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writes:hi i have 2 questions. do u think this girl is interested in me?And how can i flirt with her on facebook and thru texts to keep her interested until shes ready for dating?ok im going to give you guys the backstory now, Im 16 years old turning 17 soon and shes turning 16,so i met this girl years ago when i spent a week at my cousins house. so i was at his house and i was maybe 13 years old so she was 12, and my cousins were trying to get me to talk to her and flirt with her, but i was pretty shy at the time so i didnt actually talk to her. that was the only time i met her. now its years later im turning 17 she will be 16 and i started talking to her on facebook 6 days ago, and i have to say i was very attracted to her she looks beautiful to me. she said she remembers me and i started flirting with her, Telling her that shes beautiful i leave her lots of flattering comments. so one day she puts her status that if u click "like" she will rate u, tell u if she would date u, and give u a heart. i clicked like and she rated me 9.0, she also said date: idk and gave me a heart. i think she might be interested because she gave pretty much every other guy date: sorry no. we were messaging and she told me to text her and gave me her phone number. also we were messaging and i asked her if shes single, she said yes and she will stay that way for a while, i understand if she dosent want a boyfriend right now, so i said "ok thats smart" then i told her when shes ready to change that she should hit me up(talk to me). and she said "lol umm ok" so i said i didnt mean to creep you out im sorry if i did. she said "lol its ok you didnt" so i think that this means shes interested. what do u think? and let me know how i can keep her interest. she lives a little while away in my cousin's neighborhood, and we dont get to visit a whole lot but this summer i will be able to visit on weekends and see her so its not like i wont ever see her and its just a facebook thing. i want to keep her interested in me so that one day when shes ready for a boyfriend maybe she'll choose me, because yes im very interested,i mean she's beautiful and shes a nice girl, just trying to concentrate on school. also i have talked to her brother before we were friends because they are both friends with my cousins.FYI right now im a little overweight but the rest of this school year and this summer im going to be dedicated and committed to getting fit so by the time i do meet her i will be fit and looking good for her.
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reader, shortyX3 +, writes (2 February 2012):
shortyX3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank u for the advice mcclareng3 it makes sense and is very good advice, i have been talking to here but we are still just talking like friends.
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reader, mcclareng3 +, writes (28 January 2012):
Wait about a week and hit her up through texting, act as nothing ever happened cuz as you explained, things became a bit awkward after she said she didn't want a boyfriend. Okay so let me tell you what you need to do to get her interested in you and get her as your girlfriend in no time, first of all your acting to overwhelming and needy, stop giving her flattering comments all the time, give her flattering comments every now and then or when she deserves it. don't text her or hit her up on facebook everyday you got about 5 months left for the school year to end. Hit her up in 3 days and initiated the conversation twice, the third time "you wait for her". Girls like a challenge and if you make your self to available they'll lose interest quickly. Concentrate on yourself and losing weight not to impress her but for your self-esteem, once you start looking good, post facebook pictures of yourself and having fun with friends. The key is to not seem interest and show her how much fun your having (girls don't want relationships, they just want a great guy to spend the good times with). Relationships is a mind game and to get her will be easy. And to know if she's interested in you, like I said after two times of hitting her up, you know what make it once and if she initiates the conversation the second time, she is interested. The great thing is that shes young and shes easy to read, she has little experience about relationships, so dont sweat it. In the mean time, try and hang out with some other girls to build your game, so when the time comes and see her, you will at least know what to do. remember: "less is more"
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