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female
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30-35,
*atty101k
writes:So, my boyfriend and i have been practicing oral for a while, as me on him. And when i am on my period i still like to treat him even though he cannot treat me. Today i asked him if he wanted to and he said not today... and that he had to use the restroom. He has gone to the bathroom before and just promised to clean up real well. What does this mean? He has never not wanted one... im just so confused.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 January 2009):
 Certainly I did not mean to be callous, but I see your point. The suspicion was raised by her statement, "He has never not wanted one..."
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reader, sparkleworks  +, writes (24 January 2009):
 Satindesire is right, as long as your relationship (both sexual and non-sexual) is generally healthy, then this ad hoc occurrence really isn't anything to worry about.Usually I don't like to comment on or discredit the advice of others, usually all of the aunts have valid insight, but this is directed to DoubleM. Usually your answers are some of the most helpful and enjoyable to read, but I found this one unnecessarily callous. The poster made it pretty clear that oral satisfaction isn't only for her boyfriend and that was only the case in this instance because she was on her period. I can't be the only one who thinks it's a bit tactless to imply to a 16/17 year old girl that her boyfriend is cheating on her based on absolutely nothing. No disrespect meant, like I said you're one of my favourite aunts :) I was just a little taken aback by your answer this time.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 January 2009):
Okay, you are young for this, but since you are doing it, my question is, "Why is oral satisfaction only for him?" To suggest an answer to the question, however, maybe you are not his only source for his apparent one-sided enjoyment.
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