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writes: Well, I've met the most amazing guy. He's very intelligent, fit and into sports, and a fantastic musician. He's kind, thoughtful and sweet, and so handsome. So in other words, I'm infatuated. We started talking a little around a month ago, because we're both in this year's musical. About two weeks ago he offered to drop me somewhere, even though he was late for work. I already had a ride, but I was really touched. Anyway, this weekend he drove me home, and we talked more than we ever had. It was great how the conversation flowed; we have quite a lot in common, and he was very generous with compliments.If it was anyone else I'd think they had feelings for me, but he's so lovely anyway, that I'm confused. I really want to establish a relationship with him, but I'm not sure if he's interested. Either he could be shy or not interested, and I don't want to ruin anything.Should I initiate contact? He's just too fantastic to pass by~
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reader, Wamaidza +, writes (10 April 2011):
I suggest also you follow your heart. Do not just say that he is fantastic and all the good qualities he has and let go.Rember a bird at hand is worth two in the bush! Make arrangements and talk it over,over a cup of tea or something to your liking. Confirm from him as you converse.I wish you the best of luck.
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reader, .. +, writes (1 March 2011):
.. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay, thanks to both of you. :)
I'm just worried because I don't know whether he's being nice or he's into me. And I don't want to be too forward if he's not into me.
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reader, 24fallenangel +, writes (28 February 2011):
Why dont you just ask him out to the cinema, or for something to eat or something you will never know uless you ask
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