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writes:In may of last year i started to see this guy Ashton. it Started out just friends with benefits and then on june 18th we started officially dating. He broke up with me 2 weeks later and then we got back together and i broke up with him on july 17th for this other boy but i told him it was just for a break,Then i seen him 2 1/2 weeks later at this even for our school over the summer. He was with the girl he was with before me, but i was in love with him so i went over to him and that other girl. well i just walked away almost crying after i talked for like mins. and he went to my house that day with his friend and all mine, i was being rude and disrespectful to him and he just gave it back to me. but at the end of it all him and i we on good terms, and i thought we were going to get back together, we didn't(i droped out of the same school he went to)He then started dating the other girl he dated before me, Her name is Lindsey. I was crushed but i waited like a month or two and me friend leila who goes to my old school and ashtons current school told me how ashton was asking about me and wanted to see me so a week later i went to the school he goes to right when it got out, he came over and spent the weekend at my house and the next weekend. Then i wanted him to come trick-or-treating with me and he promised he would. it came to halloween and i called everyone looking for him, and he didn't show and then i wrote him a note telling him to come over and if he didn't i would forget about him,. he took it as i already did. so he started dating mikayla and i was mad i went and followed him and her when they were walking together and tried fighting her and him. and left crying because i was heartbroken. But i won. then 3 weeks later i went to his house and spent a week at his house. 3 days after i was there he dumped mikayla. and now he isn't talking to me and i seen mikayla and him holding hands.Should i just give up on him, (i am still very in love with him) or should i try to get him back. i feel as if i am almost his play toy but i think he cares about me im not sure can anyone help please...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontoday i told the girl mikayla, he cheated on her with me. she was upset but now she isn't ever going back to him. and he does care about me. he just sees me diffrently than i see him i guess. but i am trying to move on its just hard. any ways on helping me get over him?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (31 January 2012):
 yes dear give up on him.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (31 January 2012):
 He sounds pretty unreliable to me. I'd give up on him, sorry to disappoint you but not everyone you like is going to like you back. It's sad and annoying and upsetting but it happens in life. One of those really irritating life lessons we all have to learn.
I'd ignore him and get on with life. In 10 years time, you'll have forgotten his name, he'll be such old news.
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