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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I like masturbating in places where I might get caught

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

30 January 2017 (M) - I have a problem and I know it's wrong but I can't stop doing it...please help. I masturbate a lot, which I guess is not that bad, but I like doing it in situations when I might get caught. Or I intentionally don't clean up probably as it g...

I don't understand the attitude of my hook-up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2816 days ago

30 January 2017 (F) - My hook up and I kept trying to make plans to, well you know, hook up, but he kept cancelling on me because something came up that he had to take care of. Anyway he apologized for being confusing lately (which idk what that really meant) but I...

Why do men say they need porn?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2839 days ago

30 January 2017 (F) - Why do people so often say men need porn when it's clearly a want not a need. No man has ever died of lack of porn and although men may prefer porn to masturbate with porn , men for thousands of years masturbated without the hardcore porn available ...

Is lack of length a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

29 January 2017 (M) - Friends, Need a suggestion from you friends, I am from India aged 28 and getting married to a girl in next 6 months I am worried about my length of my penis, When erect its 5.5 inch. When flaccid its about 3 to 3.5 inch varying. When I do some...

After 9 years together and 3 children our sex life remains bland. I love her. How can I find ways to interest her in oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2840 days ago

29 January 2017 (M) - Hi, I'm 26 years old. I have a fiancé I've been with for 9 years who is also 26 years old. We have 3 beautiful kids together. My question today is, why won't my fiancé suck me off? I have literally tried everything but I cannot convince her to d...

How can I get the physical affection aspect re-started in our relationship? The cuddles have stopped.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2841 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm not sure what to do. My husband and I mostly have a great relationship, but for the last few months he seems to touch me only for sex. I like sex, but I'm starting to resent it and not want to have it when it seems to be the only...

I'm having doubts about his ability to stay faithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2841 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 8/9 months now. He is 29 and I'm 31. He is into sex a lot and has a really high sex drive. He needs to have sex everyday plus masturbate once a day on top of that. I am not always up for sex everyday, ...

Is my boyfriend not attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2841 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - So I have been with my bf for a year now. He's such a caring, supportive and generous guy. During our first weeks of relationship, he initiates sex more often but not the great even but these days,he doesn't anymore. Sometimes, he even has a hard ...

I'm a sex addict and now my boyfriend is angry and withholding sex from me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2841 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Hi all. Im stuck in a situation that is difficult for me to talk about due to embarrassment. Im a sex addict and have been dating the same man for going on 5 years now. At first, our sex life was incredible. I thanked god for sending me a man that ...

Affair with my best friend but I have a partner of 18 years and a one year old that we had after years of trying. What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2838 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I've been with my partner for 18 years I do love him and we have a one year old which we tried for years to have. But for the last 3 year I have been having an affair with my best friend who's showed me so much love , a lot more love than I seem to ...

I know we can solve any problems but he just acts distant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2845 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Hi I really need some male opinion on this, I was friends with this guy 3 years ago we started having sex without admitting that we were in a relationship which was what we both wanted at that time ( though it seemed like we had feelings for each...

He is much older but I want to have sex with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I knew a guy at work. I'm 22 he is 41. A very sexy man. Do u think he will have something with me after sex. We decided to be friends with benefits. He is in a relationship with a 31 years old . We planned to have sex this weekend. Do you think is ...

Our marriage is totally devoid of all physical contact!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

27 January 2017 (M) - I am writing to you because I feel I have no one to tell. I have been married for 20 years to a woman who is the mother of my three children (19, 17 1nd 12). We haven't had sex since before the birth of our youngest child and its killing me. In f...

Do cheating married men usually have more than one mistress?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - Do married men who cheat, cheat with more than one mistress at a time? Or do some men stay with just one? I am interested in everybody weighing in with their opinions. ...

He left me because I wouldn't have sex with him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - . my partner left me. because i dnt want sex with him before marriage. but he want. thats why he leave me. he switched off his phone. but i love him. . i want to talk to him. i feel alone without him. i love him. i want to die.plz help me....

I hid a recorder and heard breathing, is he cheating or watching porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

27 January 2017 (?) - Hello Everyone, I have a unique issue. I don't trust my husband. For varies reasons. Alot of people thought I should hire a Detective. I really don't have the money for that. A friend of mine suggested I get a voice recorder and set it in the m...

Really nervous about trying a strap-on for the first time. Do I bring up the topic before or during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2848 days ago

25 January 2017 (F) - Hey dear community! I've a girlfriend (she's 25) for a while now (about 1.5 years) and all in all its pretty awsome. The sex is really amazing, far better than anything I ever had and she is feeling the same. We really care for each other, even...

