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female
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30-35,
*uukiBear
writes:Ugh ok... My boyfriend is a great guy and all but he never visits me! He just DOESN'T have the TIME he says. He was in Japan for a while and he came back for a few days. I didn't even know! I had to find out that he had been home by his best friend! He didn't even visit me let alone tell me! What the hell!?!? Ugh! I think I should end it but I don't know if I can... I am going to Winter Formal and he had said he would go but canceled about a month ago. I had already bought the ticket so I have to go still. He says he is gonna come out for Valentines day but honestly, I highly doubt he will. I don't even know anymore... I am so confused. I love him but I am sick of this shit. I want him but how can I want someone that can't make the time for me? Ugh... I am sooo lost.
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reader, knight08  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 You are still young; you don’t need a guy like this in your life; he’s not worth it, you deserve much better ;-)
Good luck girl ;-)
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (31 January 2009):
 If he cared about you at all he would want to spend time with you and make the effort. You dont need that...call him, break it off, get someone who wants to be with you...if he cares at all you'll know when you break it off, he'll fight to make the effort, if he is nonchalant about it, he didnt care to begin with and you deserve better.
All the luck in the world xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): the word doormat comes into my mind!Darling he is using you x dump him! xgood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): Why would you want to settle not being on his top priority list? No one is ever too busy especially for their significant other. If someone wants you in their life ..they will make the effort to prove that they need you in their life. I am sorry sweetie perhaps, it is time to kick him to the curb. You are quite young and you didn't state the age of your boyfriend. Have you tried talking to him about this? Ask him where he sees the relationship going.
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