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Should I initiate contact?

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Question - (28 February 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, *. writes:

Well, I've met the most amazing guy. He's very intelligent, fit and into sports, and a fantastic musician. He's kind, thoughtful and sweet, and so handsome. So in other words, I'm infatuated.

We started talking a little around a month ago, because we're both in this year's musical. About two weeks ago he offered to drop me somewhere, even though he was late for work. I already had a ride, but I was really touched.

Anyway, this weekend he drove me home, and we talked more than we ever had. It was great how the conversation flowed; we have quite a lot in common, and he was very generous with compliments.

If it was anyone else I'd think they had feelings for me, but he's so lovely anyway, that I'm confused. I really want to establish a relationship with him, but I'm not sure if he's interested. Either he could be shy or not interested, and I don't want to ruin anything.

Should I initiate contact? He's just too fantastic to pass by~

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A male reader, Wamaidza Kenya +, writes (10 April 2011):

Wamaidza agony auntI suggest also you follow your heart. Do not just say that he is fantastic and all the good qualities he has and let go.

Rember a bird at hand is worth two in the bush! Make arrangements and talk it over,over a cup of tea or something to your liking. Confirm from him as you converse.

I wish you the best of luck.

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A female reader, .. Australia +, writes (1 March 2011):

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Okay, thanks to both of you. :)

I'm just worried because I don't know whether he's being nice or he's into me. And I don't want to be too forward if he's not into me.

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A female reader, 24fallenangel Ireland +, writes (28 February 2011):

Why dont you just ask him out to the cinema, or for something to eat or something you will never know uless you ask

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