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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Was my reaction appropriate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

31 December 2012 (?) - Dear cupids, I am deeply hurt and can't think straight. I broke up with my boyfriend last year because he was using another girl picture(he claims to be his cousin) as his profile picture on facebook and i suspected cheating. When I told him I was ...

I need help decoding this guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - So I posted a question about this guy a bit ago...He is a bit older than me so I wasn't sure how things would work between us but then we kinda went on a quasi-date, it was really fun and he's so easy to be with and I'm trying to decode him and ...

I'm sick of being skinny

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am a girl, 14 years old. i dont get my period yet and i am very skinny. i have small boobs. i dont wear a bra and my weight is 30 kg (66 lbs). i dont eat enough, 1 time in the day. i cant eat i dont know why. please help! all my friends always t...

How can I bring my girlfriend to orgasm without intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - How should i give orgasm to my girl friend? we are in relationship but we didn't made sex. we just work on activities like handjob,fingering, kissing etc... i want to please her as much as i can. please help me.......

I usually pick the losers and jerks - I'm scared to see what happens this time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - So I've started talking to this guy that has a lot in common with me, its like we can constantly talk and not get tired of each other. I have never been able to talk to someone like this and it feels really weird, and Im afraid I am going to say ...

I don't know what to think. Why is he flirty and happy to see me and then he turns away and ignores me?

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31 December 2012 (F) - So I realllllyyy like this boy and I mean so much. I don't even care about any other boy who walks by me cause all I can think about is the guy I like. I want him and I could care less about any other guy. We're friends right now and I don't wa...

Any advice? My GF tells me on sms chat she want sex, but then won't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I am in relationship. i and my girl friend make romance frequently.. but not sex. she always tell me that she wanted to have sex on sms chat. but when we are together, she don't allow me to do so. we had given each other hand jobs. any advice?...

What's wrong with my relationship with my Gf? She seems to find fault with me all the time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for a while now and have been enjoying every moment we are together. Ever since we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend, she has been shooting me down. For instance, I asked her if she wanted to hang out...

How am I going to talk to her about what happened? And what do I say when I see this guy (who has a crush on me) next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - When my best friend's boyfriend found out I was bi, he started hanging out with me more and told me he was questioning his sexuality. That was three months ago. Last week he told me he didn't just like me, he loves me and that he was going to bre...

How can I talk to her without it being creepy or obvious that I like her?

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31 December 2012 (F) - I've liked this girl for a while and I also have a medium sized crush on her friend. We usually talk every morning before school an I always walk the girl I really like to class. I know she doesn't really send me signals but I want to know how I ...

How can I introduce the idea of us being more than friends to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I met a guy several months ago and he's honestly one of the most incredible people I've met in a long time. When we met, he had a girlfriend but we became very close friends although even then I fancied him a bit. About a month ago he broke up with ...

How do I help my b/f get over fights without always breaking up?

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30 December 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend, well now ex-boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past year. He was the one who always broke it off because we'd get in a fight. How do I help him over come the fights we have without breaking it off all the time?...

Been so difficult since we broke up. Should I just cut him off and move on? Or hope we can get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a 1 1/2 months ago. Word got around around about two weeks ago that he liked another girl but also said he didnt want to date anyone for a while. Around a couple nights ago he had contacted me saying how he had been thin...

How can I get this girl who fancies my boyfriend to back off? She's stirring between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Hey guys what should I do about this girl... Me and my bf have been together for 6 months now and we are becoming serious but there's this girl who fancies my bf, but my bf likes as a mate but said he would never date her. She isn't very attra...

I can't forget about this older guy despite following your previous advice! What's going on? I need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Hey I recently wrote for you about this man of 31 years old and was advised delete him from my Facebook account and to focus my attention on somewhere else, so that's what I did. I deleted him from fb and I changed my way to school to not see him ...

Her parents are unhelpful and her bi-polar is not medicated as her parents can't afford it. I care about her deeply, but what can I do about supporting her, now that I have less time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - Bit of background information: I'm 18 and about to enter my second semester of college, my Girlfriend is 17 and in High School. We've been dating for over a year now. We started dating when I was a Senior in High School. We saw each other every ...

I'm 13 and feeling pressured by my own longings to have sex with my Bf. But I'm scared of getting pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - okay so im a teenage girl and i kind of feel pressured to have sex,not by anyone though, i have a certain longing for it.i want to wait till im married because im still a virgin but sex is so tempting to do. And i have the guy i want to do it with ...

