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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I think I may have a porn problem!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I think I may have a porn problem. Basically I have always watched porn for the last 6/7 years while being a teenager but I have recently noticed that I have been watching a lot of hardcore porn. I've had performance problems in the past...

Very troubled here as I don't think I want be with my bf anymore! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Sorry this is a bit long, but I wanted to put all the detail in. So I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. When we first got together I really loved him (I had liked him way before we got together). But recently I don't feel anything ...

We are friends, but now..he wants to have sex! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, So my friend and I have known each other for about 2 years now and we hang out a lot. Our relationship kinda swerves from being platonic to romantic(in a silly way)frequently but I never really thought much of it. Until last week whe...

Tells me his secrets, but complains to his friends, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I like this guy, he's a friend of a friend and we talk on Facebook; we get on quite well and he recently revealed to me that he used to be depressed and has scars from it, he asked me not to tell his friends so that might mean they don't know? T...

Is it cultural or personality? Why is he so shy around me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - In my class, there is one international guy from China that acts a bit strange around me. After we teamed up in a mini project, he and I started talking more and discovered we have similar interests. However, when ever I talk to him he laughs a...

We have two children together. He's my fiance. Should I forgive him for kissing my younger sister?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - so my younger sister confessed to me that my fiance kissed her!! she seemed pretty upset and she didn't know how to tell me she said she pushed him away and told him that was wrong and was freaking out. he told me he didn't know what he was th...

How do I establish I don't want friends with benefits without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - So lately I've met a new guy. Let's call him S. I've known him for about a week and we've messed around twice now. When we ended up at the same party I told a friend of his that I liked S. I wasn't all myself at that point in time. The aforemention ...

Hopelessly in love and I might just be a hook-up to him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - In may of last year i started to see this guy Ashton. it Started out just friends with benefits and then on june 18th we started officially dating. He broke up with me 2 weeks later and then we got back together and i broke up with him on july 17th ...

How do I tell my parents I'm going to date the boy who used to bully me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - hey, i like this guy, and i am going to try it out with him. except a month ago this boy was bullying me only because he was with this new girl who did not like me, he was only doing it cause he was under peer pressure. he has loved me for lik...

My boyfriend is angry with me for wanting to go on a diet

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - ive been thinking about going on celebrity slim diet, my friend went on it and she lost loads of weight, so i asked her about it, and she mentioned it to my boyfriend at work and he went mad at me.. Its nice to know he likes me how i am, but this is ...

Any suggestions on how to whiten badly discoloured teeth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I hate my smile. I dont naturally smile with my teeth anyway, but if I laugh you can see them. My face looks horrible when I smile/laugh but looks fine when I haven't got any expression. My teeth are horrible, they are yellow and discoloured, my ...

Am I Bi or a Sicko? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Hello guy's my name is Dan and i am 20 years old please don't judge. I have been very worried recently over the type of porn i used to watch as a teen 13 - 19(not sure when i actually started) I used to watch normal hetrosexual porn (not for lo...

His friend gave him an ultimatum, me or the friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hey, i was talking about a younger boy, in my previous question. well now his friend which is my ex, has told him that he needs to choose between me or him. does anyone know what i should do or say?...

I need to learn how to interact with guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi guys, I think the best way to describe it is.. I'm stuck! Its been this way most of my life, and the situation doesn't really change. I guess you could say I have very little to do with guys. It's not me so much that doesnt have much to do ...

Maybe I should just end the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been doing a sort of open relationship for about the last 5 months. He has only been with one other girl and it was just a mindless hookup, dont care. In our particular arrangement, I told him I really ...

Is it tacky to ask about STDs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - I myself am currently a virgin and my girlfriend is not. She told me she has had some unprotected sex. She really really wants to have sex with me, we just started dating, however, we have known each other for quite some time and actually dated 4 ...

One boy wants sex the other puts me in the friend - zone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS FROM SAME ASKER COMBINED Question ONE: Okay, so I’ll be honest, I am desperate for advice because this is really my only way to get help. I’ve talked to my friends about it and they all are close-minded about it so I decided ...

