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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid,My boyfriend made NO attempt to contact me for the pass two days. He is on vacation. But usually, before he sleeps (even on vacation) he would call me. He knows what those calls mean to me. He also did not reply my msgs. He's not busy all the time because I've seen him online on facebook.What should i do? I really need help, please.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 December 2012):
Have you tried calling him, or are you leaving him messages on FB?
I'm not going to come up with excuses for him, because there is none. He's being lazy about contacting you and obviously doesn't care to talk to you.
I'd let the messages go for now, and wait for him to contact you. Then proceed to give him an earful and ask what his problem is.
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reader, wade +, writes (25 December 2012):
I agree do nothing it is not the end of the world if you do not speak to him for two days with all the communication we have now and days. He is on vacation give him a break. It is also possible that your neediness is turning him off he cannot be your crutch all the time. Yes he should call but if he doesnt you need to move on because it might be a sign he is doing something he should not be doing period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2012): Don't do anything. Just wait til he returns your messages then ask why it took him so long. You see a relationship can start to feel oppressive if a person cannot even go 2 days without calling their significant other. People need a break from the constant contact
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