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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I met a great guy and we had fun hanging out, but he seemed turned off when I told him I'm 17! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - How to get this guy to notice/like me or ask me out? I’m going to have to explain this whole situation so you can kind of get into my shoes a bit and give me some advice. I was out at a gig in my college with my friend the other night and we wer...

Need help with my attraction for older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I think I possibly need help, but I don't really know how to go about it. I'm only fifteen- going on sixteen, soon, and I've got this real strange attraction to older men Anything up from twenty, but never older than forty? It's sorta weird... i...

How do I ask this girl to kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys, I really wanna kiss this girl who i like and I am pretty sure she likes me but I don't know how to ask her to kiss me. Has anyone got any good ideas?...

Am I wrong in being paranoid about my party-loving bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I cant decide if I'm being pathetic or not... so I've been with my bf like 3 years, 2 of them a serious relationship, for the past year or so I've become quite paranoid and controlling, but by that all I mean is that I don't like him getting ...

Is it normal for a guy to take this long to decide whether or not he wants to date someone he once dated before and has been friends with since?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok so back in 2009 I dated a guy-- my first boyfriend, from June 26, 2009 until December 16, 2009. He broke up with me because he was "unsure of his true feelings" I was also the last girlfriend he's had since and I was the longest of his three ...

Thinking about the future -- would it be safe for third-cousins to have children together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we love each other very much. But recently we found out we are third cousins and we are both thinking about the future. Is it safe for us to have children together? ...

Two guys with different things to offer, don't know which to choose

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have an issue I cannot figure out what to do. I dated this guy for two years and he was the first boy i have ever loved. We kept fighting and we were going to college soon so we broke up because we though it would be best. we broke up four months ...

I texted "love you" and I haven't heard back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - okay, so here is the deal. It's senior year and I found this guy within an old group of friends. He goes to my old high school and somehow we found out that we are absolutley perfect for each other. We have such a great time together whether we are ...

When I asked my boyfriend to set up some healthy boundaries with his children, he broke up with me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in relationship for 5 years. It was great for 3 years until his children ages 16 and 20 started to cross boundaries when he and I were together. I asked him on several occasions to set up some healthy boundaries to not have them wake us ...

Why doesn't my friend want to talk about the past? And which boy does my heart belong to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hey, Need your help again. So, last year, there used to be a lad (Luke) who was totally in love with me. He spoke to me everyday and always said he loved me. He did this everyday for a year but I never responded because I didn't want to ruin our...

I can't keep up this secret much longer!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Going to keep this as short as possible.. I am a girl that's16 years old and am in a relationship with a 20 year old male. As I am living with my parents, and knew they would be against this we've been in a secret relationship for 10 months. ...

Do men actually like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Do guys like giving oral to girls??? I mean do they like fingering, and going down and you know? The taste, the look, when it's clean and partially shaven. I am so trying to explain this well, but just really wanted to know if they like kissin...

I'm almost 17, and STILL being treated like a little kid!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hey. Thank you for all you people who are taking your time to help me, I really do need answers. I'm 17 in a couple of days and tbh I'm quite confused. I've been with my boyfriend for ages (8 months) but he's still not allowed in my bedroom. Even...

Am I addicted to smoking after two puffs on a cigarette?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hey, On saturday, i went to a party with all my mates, there was one girl who was smoking and made me take a puff, i ended up taking two puffs. All today i have been craving a fag and i was going to steal one from my sister. Am i addicted now...

Should I initiate contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Well, I've met the most amazing guy. He's very intelligent, fit and into sports, and a fantastic musician. He's kind, thoughtful and sweet, and so handsome. So in other words, I'm infatuated. We started talking a little around a month ago, because ...

3 guys pulling me 3 ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - hi there i got a boyfriend now been dating him for almost 8 months he sweet caring treats me like a queen breakfast in bed he shouts at me when i am doing something wrong hes got his exes on his mxit and i hate his sister and he gets angry fast ...

Our classmates made fun of our friendship and now she doesn't talk to me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - hi frnds i am a student of class 11th and i have been fall in love with a classmate of mine i just truly love her but all my friends and her friends now know that i like her and most probably she also knows that i like her. she is somewhat a s...

Should I trust her? And if so, how do I get her to hook me up with the guy I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - There's this guy I sort of like. His name's Rick. He's tall and always wears hooded jackets even though we live in mild climates. I'm guessing this is just his style, and I find it cute. I want to talk to him, but we barely cross paths or share ...

Was I stuck up because I ignored him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - There was this guy back in middle school who used to stare at me incessantly. I also remember him kicking the back of the bus seat I was sitting on, and leaning on the wall adjacent to me while I stood in the lunch line. I never reacted to his ...

What am I doing wrong? Why am I still single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I've been told that I'm pretty, and a lot of guys hit on me. My friends even tell me that they wonder why I'm single. But that's what I don't understand either! I just don't get it - the guys I don't want hit on me, and the guys I do want reject me. ...

Did this guy like me? Or did I miss something?

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28 February 2011 (F) - This guy named Russell keeps nodding at me, and sometimes looks sorry for it. It's unusual, because we barely know each other. A few times I just smiled back politely. But last week I gave him an awkward smile, because really it was getting weird. ...

15 years old and pregnant, with a strict Mom who doesn't know. What do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 years old and my mom is already is thinking of me having kids!! Almost every day when i come home from school she asks me if I'm still a virgin, and obviously i say yes(the thing is my mom wants to arrange me with someone from our ...

Is there something going on between my teacher and me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok, so I've read some stories about "teacher-student relationships" on this websites. (I'm 16 btw) And now I wonder......I've had this teacher for two years. Last year was when I got to know him. I was involved in basketball and didn't want to leave ...