He just can't shut up about his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i has been together for 10 months now but i dont think he's over his ex. we got together after 2 weeks of them breaking up, they were going out for almost 1 year and a half. after they broke up, she had a new boyfriend just 2 weeks ...

My ex seems like a new man. Is he interested in me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do. My ex and I from two years ago have become closer recently we have been talking more face to face and we have also started bbming each other a bit. A few months after we broke up i had got completely over him and we thoug...

Should my boyfriend join the military to escape troubles at home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a month and he is going through a rough time with family problems. Not to go into detail but hes basicly on his own right now, he has been staying with his grandma so far but he know where hes ...

What is the true meaning of 'romance'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Hey everyone !! I have been confused about the true meaning of romance :\ me and my boyfriend have been together for over ten months now and are very happy together. The other day i asked my man if he like being romantic he said yes and that we ...

Do you believe in 'soul mates'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Do you believe in soulmates? I'm curious to know what you think. And by the way, i heard this the other day and thought it was adorable, and wanted to share it with you: In greek mythology, humans were born with 4 eyes, 4 arms, 4 legs, 2 mouths, ...

Discharge days after sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Since I've started having sex a few months ago I occasionally get a thin cloudy discharge. To describe it as discharge would be misleading as I can feel it come out and a lot comes out, like I have to run to the bathroom immediately to ensure it ...

14 and not sure if I should come out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I am a gay 14 year old and I'm sort of unsure if I should come out. I've known I'm gay since I was 12 and the two years following have been really hard because I've been trying to hide my sexuality because when I was 13 I moved school due to bulli...

Do I go for the one who is growing on me or the one who is a year older?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - hi. there is this boy, that is in the class below me. he told me that he loves me awhile ago, i told him that i didn't like him. however now that we are chatting more, i think he is growing on me, but he is not the nicest and hottest boy in m...

I feel I've made some awesome progress in the week we have been broken up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me saying we need to see other people because we started dating when we were 14. I am 22 now, thats 8 years and we are eachothers first relationship. but i know it has more to do with the fact i was very very immature she ...

Should I block my ex? He broke up with me because he didn't like the present I gave him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - On December 2010 I got dumped by my boyfriend. We'd been really good friends a few years before we started dating and then I feel like when we started dating we moved way too fast. Then on Christmas I got him a present and he said he didn't l...

Is it alright to invite my friend's ex boyfriend to a dance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Okay so i wanna ask my guy friend to a dance and i also like him... but my friend used to go out with him but not really since it only lasted a day but she broke up with him cause she didn't see him that way. Now recently she decided she liked hi...

My ex-girlfriend and I still like one another but she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I really need help with this situation and it would mean a lot if I can get as many responses as I can, thank you. So me and my ex been broken up for about a half a year, we broke up once which was for 4 months and then we got back together bu...

Is she interested in me and how can I maintain a connection until she's ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - hi i have 2 questions. do u think this girl is interested in me? And how can i flirt with her on facebook and thru texts to keep her interested until shes ready for dating? ok im going to give you guys the backstory now, Im 16 years old t...

How can I build a motherdaughter relationship with my stepmother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - Well i'm 13, and when i was 8 my mom and dad split because my mom fell in love with a black guy. At the time i didn't understand i was only told that my mom and dad didn't love each other anymore. Me and my dad were so close that i wanted to l...

Does his conduct indicate that he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - I'm the only out gay kid in my class, and one of two in the whole school. So there's this guy in two of my classes this year, but we also had summer school together. He knows I'm gay, as does everyone else, but he still like talks to me and "picks ...

How do I get over my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - I have a problem... D: when I started my music lessons not so long after started fancying my teacher to the point where I got a huge crush on him or whatever. Knowing that it wouldn't work out (even thought I am 18) I forced myself to snap out of ...

How do I keep this LDR relationship going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - Hi, I'm a normal guy living the usual life. I'm 15 and I've got a pretty cool story that I can really use some help with. So I have a youtube account and about an year ago I randomly came across another youtube user and her channel. We actually just ...