My Coworker says he's a "relationship kind of guy" but I think he's rushing things. Does he want more a FWB than a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I have got involved in a coworker. We have been sexting and sending each other pics... I was really against this but he eventually twisted my arm. Thing is, hes only just recently broken up with his gf and says he wasn't bothered about the breaku...

I want to date. But I'm also carer for my mother and sister. How have other carers been able to juggle studies, caring and me-time or even a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I hate starting these off but basically I'm 17, I have only ever had 1 boyfriend and that's because I'm a carer for my mum and sister, my mum has COPD and my sister has cerebal palsy. Over the past few weeks I've started developing a crush on this ...

She's making catty remarks about me. Do I ignore her? Or involve the guy we both may have a crush on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - this girl might like this guy I might have a crush on. I know he used to like me but I think he likes her now though I don't know for sure. He may even like Both of us. Anyways this girl is rude to me making catty/smart comments most of the time...

We're not looking to have sex but how can we make passionate moments more interesting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - me and my boyfriend, we have been good mates for years and have been going out for 2 months, we are in year 10, and love being passionate, we dont want to go into anything like sex or anything going in places... etc... but we do love a good snog and ...

Is he just playing games with me? He denies, to others, that he still likes me. He claims to think of me sexually, still.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up. Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me. I questioned why me instead of her. He told...

How can I gain confidence to talk to boys?

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28 December 2012 (F) - Stuff you may need to know about me before I start. I'm 17, i've never had a relationship, i've never kissed a boy, i have acne which is a massive reason as to why i have no confidence atall! I started a new college in September and i really l...

We've endured a rough time together. I still love her. Yes cheating occurred. Should I try to get back with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So, my story starts a year ago when i first met my ex with whom i just brokeup, i immediately fell in love and told her so on the next day, she also really liked me. everything was perfect and fun, and we really rushed sexually ( which was foolish....

Has anyone else had a back brace for scoliosis? I need one but I'm worried. What is the procedure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - hi, i need to get a back brace for my scoliosis and i've been told by many others that when they take a mould of your back to make the brace, they will ask you to take your clothes off and only stand their in only your underwear and nothing else. p...

Why am I having sexual dreams about a guy that I don't like in that way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4346 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hello. I keep having these sex dreams about this guy I like. I like him a lot, but not in a sexual way. I don't understand why I keep having these dreams. They are making me somewhat uncomfortable. Are my dreams trying to tell me that I'm secretly...

Friend or more? Is she playing games with me to get me interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So there is this girl I've been liking for a while. Her friends tease her with me and she acts casual about it, some times she continues the joke herself. As of recent, another guy seems to be interested in her and she's nice to him and speaks to h...

Does he see me as his rebound option? Is he reluctant as we work together? Or is he interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hi guys... I have a problem. Basically... I changed jobs less than 2 months ago and at my new job I have met a guy who is 6 years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 24. He's been in a relationship the whole time (couple of months) up until 3 d...

Is the girl I know and like trying to make me jealous? Her actions confuse me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - one day in school at lunch i was heading back to my table when i heard a conversation going on with a girl i know/like and her friends. she sat at my table with her friends a few seats down from me,every day at lunch. she was talking about a guy ...

My story, update and appreciation to everyone who has helped me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I haven't wrote an article on this site recently and well I think its about time as i'm so valued here that I update my life, and well give everyone an insight to why I came on this site and why I love giving people advice and help. ...

Texting him for 4 months. Then he suggested FWB. Then ignored me totally. Am I right to be concerned by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I've been texting this guy for around 4 months now and a few weeks ago we both told each other we like each other. Since then we've been texting everyday and have planned to meet up and go out somewhere. I should also mention that he also suggested ...

As it's her home area shall I ask her first where she'd like to go on our first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - So I think I might be into this girl. After we get back to college from Christmas break, I'm gonna see if she wants to go out. Where we go to school is her hometown, so she has her car, and she already has her favorite places, and knows everywhere...

How do I come out to my transphobic parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - I am a FTM transgender and gay, meaning I like men. I am currently dating a questioning but that is not the problem. This is my problem. How do I come out to my parents as transgendered when they're transphobic? This is very crutial as I want to ...

