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writes:There was this guy back in middle school who used to stare at me incessantly. I also remember him kicking the back of the bus seat I was sitting on, and leaning on the wall adjacent to me while I stood in the lunch line. I never reacted to his bizarre actions, which probably convinced him to stop. But I'm in high school now and I'm wondering: Was I stuck-up for doing that? Should I have at least talked to him? I know he was weird, but I kinda liked him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx! i feel better now
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 No, I don't think you did anything wrong.
Of course it was middle school and the poor kid is totally forgivable for lacking social skills and trying to attract your attention in such a clumsy, awkward way. Then again, plenty of kids have already figured out by 3rd or 4th grade that if you want to know a girl, you just smile and say : Hi, what's your name - rather than kicking
her seat , pulling her braids, creeping up behind her etc.etc.
Let's say you have helped this kid to grow up and understand what works and what des not with women :)- so do not feel guilty.
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