He thinks I don't care about him because I won't change my schedule.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - ok so i'm quite upset and I don't know what to do. I kinda got into a fight with my best friend. Last night he called me because he was really depressed and I was trying to get his mind off of things well he just starts to attack me saying that I ...

He showed me his scars, could he trust me as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Hey, well I'm really into this guy, he's a friend of a friend and we've met a few times now an in those few times we've gotten on really well, we talk on Facebook all the time and I think he's flirting with me. I told him ages ago that I kinda ...

How can I prove my feelings are real?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - Please help me, I desperately need help and I don't know what to do anymore. I have met the most amazing girl ever. She is kind, thoughtful, sweet, caring, faithful, intelligent, fun..everything that a man could want. We never even argue. What...

He said if things ever go wrong between him and his girlfriend I'd be first on his list. I don't like second-best but I like him so much. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - For the first time in my life i beleive i have finally meet someone that i acutally fancy which is really rare for me. Ive been talking to him now for about a month and hes great, hes got a great personality hes a dab hand at ...

What should a teenager wear to a posh restaurant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I am to go out with a "friend" on saturday night for dinner and I don't know what to wear, basically. We're both 17 so it's not like I have a suit and I wouldn't really feel comfortable in a shirt/trousers. It is a posh restaurant and i...

Two issues are preventing me from losing my virginity!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I'm an 18 year old closeted bisexual. I am also a virgin. I know that once I become sexually active, I will eventually come to more of a conclusion about whether I prefer men or women more but that really does not worry me as of now. What worries ...

Should I just admire him from afar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - My question is kinda long and complex, so I'll try to explain it as best I can. So there are a lot of Czech exchange students at my school, and a few of them have my same lunch hour. Lately I've been admiring this extremely EXTREMELY hot one from ...

I feel like we are too young and inexperienced for this kind of intensity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I wonder if anyone can help me! I'm 19 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend since we were 16. It started out as just casual going out, and we just fell in love and suddenly it's 3 years later... I've never had a boyfriend bef...

I want more freedom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I'm a straight A honors gifted student. In the 9th grade I am taking a college course already. My parents have always been strict, but I want them to know they can trust me more than they do and that I'm a really smart girl. Whenever I bring it up ...

I want to end the friendship with this obsessive, controlling girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I have a friend (im 15 btw) (N) that I no longer wish to be friends with. Heres why: me, N, and my best friend (B) used to be good friends, but B and N fought a lot. It was mostly about stupid things, but many of them had to do with N feeling like B ...

Should I choose my ex over my current?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I don't think I'm over my ex.. About a year ago my friend, at the time, and I got together. Everything was perfect I was as happy as can be. Thing is he's 5years older than me and at the time I was 16. My parents didn't like the idea at all and this ...

"how do I attract boys?"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - (Note: The good advice is at the bottom. Read through for a laugh) I see this so often nowadays. mostly it's girls who want their first kiss, or a boyfriend, or whatever, and they ask us what they need to do to get a boyfriend. So I'm...

I think I love my best friend! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Well basically I have a boy issue. I think I love my best friend who I'm really close with but I always put our friendship first as we're so close and I've accepted that he may not feel the same way, however there is a bigger problem. The boys ...

Is she overreacting because I kissed two guys? Am I a slut?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - At 15 years of age, I am going through life experiencing new things everyday. Recently, I know im late, but i had my first official "kiss". The problem was that it was with my best friends brothers friend. She was mad at the situation, but ...

He flirts with me but loves another! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - there is this boy, he is amazing and i think i'm in love with him but the only trouble is he's in love with his ex yet he still leads me on and flirts with me, i really don't know what to do......

Can this relationship really work out for us??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - A little over a year ago, I met a guy online. To this day we have never met. We talked a lot, and things got serious, he asked me out, and I said yes. I really really love him, he's 95% what my dream guy would be if I could make one from scratch. We ...