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writes: Ok so today I saw my ex near and he kept staring at me I said " what are you staring at me for " and he said " nothing ". I said something funny and stubid but I said " what you wishing you had all this again " and I like pointed to my self and shopkeeper my body alittle not in a weird way you know a stubid funny way . Then he said " well alittle ". Btw he was a mean jerk and that's why I don't and won't go out with him again . So my crush was near bye and he said " listen you will never ever EVER have her as your girlfriend again ok " I just stood there all shocked . And the bad thing is that he has a diffrent girlfriend and he said that. I'm not really friends with her do idk if I should tell her cuz I do wanna tell her but like I said I don't know her that we'll so I don't know but plz help I wanna tell her what happened and also he said a little bit later " on a scale of 1 to 100 on prettiness you are 100 ". I was all " umm thx but don't you have a girlfriend ". He said " yea " and walked away. I was all what the heck man. But yes plz tell me like how to tell his girlfriend and stuff plz thx
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 April 2013):
Just because a boy says you are pretty does not mean he wants to be with you. It also does not mean he’s not faithful and true to his gf. It’s perfectly acceptable for partnered people to find others attractive. It’s what they do with the attraction that matters. Telling someone they are pretty is a nice thing. If it goes no further, no harm no foul. YOU telling his GF that he said you were pretty is just going to create drama where none is needed.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (24 April 2013):
Telling his girlfriend would start a bunch of UNECESSARY drama! All he said was that you're pretty. So what? Just because you have a boyfriend or girlfriend doesn't mean you find everyone else unattractive. There's absolutely no need to tell her.
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reader, loony10 +, writes (24 April 2013):
calm yourself, all he said was that you are pretty, not that he wanted to have sex with you off in a corner. if this is the way you act when someone gives you a little compliment, you need a lot more growing to do. it's OK to think someone other than the person you're dating is attractive. if he said something inappropriate, then you have a problem. he did nothing of the sort. you're making a mountain out of a mole hill.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd my ex said I'm pretty my crush just said that he will never have me again to my ex so yea :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was my ex who has the new girlfriend and my crush was near by and said that
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