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writes:I don't even know where to begin. 1 - my parents turned against their own daughter. 2 - I was diagnosed with anorexia. 3 - I don't even know how to explain what I'm going through. I just wanna know if things can get better. My life is bad, really really bad. Can it get better or should I just give up?
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reader, Hopeless Happiness.  +, writes (11 July 2009):
Really dont give up.
Do what I do. Picture yourself in say, 10 years. Reflecting and looking back over this. How proud and happy will you feel knowing life was so awful but you got through and found a place where you're happy?
Things can build up and awful things can happen in life. You've gotta take them along with the ride. It's difficult, it's horrible, sometimes no-one can understand.
I think you should talk to someone. Anyone. Just someone to help you release little by little what you can. Internalising will make everything so much worse, just try to explain to anyone what's going through your mind.
Hope this helped.
Chin up, you can get through this.
Good luck :)
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): Don't give up.
I don't know your situation and couldn't possibly compare it to mine, though I have thought, frequently at times, about "giving up". I still have some really bad days, but there are good days too. In light of today being an okay today I'd like to offer you some advice that I've found helpful.
Talk to friends, let them know you're hurting without dumping too much on them. You'd be suprised who cares and how much it helps.
Consider professional help. There is a stigma about people in counseling, but there is nothing at all wrong with it and it can be extremely helpful.
You mentioned you were diagnosed with anorexia, from experience I can tell you that going a lengthy period without eating can make you feel even worse.
Please hang in there.
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reader, shna  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 you shud never give up !!!i no things are bad but they cant stay bad forever , everybody goes thru a horrible time in there life this is just yours , i no it might seem hard , to fight , to stay strong, not to cry or argue . . . or eat
but one day it will get easier , it will all fade away the onli thing i can tell you to do is try and be happy think about the gud tings you have in life
i no it may sound like the stupidest advice " why wud i want to be happy when i have nothing " right ?
the minute to start to be optimistic about your life things will change it happened to me i thought it ws bullshit im not guna lie iv had a tough life but now im happier then ever before . promise me you will try to eat ....... when you see a piece of food . . . just stare at it luk at it and think this piece of food will make me beautiful . . . imagine your dream body . . . can you picture it . . . ? imagine that image when you eat always say this food will help me look like this . . . .
good luck my darling you either at the start or the finishing line of a horrible experience . . . . with just a little help you cud take the right path . . . . keep in touch with me please . . . i want to know how you cope x x x=]
try and be happy , i no it may seem like its raining on you the whole time but the rain has to stop sometime x x x
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reader, ellababesx +, writes (31 January 2009):
 Dont give up!!
That's the last thing you need to do.
If life has turned down on you for the past few years dont just give up on it and give in, you need to shine through and show that you can't let life beat you!
Let life give what it got, and if battles happen, show what'cha got and kick it up the butt!! :)
GIRL-POWER!
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