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writes:My question is kinda long and complex, so I'll try to explain it as best I can. So there are a lot of Czech exchange students at my school, and a few of them have my same lunch hour. Lately I've been admiring this extremely EXTREMELY hot one from afar, let's call him J. Another one of my friends also thinks that J is really hot, and she wants to meet/possibly date him. But my friend is somewhat of a whore, she hooks up with a lot of guys, has had a lot of boyfriends (I've only had two). I really don't want competition for J, especially from her. Also, he's from Czech, so he's not fluent in English. He's also probably not going to be here for much longer (a few months at most). He's also got a lot of admirers from afar, just like I was. So continuing on with my situation, yesterday I approached him for the first time with another one of my guy friends, but my guy friend wouldn't shut up so I couldn't really get a word in edgewise. I approached him again today with my whorey friend, and the exact same thing happened. I don't really want to approach him alone, simply because I don't have the guts to. SO, is it worth chasing this guy, or should I just admire from afar?? Reply to this Question
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reader, TeenageDreamgirl +, writes (26 January 2012):
TeenageDreamgirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys, I just found out he'll be here till next year
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2012): i think you should take a shot! why shouldnt you and why dont you deserve a chance if they do?
maybe square it up with your whorey friend and let her know so that you dont fall out over it but right now he's single [most likely] and you just need the right moment, maybe when your friends arent there, whether you wait or plan the opportunity you should go for it xx
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reader, LoveMeNena +, writes (25 January 2012):
 High School is a place for you to find yourself. You'll never know unless you try. I was in the same place as you before. You know he's only staying for a few more months so why not? You'll grow some confidence and maybe even more self esteem. Your friend will notcie that as well. So what are you waiting for? Go have fun! You don't stay young forever
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