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writes:Ok. i have a problem. I'm 17 and in a relationship. When i was 16 (about 5 months into the relationship) my girlfriend went away on vacation for 2 weeks. Idk if it was hormones or what, but i looked at porn. I did this twice and felt like the scum of the earth for it. I know that she'd be hurt if i told her and if i was to wait even longer (we've been together for about a year)and THEN told her, she'd be VERY hurt. I love her deeply and this is the only thing I've ever not been completely truthful about. When this happened i analyzed myself and realized i had a porn addiction before we started going out. When we got together i stopped watching porn all together. I couldn't resist the erg that one week and now it's eating at me. Should I feel like a terrible person? After the 2 times i looked at porn, i only looked at cartoon porn (since its not real and i needed something to ween me off the real stuff). This lasted about 2 days and i havent looked at porn (or even wanted to) since. (i even cover my eyes at nude sense in movies.Another thing you should know about me is that i would be VERY upset if i found out she did that too me. I dont like her even seeing nudity in movies. Should i tell her about all this? Should I feel like the worst boyfriend on the planet?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): There is nothing wrong with looking at pornography (as long as it is legal of course!)It's different for each girls opinion, some girls get offended when their partners look at pornography and some don't see it as a problem, personally i am the latter. i don't have a problem with my partner watching or looking at pornography. Just tell her, honesty is the best policy.And no, you aren't the worst boyfriend on the planet.But why do you have a problem with her seeing nudity in movies? is this a jealousy issue you need to resolve?
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reader, BadLilSaint +, writes (31 January 2009):
If she really likes you she'll understand and maybe give you a speech but its far better then not telling her and keeping it in the closest. Don't feel bad Lots of couples look at porn. who knows maybe she'll give you something so you wont need to look at porn next (don't get your hopes up)
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reader, BadLilSaint +, writes (31 January 2009):
If she really likes you she'll understand and maybe give you a speech but its far better then not telling her and keeping it in the closest. Don't feel bad Lots of couples look at porn. who knows maybe she'll give you something so you wont need to look at porn next (don't get your hopes up)
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