guys who showed the slightest bit of...

We are going to hang out at his apartment, alone, and I'm as nervous as all get out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for two months now and thisnSunday we are suppose to hang out at his apartment, alone, while his roommates are at work. We've hung out before just not THIS alone. And well, clearly I'm nervous as all get out. He is ...

Am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - So im 14, I HAVE ALWAYS ALWAYS liked boys. I have many pictures of male celebs on my wall and phone. I have always made sure i looked good when a hot boy has walked past. Tried to impress boys make them like me. Started friendships and formed ...

Should I tell my cousin I love him, or make him fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - im a teenager, im in love with my cousin but he dosent know that. i want him to be my life partner. their family is so close to me. i tried hard to forget him, but unable to do it. i am unable to avoid him. when i see him my heart beat increases and ...

Who can I talk to about the visions that I have? Some of them scare me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Sometimes I have visions but the hook me up because some of them come true most of them have him come to pass yet but I get the feeling up to going to come true. Who should I tell about my visions?And why? Sometimes these visions scare me I don't ...

How do I not ruin myself over some boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - in middle school i liked this boy for over 8 months (still do). i told this boy that i liked him and he said thats digusting. i know your thinking well just dont like him anymore.but i cant stop liking him. the problem is he likes my friend,who also ...

How do I get his attention without seeming clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and he's told me how much he loves me over the phone and in person. However, lately, he's been very independent. He doesn't talk to me near as much as he used to. I've been trying to get him to pay ...

How can I become closer to my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I don't feel close to my parents at all. I love them loads don't get me wrong and we have a laugh I just don't feel like I can talk to them about serious topics because they'll judge me or they'll make suggestions I maybe don't think are helpful, ...

How do I express my feelings to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Well my boyfriend asked me to tell him my 'feelings', and I'm not too sure what to respond with, I love him a lot, but I don't know how to express my feelings to him....

Is this normal? Sometimes he's so loving and sweet and the next day he's cold and distant. What can I do?

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29 April 2013 (F) - I don't know how exactly to describe the problem my boyfriend and I have. Or probably it's just me? We've been together for 2 and a half months and while sometimes things are going great, there are times when it's all a freakin' mess. I'm ...

Have I messed up any chance of having a friendship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4245 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and I wrote this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-my-feelings-for-her-how.html because I thought I had feelings for this girl I know. I mean I still think I do but this could easily get confusing and too complex so I'll ...

I intend to stay with my boyfriend no matter what. Is that the wisest decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My long distance boyfriend who I have known for eight months has recently began to take a long time responding to any messages that I send him. I asked him yesterday of why that is, and he said that normally he is doing multiple things on his ...

I'm obsessed with my female English teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Ok,i'm in love with my 'best friend'. She's my best friend but i'm pretty sure i'm not hers. I'm obsessed with her. I met her three years ago but we've only been actual friends for a few months. It feel like I've known her forever though. I remember ...

Boyfriend cheated once, now he has a second chance, will he do it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months broke up for about a month, due to the fact I had caught him cheating and chatting up other girls. It all started when we were about a month in, and he was accused of kissing a girl at a party, w...

He kissed me and then the next day told me to forget about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Ok, well me and my guy bestfriend kissed like 4 days ago. It was really sweet cuz he made me feeel better but the day after we kissed he texted me nd was all like "i feel bad, can we please forget about yesterday?" nd i said ok. and then he told me ...

My ex. When I see her now I get a burning feeling in my stomach and tears are always close. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I need help dealing with this. I've recently broken up with my first serious relationship. Anyways i feel like I'm bipolar. I am sad then depressed then I'm ok for a short while, then back again. I miss her a LOT. I don't know how to handle...

Creepy leery guys ask for my number. Yet NEVER do any of the 'normal' guys, who I see looking, actually approach me. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I'm a 19 year old female, single and have never had a boyfriend before. This alone worries me a little since literally everyone I know has had/ is in a relationship. Without sounding conceited, etc. I would consider myself attractive. I not...

Are we friends? more? What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4253 days ago

26 April 2013 (?) - Ok, so this is not the first emailing we did. We emailed on and off since late 2011, but we needed to stop because of our circumstances. Middle of 2012 he had to leave town, so there was no talking or anything for like a year. Without anything ...

