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writes: Ok this is the problem I'm in, I've been with a girl for 1 year since I was 15. Well now I'm 16 and gonna join the army etc. Well my girlfriend wants to take our relationship up to he next level by having intercourse. I've done the minor stuff with her but might be stupid to say this but I love her soo much I'm scared shitless about having intercouse, she's 17 and I'm kinda scared I won't live up to her standards and really scared shitless. I just want advice on how I can overcome being shit scared! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks satindesire for all that info and you made me think twice im going over her house tomorrow to talk to her about stuff and i know it probaly be the most weird talk ive ever had but thank you all so much :D
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reader, 24yeahright  +, writes (31 January 2009):
Maybe you wont live up to her standards. Maybe she doesnt have very high standards. Maybe she wont live up to yours. Maybe you'll perform exceptionally well.Point is - If she wants it, you're eventually going to have to do it :) Drink some alcohol with her (not too much of course) and get relaxed and just see where the night takes you.
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reader, CarregCariad  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 You shouldn't be scared, you love this girl and to express it physically is only an extension of this love.But if you continue to feel scared, maybe it's a sign that you aren't ready for intercourse yet.If you can overcome it, just go with the flow. It's meant to be love-making, not just plain old sex.
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