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writes:I have red hair and freckles and sometimes i'm self conscience about them because i feel "different" per say. What are male opinions about red heads? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2012): I love them, and I love freckles. The best thing about redheads is they don't tan and those who embrace that never use disgusting fake tan. I'm Irish and Irish girls naturally have a beautiful porcelain complexion. Redheads skin tone is beautiful and thankfully there are plenty of them in Ireland.
Op there entire communities online devoted to redheads far more then those devoted to blond or brunettes and the reason is red heads are seen by many guys as an exotic beauty, a rarity and funnily enough most guys who aren't besotted with redheads definitely would not turn one down based on being ginger.
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reader, Redrabbit +, writes (4 November 2012):
 Well i know u want male opinions but i wanted to comment lol..i am a natural redhead..blue/green eyes..freckles..natural brick red lol and let me tell u i grew up being the odd man out cuz kids thought freckles were gross and my hair was weird..lol but now as an adult..im a fetish to alot of people..and they only wanna have sex with me to see how crazy i am in bed..lol as ginger women its not fair..and i understand the insecurities..but u just gotta say fuck it and hold ur head up high and not worry about opinions..just embrass the ginger weirdness lol
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reader, bignevermo +, writes (7 August 2012):
OH MY...I love red hair and freckles...that will differ among people but for me...and i have never seen you...you are just what I like! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): If you ask me redheads are the bees knees. I dont know where you are going to find a guy who actually DOESNT like a girl with fire hair. I mean come on there are websites like this: http://gingerlove.ca/redhead-gallary/ where all the guys do are talk about how great they like girls with redhair! I think its usually the other way around where girls are not looking for guys with red hair.
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reader, welbury1  +, writes (6 April 2009):
where to start... in my experience, red heads are stunning. One of my best friends is a red head (i have been secretly in love with her years) and as a friend she is one of the most loyal, trustworthy people i know. We confide (nearly) everything to one another. She is smart (doctor), funny, outgoing and fiercely proud and always says what she believes. The world needs more red heads.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): I think redheads are extraordinary and quite beautiful......most of them in fact.......like every group
there are parameters (sorry) hey I don't always fall within parameters myself......redheads rock!
and I'm happy to shout it out loud REDHEADS ROCK
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reader, CIsaac +, writes (4 February 2009):
 I for one love freckles and redheads. I don't think you should be self conscious.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (24 January 2009):
 Love them. Keep your hair long and wild.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (24 January 2009):
 Redheads are HAWT.Example : http://img245.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=20053_Celebutopia-Jennifer_Tilly-Inconceivable_Photocall_during_the_61st_International_Cannes_Film_Festival-03_122_467lo.jpgi rest my case.
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reader, Katy. +, writes (24 January 2009):
 i'm 15 and like you've described too, and even though i'm not the prettiest without being completley done up, on a general day to day basis (not being bigheaded) i seem to get more attention than many of the other girls. I'm completley differerent and boys seem to be attracted to that, its a change for them, from someone commonly pretty, i think as long as you have self confidence then no matter what you look like you can completeley shine to anyone.
I think enhancing your "unique" features makes you look prettier, say making your hair long and not covering up your freckles makes you much prettier than trying to hide whats underneath. Everyone is up to a matter of opinion, i mean some people find some people absolutley stunning, where as others find that same person completley unnattractive, no matter what you look like. Don't worry about your appearance too much, show your bubbly firey and passionate side that us redheads have a tendancy to have, if "satindesire" like she says this is a complete myth, so what, make it true,i think a strong personality gets you alot further in life.
hope this helps. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): So do I! And I am much older than you. And believe me, you have no problems. Well - perhaps only one problem - and that is being choosy about men. When I was at school I got teased for being different and was called 'ginger bonse' and spotty by the boys - boys will be boys at that age - I was a bit of an ugly duckling. When I was your age, I was so self-conscious about having freckles on my legs I covered them up all the time so they faded - then one day in the sun and they were back (and I burned like crazy!). But oh boy - when I was 21 - suddenly guys were drooling about the fact they could see I had freckly knees, and raving about my gorgeous long red hair (guys like long hair a lot by the way - generally). So as I say - the only real problem is - sussing out the wheat from the chaff. A lot of guys will fancy you but not be genuine about really liking you or being serious about you for who you are. A lot of guys fantasise about redheads (because the myth is not a myth - it is a genetic fact - that redheads are 'hotter' - ie more passionate) - and yes we do have a tendency to be a bit fiery - but they seem to like that too, because it just shows how passionate you can be. You are still in your teens - you have plenty of time to find someone. In the meantime - be confident - about yourself. Be yourself, do what you like doing and what you are good at and be happy - because confidence and a big smile are the most attractive things on the planet :-)
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 January 2009):
 Has always turned me on darling. In my youth, being just a little bit "different" was always considered preferable - Who wants to be like everybody else? And really, redheads are a great turn-on because they are a little less prevalent, as well as extremely passionate, in my experience.
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