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writes:Well, i am a roman catholic.I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year, 2 and a half months.And today, yes, we had sex. (He is also roman catholic)And now im feeling guilty :/ and a bit .. confused.I always told my self i would wait and now .. iv just gone and done it anyway .. and i feel like iv sort of spoilt it .. but at the same time .. i know ill do it again :S Was just wondering if anyone had any .. advice on the situation, as to how im feeling and how to go forwardI mean my boyfriend has just now said that he doesnt want to pressure me into doing it again and if i dont want to before my wedding night hten hes fine with it but the thing in the back of my mind is "well, its done now" :S
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (1 February 2009):
 My friend is a catholic and she's had sex. She's not that bothered, but her dad found out, and (after he cooled down) he wanted her baptised.If you have decided you dont want to do it again until marriage, then maybe baptism is a option, if it will make you feel better.However I think, as you said, its done now and you have done nothing wrong! Its your life and your play by your rules! Your bf sounds respectful, so at least its with someone you love.Honestly, its not that bad :) x
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reader, shna  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 everybody makes mistakes . . . you cant help it your human . . . you were going to have sex sometime im a batisped catholic but my religion doesnt mean much to me (im sorry if that offends you )
i live by the reasons of life
anything could happen tomorrow thats the beauty of not knowing .
you might be kicking yourself thinking youv not only let yourself down but everything you believe in . god forgives all sins . . . . . . .all sins are forgiven . . . so get stuck in . . . haha
im sorry for that little joke i just want to humour you to show you everythings not as bad as it seems
dont regret it . . at least you had sex with somebody who respects you and loves you and not some sill one night stand
things could be worse x x x
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reader, ellababesx +, writes (31 January 2009):
 I know how you feel. In a way you must feel a bit guilty but you must feel that now its done, there is no going back and you may aswell carry on with how you are.But, I suggest, do whatever feels right for you.. If you feel the need for showing your love and effection towards your partner and to have sex again, then go for it. If you feel like changing your life style is the correct thing to do right now, then I say you do it. Just dont follow by rules that you dont want to follow.Good luck!
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