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30-35,
anonymous
writes:When you have sex for the first time, is there a different feeling for guys like do they feel you a virgin or the feeling is the same to when you are not one? Like how people say I'm tight and you loose? Is that really true? Reply to this Question
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reader, tra40d  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 Ignore what small boys brag about when talking to their peers - it is usually Bulls**t!Ron.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not that im ashamed of my virginity.im proud to be one. its just i hear guys my age talking about their girlfriends being loose and they are always talking about how they like the virgins because they claim it feels better when doing it with a virgin
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reader, 24yeahright  +, writes (31 January 2009):
What I would like to know is - why is this important to you? Are you ashamed of your virginity?Any guy who fails to respect and cherish a virgin girlfriend is completely undeserving.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (31 January 2009):
 Penii? LOL "satindesire" you are so funny darlin'. ! I love it. You are certainly thinking, but penises is indeed the correct plural. Meanwhile, I see that my response to the young lady's question skirted the point. As you suggested, sometimes it is difficult to know whether a girl is a virgin, as I fondly recall, unless she bleeds a little. Almost all young women are very tight. In my early experience, during high school, it was difficult to otherwise feel much of a difference, but a sign of blood on the penis was certainly an indication.
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reader, michelleweaver1  +, writes (31 January 2009):
For girls yes for guys no thers no diffrence
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (31 January 2009):
This is an ambiguous situation. It was quite a while back for me, but yes, penile penetration with a virgin usually begins slightly difficult, and due to her fairly tight vagina in most cases, can be difficult to consummate from the male perspective. He should, however, be very easy rather than too forceful.
In fact, once the hymen is breached, it may be advisable for a considerate man to withdraw and discontinue if she experiences too much pain. Such would be preferable, because she will be more likely to provide subsequent access after she heals, and it will then be considerably less painful for her. A good mate thinks about the girl above his personal lust.
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