A
female
age
30-35,
*icky 3
writes:hi there i got a boyfriend now been dating him for almost 8 months he sweet caring treats me like a queen breakfast in bed he shouts at me when i am doing something wrong hes got his exes on his mxit and i hate his sister and he gets angry fast now and my ex wants me back and telling me how he loves me and he wants me back now he is sweet can cook and can draw he is funny and has got a job he is funny and sweet he made me cry cos he is sensitive and i may have said something wrong.the next guy is 15 and live far from me i met him on a chatroom he is sweet and he agrees to everything i tell him he is moving to where i am maby this year the question is there is 5 o more questions that i wanna ask 1 wat must i do if my ex wants me back and the 15 year old guy wants to date me and i got a boyfriend please help2 would you allow your boyfriend to have 3 of his exes on mxit and what must i do 3 which guy must i date i love my boyfriend but i love my ex and the other guy cos my ex was my first love and the fist guy i had sex with and the other guy when i first saw him i loved him and please help
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 1. You must choose of course. Simple as that. Why is your ex your ex? Is your boyfriend capable of hurting you when he loses his temper? Does he have anger problems often?
2. Nope, that would bother me to know that my boyfriend carried his exes so close in his memory. I'd talk to him about it and ask why he feels he needs them there.
3. You are 16-17. Why must you be serious with anyone? You have plenty of time to get married and do the whole "forsakiing all others" thing. I say don't get serious with anyone and date whomever you like! Just make it clear that you don't want to get serious with anyone. Then have fun!
However, if you do feel the need to get serious and exclusive with one of them, you can't do the same thing your boyfriend is doing and keep the other two guys around as well. He may have his exes on his mxit, but you're chatting with other guys in your chat room and still talking with your ex, so that is a tad hypocritical of you, you know?
Just enjoy having fun! You're a teenager for god sakes!
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