I'm more interested in sex than my boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2846 days ago

24 January 2017 (F) - Should I back off and give boyfriend some room? Is there something wrong with me because I have a high sex drive? How can I get him to perform oral sex first without directly asking for it? We've been dating for 9 months I'm in love with him. I ...

Are my friends wrong? Is this a sugar daddy relationship? Or do I tell him how I really feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - I moved to a different province for school. I ended up meeting an older guy , he's 41. We decided to not focus on labels and to just have fun , we both agreed that because of our age difference changes are our relationship wouldn't probably last ...

Is it degrading to let a guy ejaculate on you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2848 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - When I was 15, my mother sat me down and had "the talk". She is very open and liberal, so we ended up talking about everything from sex and birth control to relationships and life in general. One of the things she was adamant about was that por...

My boyfriend's parents are strict and I'm not sure what to do anymore

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm kind of new to this so I apologize if this is a bit unorganized. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half and besides the ups and downs we are very much in love with each other and even plan to have a f...

How can an older woman feel sexy when their partner obesesses over girls 20 years younger?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - How does an older woman ever feel good enough or sexy enough especially when her partner is obsessed with watching women twenty years younger than her. I know the usual answer is to ' realise he is with you and if he wanted that he would have that ' ...

Everything was great .... except the sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - Hi. I am seeing someone and we get on so well. Everything is great. But we had sex for the first time and he treated me like a one night stand. He was just concerned about having an orgasm. He has never been in a relationship before. I know the ...

My son punched a guest, when guest videoed him and girlfriend having sex.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

22 January 2017 (M) - My son is 19 he has been dating his girlfriend since he was 16 and she was 15. We have a pretty open relationship with them. Over the weekend they went out to a party with their friends and at our house my husband and I threw a surprise party for ...

I feel inadequate!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

22 January 2017 (M) - Here I am..again. Now trying to stop loving my wife. During the last 6 months 3 of her former FWB have written e-mails to her remembering their pleasure moments...I found out reading those e-mails (not spying , given we both have open access t...

I like this guy I'm dating, but the sex is nice but not amazing. How do I discuss this with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - I have just started dating a truly lovely guy, he is adorable and I really enjoy spending time with him. The problem is, things aren't totally electric in the bedroom. I'm quite a sexual person and chemistry and sexual connection is really important ...

How can I get over my sexual frustration without making choices I may regret?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 18 this year and there's this guy who I'm really interested in at work. We're kinda friends and flirt and stuff. Not only have I got feelings for him but I'm so sexually attracted to him I sometimes can't think straight. He's a touchy kinda ...

Hello everybody, I need some advise ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

22 January 2017 (M) - Hello everyone I need some Advice. I'm gay and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and we love each other sooo much! The only problem is the sex. At the beginning of our relationship my boyfriend was a virgin and I was his first....

My friend won't say if he is gay or bi should I ask if I can give him a bj?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

21 January 2017 (M) - I've never done it before but I would like to have sex with this guy I know, I think he is bi,but I can't be sure, I stop by his house every one in a while,I never known him to be with a woman since we have been friends five or six years,he spends a ...

Am I too selfish to love anyone? Where or how do I begin to determine what needs to be fixed within me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

21 January 2017 (M) - I'm in a place now where my mentality is adversely affecting my ability to attract a mate. I'll start off by saying as of now, I see women as sex itself. For the most part, I don't care about their dreams, goals, past, family, etc. When I'm aroun...

I love my partner but we've been having sexual issues and I'm starting to develop feelings for a colleague

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - Hi all, I am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I have been with my partner for just over 5 years and we have been extremely happy. We are best friends and have been since the start. Very recently I have started developing feelings for ...

Retroactive jealousy on my part. Plus why would she go and look for another dom given everything that has happened?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1189 days ago

19 January 2017 (M) - Hi Folks, First off, let me say hi as I am new here! Please excuse this long message but I need to try to explain my feelings and also explain some of what has been said. My problem is with retroactive jealousy over my girlfriends past. ...

She has no problems trying to crush my ego. NOW she says I'm bad in bed. How should I respond to her insults about lovemaking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

18 January 2017 (M) - My girlfriend completely criticized my sex. Said I suck in bed when she's been wanting me for 3 years saying that no one knows her body like me and she never felt this good before and blah blah blah. But as soon as she gets mad at me that complet...

How can I get my current Gf to trust me? I've not cheated on her. But I did cheat on my ex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

18 January 2017 (M) - I cheated on my first love two years ago with my current girlfriend. I broke up with my first love to set her free from my cheating ways. I still love her and check her social media accounts to see how she's doing but I never told her I cheated wh...

