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writes: My boyfriend likes to flirt with all the girls so I am used to it. But there is this one girl that he really likes and she likes him. He says he doesn't like her yet, but according to my friends, he flirts and hangs all over her whenever I'm not around. What should I do? We've been going out a year . I have asked him to stop but he is like, "forget her!"
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): If you asked him to stop and he won't then he might not be worth it. The thing is sometimes freinds can be wrong. It's up to you to decide whether or not you're cool with it. Personally I have a hard time having a boyfriend who flirts. It's oretty tough when he flirts when you're not there. Plus he's making a fool out of you by doing it when you're not there and having your friends see it. It's degrading to you. Then again, don't jump to conclusions. Think carefully about this and do what you have to do. Good luck girl!
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reader, chicanababygul09  +, writes (24 January 2009):
well if you allready talked to him, then if you wanna do it the mature way. then flirt with another guy and that he cant stand. but not to make you seem like a hoe. that should let him know how it feels. but yea the mature way to go about this is talk to him again. and dont believe your friends unless you see it with your own eyes, just let him know how you feel. give it a week of you see no changes take a break. if it was my bf man i wouldve beat the mess out of him. but of course dont do what i would do. lol good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): You need to speak 2 him asap and tell him what u have been hearing. Maybe suggest to him that you can check with the girl and confirm nothing is going on. Guys think its ok for them to flirt, but if we did its an outrage. \he needs to reasure you.
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