Me and my boyfriend are fighting all the time & I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months, I am 14 years old and sexually active. At this age I wish I wasn't. We had sexual intercorse when we started dating for 2 months. On the second day that him and me started dating, i kissed ...

Why is he being mean? How can I tell him to be nicer to me, without ruining our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - The guy I like and I recently got into the habit of chatting. We've never spoken in person though, despite attending the same school. I thought it was because he hated girls, but then he was unexpectedly nice to me at prom. Anyway, the th...

Why is he ignoring me? Did he get mad at me for not sleeping with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - There is this guy in my class who I had never spoken to until last Friday (I am very quiet in class). Last Friday, I somehow ended up talking to him and we went to eat after school. At night, I ended up at a small party with my friends and he w...

I don't know if I want this relationship any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3919 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half,and i broke up. We broke up about 3 days ago. We went through each others phone and he saw my fb messages.where guys would hit on me and flirt and i would go along.i would always end up blocking them or cutting ties ...

How can I get over my crushes on 2 teachers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - I am sooooo shy, but, out of no where! I am suddenly attracted to older men and 2 of my male teachers!!! I've never thought of them in this way before but now just have sexual thoughts about them. It's really annoying because now I can't talk t...

Does my ex boyfriend really love me, when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Does he really love me? I dated this one guy for about 6 months and then, like most relationships, if came to an end. We never really spoke after we broke up, I mean sometimes we did talk. But if I ever needed help he would always be there for me. ...

I start to feel nauseous when there's a possiblity of starting a relationship. Why does this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - I have been writing like crazy the last couple of days trying to figure out what's happening in my head. I have had this a couple of times, but the last time, it started about two weeks ago. I met a nice girl and we really seem to connect and like...

I like this guy and he knows I do. Are there any subtle ways to confirm if he likes me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Ok, so I really like somebody, and he knows. I want to know if he likes me too but I don't know how to tell. I'm really shy and he knows it. He doesn't have a phone, but he has talked to me during school, but only a little. Sadly, we aren't ...

Involved with a married woman. So why is she acting this way? Why is she treating me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - hey guys i need advice. ive been involved with a married woman for about 7 months. i know its wrong but hear what i have to say please. we started off as friends good friends. talking everyday spending a few hours together. and i started falling ...

I'm 18 and my parents are strict. I want to get birth control but if I do my parents will judge me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Okay I'm 18, and with having strict parents i sometimes feel like they don't understand me. Ever since i started dating my boyfriend i feel like he is the only one here for me. We have been together for almost a year now and we have started ...

Any reason as to why he's being like this? Or is it that he's just too busy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Around 3 months ago, I went to the pub for a few drinks with a few friends. One of them I had previously met before and had tried flirting with me but i wasn't interested. I ended up getting slightly drunk and he walked me home and ended up kissi...

He says such sweet things to me. Could it be that he might have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Hey so recently some of the boys in my class have been saying I look pretty I'm nice and things like that. But there's this one boy that says it the same way but has me thinking. Let's call him Ed. Well Ed he is sweet at times and silly but th...

Does he just want friendship? I'm confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I've got a guy sitting next to me due to seating plan in class for about 2 months. He was my classmate last year too but we didn't talk to each other untill last 2 months. I guess we are close friends at the moment, he isn't cold to me anymore. ...

We have sex but he wont consider being my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Atfirst this guy and ibwere together,then we were forced to seperate by parents.Well,now we are allowed around eachouther and we have been sleeping together for about 2 years..i would like to have and call it a relationship,however he says he isn't ...

I feel second best.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months, and i have a 1 year old son. When i first met him, he always put us first and called and texted but lately he always puts his female friend of 16 years above me. He goes to her first...

I can't trust my guardian! She tells everyone everything I say!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4260 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Hey everybody My guardian is really getting on my nerves... She always tell me to tell her stuff that bothers me but when I do she tells her whole family... It's hard for me to talk to her but when I try to, she doesn't keep it between the two of u...