How do I distance myself from my ex-bf who goes to my school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago because he didn't like me anymore, (but there was also lots of rumors around saying his friend who's a player, that played my best friend, told him to dump me because being single is better and you can do ...

Why are they making fun of me because I'm an 8th grader dating a 7th grader?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he's in 7th grade. I'm in 8th. All the guys talk to him and say stupid things like blink twice if she's forcing you. (They are immature) And they get me and push me into him and say "why are you raping him!!!" Then they make ...

I have serious problems in breathing, but the doctors cannot find anything wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Okay so this isn't a relationship question but i get good advice from this website so here goes.. for about the past three months i have been having episodes where i feel like i do not get enough air when i breathe. It all started one day while ...

I don't think my best friend who I have feelings for likes me back. What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Well, I think I'm in love for the first time and it's with my best friend. Whenever I see him I smile without even knowing it. It seems like I think about him all the time, and I always dream about him. But he doesn't seem to like me back. I've f...

What kind of physical look do guys prefer in a girl?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Haii, Im about to turn 14 in a few days (yayy) but I have a question-- well questions which are mostly for teens and peoples my age. Are looks really important? Like what is the thing that makes you attracted to someone? What do guys pr...

I broke up with him, he's in another relationship now, but I really miss him! How can I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I went out with this boy a while ago and I dumped him because well its a long story. Anyway he cut his hair, got a new hair style, and he has really mutured...but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps rubbing it in my face like...oh I'm going to see ...

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It end...

My bf doesn't like the fact I'm bi...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hiya I don't really know what to do. Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year now and I've told him things that I've never told anyone else, and one of the things was that I was bi, which now I think was a stupid idea :'(. He ...

I gave my boyfriend my first hand job. Was his reaction good or bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well, I gave my first handjob after wracking my brain for two weeks about doing it. My boyfriend and I were together a month and a half last year in September/October. He broke up with me, and we got back together in December and are still together...

I've had a rocky time, is this choice gonna make things better or worse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - 2009-2010 was not a good year for me. There was bullying and a lot of other stuff going on. At the end of it I was pretty much broken and suicidal. In August I hit rock bottom. Then I started to heal. Now, I've started to enjoy life again. I've...

I'm not scared..but I still stop it, why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Heey:) I'm 13 and the other day I had a boy round my house, and we were bored so he wanted to play nervous, a game were you touch eachother in certain parts, and he went up my shorts and in my nickers then I stopped him before he could do anything...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I really like this guy at my school and we talk all the time online but he has a really really pretty ex girlfriend who, until recently, he was still in love with, but they still talk everyday and she flirts with him loads even though she doesnt ...

Agressive partner or scared child??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've had a relationship with a man for 9 years. Although over 9 years ago we split up for a while, but, then we got back together. He can be aggresive and spiteful, but he never physically hurts me. But it's affecting my 13 year old girl, as they ...

Will my feelings come back even though I've moved on?

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27 February 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm a little scared. I use to be love this boy so much. Then one day he got sick and never came back to school. Now hes in the office and I dont know why but he's been in there since november. Then in december I got a boyfriend and th...

I want to date my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - My best friend (male) and I are really close but when we were in first year we fought like cat and dog. Then he asked me out and I said no but now I really like him and have already asked him out and he said no. He is also sending mixed messages so ...

Should I talk to him about my friends or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Okay, so there's this boy, I always talk about him to friends and it seems there taking note of his name and adding him on Facebook. They know that I really like him as a boyfriend, but they're talking to him all the time, and because of this I feel ...

My 13 year old son is making out with his girlfriend? Should I allow this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - my 13 year old son has a girlfriend the same aged as him. They always hold hands, Kiss all the time, And slap/squeeze/grab each other on the bum. Should i allow this? I think its fine because they aint going far. ...

Just wondering...am I a lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - me and my friend have known each oth since primary 1 and just a while ago we were on her trampoline and i lay down she was on top of me but it started to get wierd whaen my other friend started bowncing because she started going up and down on me ...

I'm crushing and he's staring! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've crush on my classmate bt i doesn't have confidence to purpose him b'coz i don't know that will he like me or not, bt i catch him staring at me now what will i do plz tell me...

Bra size.... how do I measure myself for correct sizing??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - how can i measure myself to make sure i am wearing the crrect bra size?...

Is age just a number?? I like him but he is younger than me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Is it wierd to fall for a guy that iss 3 years younger then you, cuz i think i have but we really dont care about age , but what i am asking is is it wierd to fall for a guy 3 years younger?...

Why did my boy friend's breathing change? What did that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - i was at my boyfriends house yesterday and me got into a pretty heavy make out session. i started kissing his neck and his breathing went all funny. he kinda took a massive breath in and then was breathing quickly and deeply. what does this mean? ...

I am so hurt.... I really feel dead inside!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - So I posted another question and it's about how me and my ex have been broke up a month and my ex that I haven't heard from in a month had his guy friend that I do not know anything about and he doesn't know me send me a text message.He said that my ...

My b/f LDR move back home -- what about the other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I was in love with my boyfriend of two years. But his dad got this promotion and he had to move to a different country. We talked about being in a long distance relationship, but with the time difference it became too hard for us. And we ended it. ...

I've never gave a handjob before.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. He is my first proper relationship and we really havn't done anything sexually. He has fingered me twice, but I want to return the favour and give him a handjob. Problem is I've never done anything...

That cliche of being hot for teacher...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I met him in August of my sophomore year, when I first sat in that desk in his class room, he called our names, learning who we were. He got to mine, last on the list of the twenty or so kids in my class. My last name being German, he spouted off ...

Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this ...