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writes:Okay, I've been dating this guy for a year now, I'm in love with him.Like any woman who is physically attracted to someone, I want him. SOOO bad.I've never wanted someone so bad. I know we'll be together 'forever' or else I'd never consider sleeping with him.I have a few questions. PLEASE answer.PLEASE do not go on to say I'm too young. Please just answer my questions....I really need some advice :)1: If I had sex with him (YES I'M A VIRGIN) would the doctors or parents or w/e be able to tell? I don't go to a gyno yet they told us I could only go to that once I had sex. And of course, I DO NOT want to get caught.2:I know WHAT to do and all...but can someone explain exactly how and other things to do? I'm a nervous person when it comes to that and I hae screwing that stuff up.and 3: Any tips on things as far as oral sex and actual sex would be helpful.I've done oral but I still want to know things to make him feel even better.(Considerate I know. :P)Thanks a bunch guys!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): First of all i know exacly how you feel!!!! If a docter checks your vagina he might be able to tell...if your hymen hasn't alredy brocken, he could tell that way.LOL. haha. i just remembered. My hymen broke when i was 6! that's what horseback riding will do 2 ya. I had to consider it myself. but, be smart. be healthy. Your verginty can only be given away once! My best friend did it with her bf last year...she was 12! she regrets it terribly now!! i no she thanks god everyday his condom didnt break and she's not pregnate! anyway babe(no homo) just do what u feel is healthy for you. p.s.-make sure your bf doesn't hurt you...because he could.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 January 2009):
The fact you are having to sneak round and don't understand all this is a clear sign that you aren't ready for sex.
The age of consent is there for a reason. Imagine if it went wrong and the condom broke. Would you be ok going to a doctor to get the morning after pill? From the sounds of it you'd be too scared.
Wait till you are older. There is so much other stuff you could do until then. I know how much you want it as I was just the same at your age but if I had followed through and lost my virginity then I would still be regretting it now.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (24 January 2009):
 1- Maybe. If a doctor examines your vagina after sex within a days, there will be vaginal tears. Your hymen will also be broken, but very often that happens naturally, so that's not necessarily a telltale sign. Your parents won't be able to tell, but if you act nervous or jittery, they will know something is going on.
2-I'm not sure what you mean by "other things," but make sure he wears a condom, and make sure you have a spermicidal lubricant that does not affect the performance of the condom. Also, make sure he follows the directions on the box of condoms, and make sure he's not using an old condom he had in his wallet. Make sure your vagina is well lubricated because if you're not, it will hurt. It's going to hurt either way, but being lubricated will help.
Take it slow, and let your body tell you what it likes. If it hurts, stop and relax. Being very tense will make the muscles in your vagina tighten and that makes for a bad experience.
I'm not condoning what you're doing, and I do think you're too young. I know though that no matter what kind of feedback you get, you're going to do what you want, so be safe!
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