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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: I've been texting this guy for around 4 months now and a few weeks ago we both told each other we like each other. Since then we've been texting everyday and have planned to meet up and go out somewhere. I should also mention that he also suggested we became friends with benefits, at the time I said yes without thinking, although now i've had some time to think about it, I'm having second thoughts (i'm 17, still a virgin and haven't done anything with a boy) Anyway, he hasn't text me for 4-5 days. This wouldn't bother me if he had told me and I would of understood if it was because he was spending time with his family over Christmas. However, he has been replying to my friend and has also been spending time on facebook.Why is he ignoring my texts?
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female
reader, Denise32 +, writes (28 December 2012):
I know you are disappointed and wondering why he hasn't been back in touch. Unfortunately, when a man suggests becoming FWB,it means his main goal is sex on demand. He is not interested in being a real boyfriend to you.
As the other aunts have said, your best bet is to forget about him. You deserve MUCH better than someone who just wants you for your body, and doesn't really care about you as a person!
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female
reader, Denise32 +, writes (28 December 2012):
I know you are disappointed and wondering why he hasn't been back in touch. Unfortunately, when a man suggests becoming FWB,it means his main goal is sex on demand. He is not interested in being a real boyfriend to you.
As the other aunts have said, your best bet is to forget about him. You deserve MUCH better than someone who just wants you for your body, and doesn't really care about you as a person!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): Just let it go. He doesnt want a relationship all he wants to do is get in your pants and you are still a virgin and your first time should be with someone that is worth giving it to not someone who just wants to be friends with benefits. Show him you are smarter and better than that. I hope this helps you and keep your head up high. Good Luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 December 2012):
Be glad he's ignoring your texts. He sounds like a douche bag honey.
You are 17 and a virgin... you don't need FWB for a long long time....
he's ignoring you because he's not that into you.
don't expend any more effort going after this boy. He's not interested in having a real relationship with you he just wants to get laid.
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