My crush has a g/f but says I'm pretty. How do I tell his g/f what he said?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Ok so today I saw my ex near and he kept staring at me I said " what are you staring at me for " and he said " nothing ". I said something funny and stubid but I said " what you wishing you had all this again " and I like pointed to my self and ...

Jealous that my FWB had sex with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - So there's this guy....we've been having sex lately and I REALLY like it. I mean I know he doesn't care about me like emotionally and I dont care about him like that either. But the sex is really good.....until I found out the next day he had sex ...

When is it right for a teenager to start having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - if a boy tell u to do your school work and then call him and u and this boy been together long and u is 15 year old girl should u have sex with your boyfriend ?...

I'm confused about having a crush on an older man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4260 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - OK so I'm 14 and I just talked to my Vice principle for the first time Friday. I admired him from afar, but I was forced to talk to him on Friday. So now I'm having these weird feelings for him now. He's looks so young,but i think hes in his late ...

Life Balance. May I have some tips on how to prioritize between my school life and find time to enjoy my passion of helping others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Okay. Well I have been off this site for a while, and I am coming back for a little while as I have been overloaded with work! Basically, I am 16, and I have a little bit of a problem. My GCSE's are comin...

I think I'm gay because I'm crushing on a female teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Hello, I think I'm gay. I have had three boyfriends and broke up with all of them because I just didn't have any feelings for them (more than friendly feelings). I have had a few minor crushes on a some of my friends and one bigger one for this ...

How do I ask him to hang out? I'm quite inexperienced and also are there any excuses I could use to touch his hand or something next time we're together, to gauge his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Just need some quick advice :) So there's this guy, he's lovely, a couple of years older, and we get on quite well. I'm never sure if he's flirting over FB but in person he uses a few excuses to touch my hand, like when it was snowing and he gave ...

Is this relationship healthy? Should we break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been having problems a lot lately. Last week and today we were fighting because i apparently am not nice to him, and i dont support him, and i don't love him correctly. He also won't allow me to talk to any guys besides ...

Is my boyfriend lying to me? He said I was accusing him of lying and then he gave me a sad look.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Back in January, I remember I was at home and my boyfriend hadn't responded to my texts for over two hours. He finally texted me back, saying he was in his aunties house visiting them. I thought it was so odd, for him to visit relatives as it is so...

My parents don't like my Bf who's older. They're suffocating me with their over protection and treating me like I'm still a child. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - I live at home still because I am in post secondary and cannot afford to live on my own and I am fortunate enough to be able to live a home for free. But my parents are extremely over protective of me. I have tried sooo many times reasonin...

I feel as if I set myself up for failure. Are men just not interested in pregnant woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - So I am 3 months pregnant but I am not now with the father because things weren't working out. I did things I shouldn't have done when I was mad. I didn’t Like the person I was when I was with him. But anyway, we aren’t together, and I’m not lo...

I'm not going to try anything whilst he is still going with her but I was wondering if he might have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - ok so I have this friend, M, who has a girlfriend and I'm not going to try anything whilst he is still going out with her but I was wondering if he might have feeling for me. We were kind of close two years ago but then I thought he didnt like me so ...

Two of my friends revealed to me on the same day that they fancied me, problem is that I don't fancy them. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I need help, two of my best friends who are guys revealed to me on the same day that they fancied me and both asked me out and I had no idea what to do and somehow, by me not saying to them that I did fancy them, they've managed to get it in their ...

How do I not be threathened by her around my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Hi so I have this girl who's a friend. She's really pretty and all the dudes like her they don't bother to get to know her though. We ride the bus together and she is reply nice she has a boyfriend and everyone tries to hit on her but she says ...

He's shy and does not reveal his feelings easily. But he is the ONE to me. How can I encouage him to see me as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3912 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Ok so I'm friends with this guy and we used to best friends. I told him my feelings for him and he said "i like you as a friend. It would be weird to go out with one of my best friends. You're still one of my best friends" We were still friends ...

Would people notice or make comment about my mole removal scars if I wore shorts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I just wanted advice on if i should wear shorts even though i have two mole removal scars on my thigh. They are about two inches apart from each other horizontally in the middle of my thigh. They are like dark dots that were even bigger than ...