The girl I love has a boyfriend and she says she loves us both. She won't choose between us. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Basically, I'm just looking for some sort of help or advice. This girl was in love with me a few months ago but I was going through a lot at the time and just declined a relationship with her. We remained good friends and we love and care about each ...

We are both 18. He's a virgin. But his technique needs work. How do I teach him without offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I'm a 18 y/o female, not a virgin. I've only had one sexual partner but he was a lot older and more experienced guy, so the sex was great! He taught me a lot... However I'm now going out with an 18 year old virgin, who hasn't done Anything sexual.....

He "remembers me how good the sex was"? Was that all I ever was to him? I'm so hurt by this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So it’s been 1 1/2 months since my ex and I broke up and I've slowly started to rebuild up my strength until he decided text me last night out of the blue . He was just asking what I was up to and if I like any boys. He mentioned how word got out...

I want somebody to love.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

27 December 2012 (?) - I feel like I will never be able to be successful with women. The only girls I have ever been good at flirting with are ones I am not actually attracted to deeply. I'm a virgin at 19 and am going through medicine. I had an ex who I was with for 2 ...

Has my Gf broken up with me? Due to my phone re-set I can't call her. No a word since last friday? What am I supposed to make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So i been on christmas Break for a couple days now, and i havent heard from my Gf Once. :/ The last time we talked was on Friday because i went over her house so we could spend some time Together. I been waiting for her to text me, call me and it's...

Never got over my first crush. Lots of health problems since. What can I change so future relationships are more successful?

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27 December 2012 (F) - - This post is long. i'm sorry. Lets just call me 'M' and my first love 'J' I'm quite young, 17 and i fell in love with J at first sight 5 years ago. My heart pounded, my cheeks were always flushed and i kept stammering. Naive i know, but tha...

How long does it take to heal from your first serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So my ex and i have been broken up for about 1 1/2 months..and its gotten easier..but ever once and a while ill have flash backs of our relationship and feel sad...so I havnt completely healed. Turns out hes been asking around about how iv been to ...

How do I go to see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4347 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Hello everybody :) First of all im really happy to have found this website because i realized i am not fully in control of my relationship problems.Here is my little story and my questions. I've been with this amazing guy in a long distance r...

Shall I trust him or not? My friends say he only sees girls for a short time and then dumps them. I don't want to be hurt.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Just recently, one of my friends invited this guy to a movie with me and a couple of friends. He seemed really nice, and we'd been texting each other quite a bit. He then randomly told me he liked me, just completly out of the blue. I have to sa...

I love my friend but she doesn't know how to break up with her boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, this is Jake, I am 17 years old (¡18 coming early 2013!).I practise football and music is my life. I'm new member and I registered in this page for talk with other people and try to help them. But right now, I write for telling you as I...

Once our classes resume how should I act around my Crush? Considering I already told him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I have a crush on this boy for almost a year now but we only became friends last June. Last week,I finally told him how I feel. His response was obscure because he didn't say anything about liking or not liking me but he told stories about pa...

My Bf is ignoring me. No contact for 2 days. Yet he's active on Facebook? What's up?

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24 December 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend made NO attempt to contact me for the pass two days. He is on vacation. But usually, before he sleeps (even on vacation) he would call me. He knows what those calls mean to me. He also did not reply my msgs. He's not ...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

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24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

I'm not attracted to women but I made out with a female friend. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I have never questioned my preference....but I am confused on what this may mean. I had my lesbian friend over a week ago and we would make sexual jokes/ gestures to each other but I was only joking as she knew that I wasn't being serious. At one ...

Is it possible to be addicted to masturbation? It's becoming distracting.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - Is it possible to be addicted to masturbation? Can't stop fantasising and it's stressing me out. It's not like I want a boyfriend or want a sexual partner. I rather not be sexually active and get tangled in at all that at the moment.It's real...

He makes me wet and it makes me uncomfortable.

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23 December 2012 (F) - Okay so I'm 16 and so is my boyfriend. Were both Virgins and we do want to wait till marriage for sex so instead we Dry Hump. Im usually in leggings or sweat pants and hes usually in gym shorts. But he says he wants to try to do it with pants off ...

I used to like one girl now I've developed a crush on her friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

23 December 2012 (M) - I used to like a girl quite a lot, so I asked her best friend to tell me what the first girl thought about me. However, after a few months now I find myself falling for the second girl. I already told her that I don't like the first girl anymore,...