Is there any way I can change his perceptions about me? How should or could I attract him back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - Its been 50 days. My boyfriend broke up with me.. It was all my fault. Its been 2 years. For 1 year we were together when i was working ..but from last 1 year we are in long distance. I live with my parents and i am jobless. My career is ...

This bothers me a lot. What can I do? Married nearly 15 years and now my wife is no longer interested in Bjs.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2848 days ago

18 January 2017 (M) - Been married for nearly 15 years. My wife has basically decided that she will no longer perform oral sex on me. It's not like I was getting once a week, in fact once every two years is more like the current rate. When we first married, it was some...

My girlfriend told me that I have 'dry 10 second sex'!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

18 January 2017 (M) - My girlfriend told me that I have "Dry 10 second sex" and I took it as a insult because to me it felt like she was saying that she doesn't enjoy my sex anymore. I told her how I felt and tried to move past it but I just couldn't it makes me feel ...

How can I find out if I am fertile ... or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

17 January 2017 (M) - dear cupid im worried about my fertility im 35 years old mals i dated a lady 28 year for 3 years relationzhip.staying together.she got preg and i went for dna with her and found that im not the farther.it happened to me on past i get a girlfriend ...

He says my body is his.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - My partner of 3 yrs and i have a beautiful little girl who is 1. Lately my partner has been trying touching me and trying to penetrate me whilst we are playing with our daughter which i have put a stop to. He has started sayimg he can touch me ...

Logically I know it doesn't matter, but I am struggling with my Girlfriend's past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

16 January 2017 (M) - I know a lot of you are going to say this is just another guy with hang-ups and insecurities suffering from hypocritical retrospective jealousy – and to a certain extent you may be right – but I really am desperate to fix this (fix myself?), so ...

I think I am pregnant and the dad has disappeared.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

15 January 2017 (F) - Well. I met a guy months ago. We went out 3 times. At the 2nd one we had sex. I was the one who brought the sexual topic to the conversation. After sex we had sex once more. And the condom didn't work. I think I'm probably pregnant. He started ...

I found a dildo in my boyfriend's closet!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

13 January 2017 (F) - I'm a 47 year old woman that found a dildo in my boyfriend's closet! We've been dating 2 year's and only see each other on the weekends,but talk every night. He has two kids,so he's home with them every night. He isn't vocal about what he wants in ...

I want the words to tell him I don't want to just sleep him, I want a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

12 January 2017 (?) - Hey! So I've been dating this guy for around 2 months. He lives in Harrogate and I live in Manchester. We both drive and can see each other all the time. But he has just got out of a relationship literally a month before we started dating, he has b...

He told me "nothing happened" when he went for a massage and I don't whether to believe him or not. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

12 January 2017 (F) - My partner went to one only ones I been with him for 12 years have 4 daughters and the youngest one is only 3 months old I noticed with our sexual relationship I will have sex with him 3 times a week with my choosing and normally it's all the time...

Will sex ruin the relationship or make it better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

12 January 2017 (M) - Male(21) Hi..I am 21 and she is she is younger than me. We are in a relationship since last 7 months.We meet frequently.And now I think we both are ready for getting physical. I am confused is sex good for our relation or will it ruin our relation...

Need to reset my compass when it comes to men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

11 January 2017 (F) - Dear all All of my life I have struggled with self-acceptance issues. I tried hard to work on my self-esteem and confidence. I'm pretty confident at the current time but the thing is every time anyone approaches me in an intimate way I find myself p...

The sex is good but I want more!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I'll get straight to the point: I'm not happy with my sex life. I'e been with my husband for 15 years, we're married for 4. we are happy in our realtionship- though there are always things to work on. He works a lot, which is fine. He is caring and ...

Do women dream about male virgins too?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2836 days ago

9 January 2017 (M) - Dear female cupids Many men dream of making love to a virgin Girl and teach her all about sex. Do women dream about male virgins too? Personally I haven't had this Kind of desire, although i lost my own virginity to another virgin. My ...

How do I get him to last longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - M boyfriend and I are in a Long Distance Relationship. We see each other every 4-6 weeks. I've been noticing that when we have sex, he doesn't last long... no more than maybe a minute or two at most. His explanation is that because he goes without ...

The sex is frustrating for me, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - Hello aunties. I've been seeing thisguy for a while and sex is very frustrating for me. Almost nothing he does turns me on and I feel embarrassed because he does take his time with foreplay: kissing, sucking on my nipples ( which are almost numb ...